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Coleslove
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Alright STOP!!!
I wnt u felas to read in between the lines of the man's text i am even more particular about his heading. Of What Use Is My Girlfriend If I Can't Have Sex With Her? The word OF WHAT USE His purpose for having the GIRLFRIEND is for SEX. Now the issue here is if the Lady was sensitive enough to know as at time of approach or should have read the writings on d Ceilings. The guy just want her to satisfy his libido and she ain't coping up. He den cals it quits and want u all to justify his actions. I believe the Lady might have sumtin to say. Did she not know she was meant for slaughter? Nevertheless my brada just have say like N500. I blive u can get a whore for that amount as long as you keep having ur 5cheese. Forget ur CD if you like. Two words are enough 4 d foolish.
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Abasido
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N a wa for una, A guy complained that he has not boned his girlfriend for 2.5 years, instead of make the forum hail am, or give am national award, some "saints" are trying to crucify him. brother u try no be small, but since you have waited for 2.5 years, of what use will it be for you to end the relationship, maybe you should endure for another 2.5 years, u fit lucky make she finally allow you "shine Kongo".  Before the patient dog eats the fattest bone, but nowadays the patient dog goes to bed hungry.
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Vie (f)
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I wont claim i know her reasons but whatever it is, i give her a thumb up. If you see no use for her besides sex then move on because u definitely don't love her and don't have a clue about what love is, i have been there and i think, it took that decision to let me see how selfish and self centered some guys can be.
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Josh4ever9
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C'mon, the guy has been patient for 2.5 years, So for 2.5 years he's been patient with her and gone along with HER wishes, He says he a healthy man, so for that long he's gone without just for HER, I say props to u man. It's time for her to go along with his wishes, after all if she loves him, it won't be all about her. I say tell her that u want some n u don't want to cheat on her, if she says do it with another girl but don't leave well, but if she still refuses to see ur wishes then leave n go with someone that will, or if u really want to be with her, get very friendly with palmina, 
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sage (m)
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guy i go talk am again
Zip ur wallet tight or seal am with glu or even aradite
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ghettochyk (f)
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hi fellow readers.i am a guy and i have a girl. we have been dating for two and half years and she always try to make me undersatand that she loves me.the annoying thing about this wholei ssue is that,she prevents me from having sex with her. i am a guy, fully charged ,i deserve to have sex when it matters.funny enough she said she is not a virgin. so why deny me. i need your advice,i don't want to hurt are by cheating on her, so i have decided to end the relationship inorder to have my way.advise me please u shudn't dump her cus'a that. u should try to find out why she's holding out on you. she might be practicing celibacy (good for her) or maybe she's loves u so much she's trying to protect you from an std. well, watever her reason is, u shudn't just dump cus'a that. in da end, it's up to either of you to work out whatever in ur relationship. i know a guy that married his wife even tho before the marriage he knew she has aids. it's a long story i think i told when i first joined NL. they're still married, and yes at over 40 years old AND married, he's still a virgin.
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magneto (m)
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i know a guy that married his wife even tho before the marriage he knew she has aids. it's a long story i think i told when i first joined Nairaland. they're still married, and yes at over 40 years old AND married, he's still a virgin.
WTF!!!  no comment!
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nyabinghi (m)
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Guy,
Please dump that babe. She is robbing peter to pay paul. I once had a babe like that , she comes for academic and financial support and goes ahead to ox some other guys and she preaches non-stop love. Sex is really important in a relationship. Sex could easily lead to love and love could do same vice-versa.
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Rhea (m)
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This is a very simple issue. The girl is your girl friend but doesn't want to have sex with you. But she's not a virgin. You may need to reassess the terms and conditions of your relationship.
It is not unusual to date without sex. It just has to be agreed from the onset. You sound like a drill bit, so I think that the no-sex option may be a no-no for you. End the relationship and start another where you can run your completions without restrictions. Remember to tell the girl that if she ain't fishing with you, then the deal is off.
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Jozovor (m)
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My Guy.If you truly truly love this babe like you say then i sincerely think you will zip up for her 
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Abasido
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Zip up ko Zip up ni, u for advise am make him go castrate himself because of love, the guy say Konji wan kill am, Pally plenty girls dey wey go give u the kongo, na you go tire sef.
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bestcomm (m)
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Honestly am  of this guy because his not matured,eligible,qualified to have that gul. just go through his statement over and over again (Of What Use Is My Girlfriend If I Can't Have Sex With Her?) his is not qualified anyday,anytime at all to have that babe. I think in a relationship sex shouldn`t be the first thing to be writting on your notepad. As a young man i think her love for you goes a long way, it takes two or three to achieve. Remember there is a saying that ("BEHIND EVERY SUCESSFUL MAN THERE IS A WOMAN BEHIND "). I think with her love which i think she always claim for you should be your happyness and not sex. I do hear some people say that in every relationship there should be sex between both sex, but i would like to let you know that, all what they said are silly , sorry to say that but that the truth and truth would always remain bitter in life. well next time i think i would write much on this topic
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alabiyemmy (m)
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i pray this thread is closed. ha!
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ghettochyk (f)
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i think it makes more sense that if she's there for the money, she'D give him what he wants to get what she wants.by the looks of things, i don't think she's there for any bread.
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adagirl (f)
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if you love her,then u need to ask her this question because i think she might have her reasons.
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Cyclone5 (m)
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Maybe she's having sex with someone else and doesn't want to cheat on him. 
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Gheorghe (m)
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good mornin boy,suddeningly wakes up after 2 & half years 2 realise u need sex  see no love comin her way from u be true 2 yourself and let d good/poor girl go. need sex?  u sure know where 2 get one
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LEVI2ME (m)
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let us all tell the truth, if the Girl isnt giving it to him then she maybe getting it another place, i've been taught never to trust a girl because they don't behave like men so you can't read them neither can you excuse them they will always be a girl. so my guy if you doubt this girl walk away but i you don't then you will be a fool to leave her. kapish don't ever allow a woman talk you for a ride in a relationship.
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Jozovor (m)
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Levi2me, u say u have been taught not to trust women! wow, that is a big thing to say. Can i conclude that you don't trust your mother? Did i hear you say God forbid? while there are many ladies you can trust, i still believe that there are some good ones out there. I believev its case of "taking out the log in your eye so that you can see the speck in my eye".
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trendy (f)
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if u can't have sex with her
u can watch movies with her! go to the cinema's together talk to each other cook together sleep together (not sex) play with her hair cook for her write her poems
lol, guys don't like these things
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sage (m)
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if u can't have sex with her
u can watch movies with her! go to the cinema's together talk to each other cook together sleep together (not sex) play with her hair cook for her write her poems
lol, guys don't like these things
All this one i hope say no be the guy go pay sha. As long as say she no de chop I'm Money  . Il say carry go
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Bulga (m)
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I do not understand what you guys are talking about. Don't you know that some guys do not smoke nor drink alcohol. Most of such guys catch their fun only by bang-bang! So if you have such a boyfriend you will continue to starve him of that thing after 2 and half years. Story. story!
Most Nigerian girls act too much drama whenever it comes to bang-bang and they do that mainly to guys who are not financially up and doing. "It's mainly about the Benjamins". I have passed that stage in life and can never take that from any girl anymore. Such treatment will certainty kill the love I have for the girl and I will run away for good.
Before you start criticizing me, I want you to understand that I am not a player but a one-woman man by nature. Sure, there is more to life than bang-bang. But I am the type who needs that thing to love and cherish that girl more. Besides, I don't want to end up with an asexual as a wife. A relationship without intimate connection is a dead one.
@ Badchris I suspect she treats you that way because you are not financially up and doing. I suggest you suspend that love and go to hustle for wealth. I am sure you will become everybody's darling when you come back with too much money. Then she will be the one running after you and complaining that you don't want to bang her.
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lawenjins (m)
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friendship is not all about sex but learning from each other , sex is worth waiting for
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Bulga (m)
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@lawenjins Am glad that you and some others can live for 100 years without sex. But please understand that some people have highe sex drive than others. It is totally wrong to consider high sex driver person to be a player or sinner. God is the one who gave different sex drives to different people. And King David had a high sex drive and was not perfect but was a man after God own heart.
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sandoka (m)
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Some girls can act very funny which we guys may not expect. When we need to see them, they are there. When we need to take them out, they are always there. But when we need to have sex with them, they are out of sight. I am saying this because the last two girl friends i have had behaved this way to me.
Each time i ask them to make love with me they give excuses from menses to heat period and so on which sometimes can be very annoying. But there is nothing one will do to force them to have sex with you unless you want to rape them which is a very bad thing to do. Little did i know that they had other boyfriends besides me until it came to my notice.
So it could be that she has another guy besides you and she doesn't want to be sleeping with more than one person at a time.
So if you can't be patient with her, then find another girl who will be there for you at the time of sex. But opting out of your relationship for two and a half years is not an option. Give her some more time and keep talking to her.
Love is like a lantern that glows and what keeps the lantern glowing is the fuel in it. It will keep glowing for as long as there is fuel in it. If it goes out of fuel, then the lantern will glow out. Sex is the fuel that makes a relationship glow.
So all these talk about relationship should not be based on sex is vague. Let's talk reality here.
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Raphaelito (m)
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the only advice i can give you is that, sit her down and talk to her. she's not a virgin doesn't mean she is sleeping around. if she really loves you (you must ask her) then know that she is not ready for sex yet and there is no need to be in rush ok. so it will be better to hold your horse rather than giving it to a whole out there.
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stunatic (m)
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u can tell that kiki is still a virgin, i would advice she'D stay that way
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ukoma (m)
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I do not see anything special in having sex with your girlfriend. I also have one and we have never embrassed each other let alone kiss or have sex. I do not value sex and I do not thing she does. I have the urge but I just pray and get over it.It is not easy though. My girlfriend says she is a virgin,I do not doubt her but from her attitudes,I know she loves me very much. sex is meant for married people and not for unmarried people like you and I. Must people say having sex with her will make her love me very much,but I do not thing that is true. you really love her,do not let sex make you hate her because she loves you too. this is my advice to you. just take care and I will keep on relating with you.
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Bulga (m)
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I do not see anything special in having sex with your girlfriend. I also have one and we have never embrassed each other let alone kiss or have sex. I do not value sex and I do not thing she does. I have the urge but I just pray and get over it.It is not easy though. My girlfriend says she is a virgin,I do not doubt her but from her attitudes,I know she loves me very much. sex is meant for married people and not for unmarried people like you and I. Must people say having sex with her will make her love me very much,but I do not thing that is true. you really love her,do not let sex make you hate her because she loves you too. this is my advice to you. just take care and I will keep on relating with you.
@ukoma That is "love in Malaysia". I am happy it works for you. In my world we call it "fairy tale love" 
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