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sage (m)
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Guy na only one advice i get 4u
don't SPEND A PENNY ON HER FROM NOW ON REGARDLESS OF WHAT OCCASSION. IF SHE IS WAITING FOR MARRIAGE, GOOD FOR HER BUT YOU TOO SHOULD BE WAITING FOR IT B/for you SPEND 10 KOBO. IF SHE DOES NOT WANT TO WAIT FOR YOU TO GET READY B/4 YOU SPEND MONEY ON HER KICK HER OUT OF THE WINDOW. KEEP UR MUNEY IN UR POCKET. EVEN IF AT THE END OF THE DAY SHE DE DO HER THING WITH SOMEBODY ELSE, U WONT BE A FULL TIME LOSER
@natasha. ul probably kill me for this but the truth is all men see women as sexual objects to a certain degree. All men, no exception. Ask me and il tell you why.
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odada (m)
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@sage chei!abeg tell me before u tell her kwanu ;Dsex object ke?my girlfriend must not hear this!  |
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oluite (f)
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@ topic-of what use is my girlfriend if i can't have sex with her.  That means for u.The use of ur girlfriend is sex.change ur orientation please. |
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PAGO (m)
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bros,
its not a rule nither is it a culture to have sex with your
girlfriend!
Is she your wife? if yes then GO AHEAD!!!
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gbeborun (m)
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Na wa o, i knw that ladies will always want to play saint when it comes to issues like this. My guy, i don't blame you for leaving after 2.5 years! chei u try well well. Will advice you from my own experience, met this girl who was a vee-boot, she had a b/friend of 2.5yrs and no sex with the guy, but she did it with me barely 3wks into us meeting. How about that? I did it though and no regrets, but come to think of it, what about the fella that waited for 2.5yrs?
Like i said before, wont blame you sha, as long as she no be born-again, wetin be her problem?
My guy, think twice. if u really love her, then play away to satisfy the urge.
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twinstaiye (m)
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no sex for two and half years? How are both of you managing? don't make us believe both of you have not been getting your grove somewhere else. That I can't believe. You see, truth is, neither you nor your girl can hold body for two and half years without getting the piece of the action somewhere else. Just ask yourself, if you can hold your body for that long without seeing any other person, then she could too, and she is justify not to have sex with you, but if you can't hold body, my man, she too dey get service somewhere else.
Having said this, I want to believe sex in a relationship should be on both party mutual consent, it need not be ask for by either party, it should be something that should continue to happen naturally between couples. If your girl decided to hoard it, then the relationship is heading to a doom. Sincerely speaking, sex in a relationship is very important, a situation like this scenario is an example that, your sex life as a couple is nothing to write home about. If I were you, two option is open to me, either I quit the relationship or get my groove somewhere else, which is exactly what I believe both of you are doing for the past two and half years.
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gbeborun (m)
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and to the ladies on this thread, if you knw that U R HAVIN SEX with ur b/friend, please don't give any advice or condemn anyone, you have to practice what you preach. If otherwise, make you fire down with your advice as it makes a whole truck load of sense.
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wiseguy (m)
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and to the ladies on this thread, if you knw that U R HAVIN SEX with your b/friend, please don't give any advice or condemn anyone, you have to practice what you preach. If otherwise, make you fire down with your advice as it makes a whole truck load of sense.
I concur. |
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odada (m)
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me 2too!heheheh  |
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ChieFoH (m)
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@blow and odada
omo me myself i no believe am o! say i last 4 YEARS and counting without having sex with my baby, but i have a secret to how i did it sha, would'nt post that here until i hear how natasha did hers, maybe i have someone in the same shoes with me
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beau1 (f)
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Why would you be dating for such a long time without any concrete plans for the future for your girl, If you realy love her as you claim, you will think of proposing marriage to her (except you're underaged; and if you are why play around), and then she'll be more flexible with you (not having sex though).
OR if she agrees with you and you dump her afterwards who loses? she of course. So, let her be, she's just been wise.
If you love her then do what is right. period
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moondust (m)
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my guy, all u have 2 do is take another girl (prettier than her) home and make sure your girl catches both of u making out, you'll be surprised how fast she will give you the thing  |
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fabulous10 (m)
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u guys are amazing me.by the guys name u can clearly see that he is a bad guy,'BAD CHRIS" . how i wish i know the girl that he is refearing to, i'll tell her to burst his side, because once he chops the coco i can vow that he is going to dump her. |
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brownbaby (f)
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Why would you be dating for such a long time without any concrete plans for the future for your girl, If you realy love her as you claim, you will think of proposing marriage to her (except you're underaged; and if you are why play around), and then she'll be more flexible with you (not having sex though).
OR if she agrees with you and you dump her afterwards who loses? she of course. So, let her be, she's just been wise.
If you love her then do what is right. period
I feel you beau 1.  |
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moondust (m)
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check well o, she be hemaphrodite,
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magneto (m)
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Guy na only one advice i get 4u
don't SPEND A PENNY ON HER FROM NOW ON REGARDLESS OF WHAT OCCASSION. IF SHE IS WAITING FOR MARRIAGE, GOOD FOR HER BUT YOU TOO SHOULD BE WAITING FOR IT B/for you SPEND 10 KOBO. IF SHE DOES NOT WANT TO WAIT FOR YOU TO GET READY B/4 YOU SPEND MONEY ON HER KICK HER OUT OF THE WINDOW. KEEP UR MUNEY IN UR POCKET. EVEN IF AT THE END OF THE DAY SHE DE DO HER THING WITH SOMEBODY ELSE, U WONT BE A FULL TIME LOSER by far the most sensible post i've read on this topic!! @ poster - please if the babe no wan do like that, no be by force. afterall u've managed for 2 years. . . what have u been doing all the while? if i were u i won't stay 1 month!!! but it may be that u like her, then i'd also advice u to treat her to her own medicine and suspend all "monetary support", until y'all are officially married! see if she'll not dump ur ass real fast!*hisssss!!* |
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davidylan (m)
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i once dated a girl for 11 months, no sex! It was by far the most fulfilling of any of my relationships, we kissed only 3 times but if i had my way i'd go back to her in a flash!
There's soooooo much more to a relationship besides having sex, trust me once u have sex with her once it is likely you both are going to end up with a relationship based purely on physical attraction. Once that fades what will be left?
What about having a girl to talk to, someone who makes you laugh, someone to share an intimate joke with?
What happened to the good days of taking a long walk talking about silly stuff, staring o each others eyes saying nothing, holding hands, planning ur future together?
what happened to the days of cooking for each other? Are you going to throw all that away just for 5 mins of sexual pleasure?
What happens when you become sexually attracted to someone else? She goes straight out of the window?
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gee. (m)
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If you really love her as you claim I don't think you need to have sex with her since you guys are not married yet though she messed up but if you can give a second chance go ahead and the issue of sex should be removed please.
If I may ask, do you really wann marry her?
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sisimose (f)
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@Topic
what use are you to your girlfriend if you can't manage to get her hot enough to want to sleep with you
Abegi!
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davidylan (m)
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There are 3 categories of women as far as i am concerned:
1. The non-existent - You don't see them, they don't exist, you have nothing to do with them. They don't attract you
2. The relationshipp type - You are attracted to them but the attraction is based on purely on sex. You like them but not enough to move the relationship to the next level. After a few months of freebies, you're looking for the next lay.
3. The "take me home to mama" type - once you see them you know. You cherish them. These ones are not meant as sex objects. They are the real deal and you are prepared to wait till Christ comes before you toouch them.
Which of 2 and 3 does your girlfriend fall into?
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Omo Eko (f)
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i once dated a girl for 11 months, no sex! It was by far the most fulfilling of any of my relationships, we kissed only 3 times but if i had my way i'd go back to her in a flash!
There's soooooo much more to a relationship besides having sex, trust me once u have sex with her once it is likely you both are going to end up with a relationship based purely on physical attraction. Once that fades what will be left?
What about having a girl to talk to, someone who makes you laugh, someone to share an intimate joke with?
What happened to the good days of taking a long walk talking about silly stuff, staring o each others eyes saying nothing, holding hands, planning your future together?
what happened to the days of cooking for each other? Are you going to throw all that away just for 5 mins of sexual pleasure?
What happens when you become sexually attracted to someone else? She goes straight out of the window?
That is the best reply u have ever made comment on  @the topic Anyway davidylan has said it all, relationship is not about sex |
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ThiefOfHearts (f)
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i once dated a girl for 11 months, no sex! It was by far the most fulfilling of any of my relationships, we kissed only 3 times but if i had my way i'd go back to her in a flash!
Lol what kind deeper life mormon type did you get into a relationship with? lol, kissed 3 times? lolz. did you two have group prayer before each kiss?  as for the idiotic topic at hand, the girl was pretty damn stupid for telling him that she wasnt a virgin because had she been one, you know he wouldnt even have waited a year before asking her to marry him talkless of 3 years. You are all losers. |
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gina34 (f)
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@ gee You are correct, sex is not all that matter in a relationship. Though Nija guys misplace sex for love.  |
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gina34 (f)
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Well i dated a guy for 4 years and without sex.
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davidylan (m)
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Lol what kind deeper life mormon type did you get into a relationship with? lol, kissed 3 times? lolz. did you two have group prayer before each kiss? lol no blame the chic at all. It was her first and she cried every time! Though Nigeria guys misplace sex for love. Which Nigerian guys? Talk for ur brothers and cousins only |
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abohrandy
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wait oh who said u must have sex only with ur girlfriend.
wht does she have that other girls do not have
if she no want comply then there is no thinking twice
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debosky (m)
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Gimme a break y'all, the guy said he wants to shag, and he wants to do it with his girlfriend, he's not saying he's going to shag anything that crosses his path so he definitely likes this girl somewhat. the issue lies in the reason behind her refusing to have sex. If he wants to have sex, does he need your approval to do so? he wants to, but the chick doesn't, he wants to choose the honorable thing by breaking it up so he's not unfaithful and y'all want to crucify him.
ol boy, if you can't hold body, let the girl know the reason and end it. but if you've been at it for 2.5 years, what are your plans? is marriage anywhere on the horizon? if it is, I suggest you wait till then, don't delay getting married if you're both of age, and find out the reason behind her not wanting to have sex
He never said sex is all that matters, if that was the case he wouldn't have waited 2.5 years.
and all this crap about if you 'love' her you wont ask for sex must stop, doesn't the husband who asks for sex from his wife love her?
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Blow (m)
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If he doesnt have sex with his girlfriend
Is he going to die?
Abeg give me a break
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ThiefOfHearts (f)
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cries before kissing. please tell me she was 13 debo, if she were a virgin, you know his plans would have been marriage. he has NO plans for her hence the crass topic because she's NOT a virgin and she's not giving it up to him. Does he even know the story behind why/how she lose it the first time |
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4 Play (m)
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What is the point of having a girlfriend if you can't screw her.Is it for companionship? Women are a boring lot.They don't love football,they can't tell the difference between Republicans and Democrats,they have no sense of humor,they talk rubbish all the time and have what they call "sensitivity" Bull,if you can't screw the girl ,she is totally useless |
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4 Play (m)
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If he doesnt have sex with his girlfriend
Is he going to die?
Yes!He can die.Studies have shown that men in relationships who have less sex die younger than those who get more sex. So his girl is effectively murdering him. |
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ThiefOfHearts (f)
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Women are a boring lot.They don't love football
Bloody lies! and wetin concern British man with republican and democrat. better mind your mmonarchy |
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