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le govo (m)
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its either day or night,
no in between schedule aight, or how can you drive a car with no engine ? How can you lick sugar & taste bitter Leaf.
How will you qualify for competition & not wish to witness the Finals.
In every aspect of life, one thing will always lead to one thing then something surely bring about something.
its either you do it or don't.
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monstah (m)
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e don do me, abeg if u know say u no want wahala no start am at all, or better yet,dey frequent ashi joint!  |
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Everbright (f)
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Resist the devil and he will flee from you Do not start what you cannot finish I know sometimes you can't help but feel horny,the best thing to do is stay away from each other  |
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seun001 (m)
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see y reading the Bible by yourself is really important.oga reverned this are really extreme misinterpretations.y do u qooute a part of the Bible to fit your explanation eh!!!this is just the same things other pastors do.i do hope u have not been preaching this to your congregation. anyways,if u start foreplay,the tendency to stop inbetween is very very low except there is an intruder,even so,the intruder will be disposed off asap to continue thwe process.so its better not to be in a position of compromise. don't know y we keep deciving our selves 99% of smooching always lead to sex or cheating from one partner
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vicoco2003 (m)
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I read through all the reply on this topic and had cause to laugh.Some people have made significant contribution like the "dablessed" and others.
I agreed with dablessed that it is possible to stay in a relationship without premarital sex ]BUT IT IS NOT AN EASY TASK ESPECIALLY THIS DAYS THAT ALOT OF LADIES(EVEN THE SO CALLED SISTER IN CHURCH) WALK OUT OF R/SHIP BECOS THE BROTHER MAY NOT BE INTERESTED IN PREMARITAL SEX.
We don't have the same grace,so lets Pray that God will help us to stay out of premarital sex.
It is easier for two Virgins(male n female) not ot engage in premarital sex than those who has tasted the forbiden fruit.
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ne4real (f)
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na wa ooooh!!! some people go talk say them no like to dance makosa music; but when them play am 4 gospel, them go dance.
y deceive ourselves
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smile76 (f)
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interesting, sex can be experienced in different ways guys, it depends on what suits who. if you don't want premarital sex, then don't even try kissing and stuff, just hold hands and that's it. you don't have to have penetrated sex only. there's foreplays, oral sex, masturbating, all classified as sex. if youwant the show go ahead and don't start what you can finish.
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amaikama (m)
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You guys have come again with funny! funny sort of thread that has countlessly complications. How do you all think the premarital sex start form? Is it not from the hugging, petting as you all call it and smooching when both of you are together and alone in a dark room or colored light and the door locked, the keys on the table, windows all short, curtains drawn and a romantic song, song like L/Richie, "Endless love" or like, "Am going crazy over you" is been played on the DVD with nobody to bear you witness etc that leads to sex? Listen, am going to say this only once! if you know you are not ready for any thing call premarital sex, please and please am begging you to stay away from relationship as a whole!!!  and if peradventure you happen to have one through divine arrangement (i did not say from God oo.! make una no crucify me) stay away from each other pending when you two are planing to get married and make una do am quick! quick!! i don talk my own be that |
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mellow (m)
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For me there is no need for me to go Isreal, play with
and around all the mountains that sorround Jerusalem
without actually entering Jerusalem. God forbid! I am
a finisher so I do not start what I cannot finish. I go Isreal
de look Jerusalem but I no fit enter. Nosence
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amaikama (m)
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ne4real, abeg help me tell them boo!! i don tired for them. them just be like my younger brother when e chop and e see say e never belleful e go dey wait make them ask am if e don chop and when them ask am, e go say, "no, na only small i chop." that's why i like a girl who is straightforward than one who will tell me, "no! no sex before marriage or kissing, hugging or whatever." then one day start hearing stories that touches the heart. hmmm!! cassala go burst that day. |
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amaikama (m)
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"For me there is no need for me to go Isreal, play with
and around all the mountains that sorround Jerusalem
without actually entering Jerusalem. God forbid! I am
a finisher so I do not start what I cannot finish. I go Isreal
de look Jerusalem but I no fit enter. Nosence"
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amaikama (m)
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"For me there is no need for me to go Isreal, play with and around all the mountains that sorround Jerusalem without actually entering Jerusalem. God forbid! I am a finisher so I do not start what I cannot finish. I go Isreal de look Jerusalem but I no fit enter. Nosence" Mellow!! I feel you!!! I will surely and blessfuly enter my jerusalem come out and re-enter again for the secon and if possible the third time  |
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mellow (m)
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Abi o my brother!
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anny2007
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My dear friends, it,s realy true that its good not to start what u can't finish, i was very very lucky that i fast realised my self. I did,nt do all this as in kissing , sex etc in my university days so early this year, i tried to allow my b/friend kiss nd caress me nd he did it the first ,2nd, 3rd nd the 4th time, it was almost taking another dimension, i still thk God for the grace to have stoped it that eveing. If it had happened, i dnt knw if i would av 4given my self.
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zubbiedan (m)
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don't know y we keep deciving our selves 99% of smooching always lead to sex or cheating from one partner
i strongly concur with you why start wot you can't finish |
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abilityman (m)
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i strongly concur with you why start wot you can't finish
what if u really don't want to finish, so can u start? People, it all depends on u and your woman. Do it the way u like but all in all, remember that when u sin, u feel it in your finger tips. You can smooch and pet in love while at thesame time u can smooch and pet in sin!!! cheerio |
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Jokotola
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Yoruba adage says - whatever you cannot eat, don't bother to put it near your nose (smell).  'Shekinah' |
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A-40 (m)
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Nope they are not, You either do the real thing or you are just playing yourself
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BASETSANA (f)
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l don't think there is anything wrong in smooching my boyfriend even though l know l will never sleep with him before marriage
as far as l see this a demonstration of affection
if l don't smooch him myself he will surely go and look for a substitute who will gladly do it
all it requires is self control
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bugado (m)
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how can you go into the football pitch without bearing in mind that you will score. habaa if don't want to do the dame thing, FORGET IT
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babadee (m)
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l don't think there is anything wrong in smooching my boyfriend even though l know l will never sleep with him before marriage
as far as l see this a demonstration of affection
na wa O! as a spartan wannabe, smooching means, no retreat, no surrender, kokolise to the end!!! |
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kilma (f)
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i can testify, it happened once with my boyfriend and we were actually just kissing,  he wanted to go further and i stopped him. we had a fight over that and i didn't like it at all. i'm happy to say we got past it in no time but i won't want that to happen again so it is hands off for me even when i am tempted. |
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Caradona (f)
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@TOPIC I usually Have a quick prayer before I kiss a guy because I don't want to catch any Yeye Disease. Plus I don't want to kiss the wrong Guy. I've a bad experience once. I kissed a guy, who lied to me that he is single and His Girlfriend gave me a nasty slap |
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krisbobo (m)
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There cannot be good performance except there was great rehearsal. If you no do am and on the main night you discover you guys are sexually incompatible nko, what do you do? Please don't think this is something that can be easily be dealt with; many homes have been broken due to sexual incompatibility.
Besides, i don't buy the its a sin thing. plz, its also a sin to drink too much water or something equally silly. I am going to commit some sin anyway, i had better do it enjoyably.
There's no way i'm marrying someone i haven't made love to. No freaking way!
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Ashbaby (f)
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This is a more of an interesting read than it is anything else.
Sexual stuff is enticing, who are we kidding? It's good too, who are we kidding?
But whatever we do has consequences, whether good or bad. As someone said, it's easier for two virgins, male and female to keep pure, however, they are just as vulnerable as the next person. And yes, one thing DOES lead to another.
Someone also said that for one to avoid premarital sex, one has to avoid relationships altogether. I beg to differ. I never kissed a guy I dated, leave alone petting. But I told them ahead of time what they were getting into.
I think it all depends on individuals, what their belief system is, what their personal judgment is and also what the significant other thinks. I can't stand up and say that it's possible to stay away from premarital sex, I'D be speaking for a certain group of people. Neither can I stand up and say that people should go for it, it would also be for another group of people.
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smile76 (f)
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most sex start with kissing. saying that you kiss and smooch your b/f, so he can't go looking for it somewhere else is rubbish. Men are weak sexually, just flashing your breast or thighs make them come. so you're just giving him alot of punishment and let me tell you darling, he's already getting a finish just somewhere, he just getting appertizer from you.
keep smooching and kissing.
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Ashbaby (f)
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Well said, Smile76
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numbers
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i can testify, it happened once with my boyfriend and we were actually just kissing, he wanted to go further and i stopped him. we had a fight over that and i didn't like it at all. i'm happy to say we got past it in no time but i won't want that to happen again so it is hands off for me even when i am tempted. why even date , going by the theory of not tempting yourself  |
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Nicer (m)
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i wonder how many people posting here actually practice what they preach? anyway, i guess thats not the real issue. the truth is pre-marital sex is a sin, full stop. if u don't want to do it, don't smooch. once u start kissing, u're a goner. u'll play ball sooner rather than later as i'm sure many people will testify to. i lie?
Reverend is obviously a very misguided fellow,however he raised one point which made some sense to me. Does all sin carry the same weight? can u compare someone who has pre-marital sex to someone who killed 10 people in a few days just for the fun of it? or even someone who rapes a 2 year old child?
don't we need to actually prioritise sin and address the more important issues like murder, terrorism and corruption before shouting foul over the small matter of pre-marital sex? i lie?
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seun001 (m)
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i wonder how many people posting here actually practice what they preach? anyway, i guess thats not the real issue. the truth is pre-marital sex is a sin, full stop. if u don't want to do it, don't smooch. once u start kissing, u're a goner. u'll play ball sooner rather than later as i'm sure many people will testify to. i lie?
Reverend is obviously a very misguided fellow,however he raised one point which made some sense to me. Does all sin carry the same weight? can u compare someone who has pre-marital sex to someone who killed 10 people in a few days just for the fun of it? or even someone who assaults a 2 year old child?
don't we need to actually prioritise sin and address the more important issues like murder, terrorism and corruption before shouting foul over the small matter of pre-marital sex? i lie?
na pastors go interpret that one oooo!!!abi when u think about it |
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dakmanzero (m)
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God doesnt discriminate on sin
The wages of sin is death
So if you like, be holier than thou your whole life. Next time u look at rihanna and fantasize about getting under her umbrella, you have been condemned to an eternity in Hell and shall burn there forever and ever amen
Unless of course you ask for forgiveness afterwards. In which case u have the same chance of being forgiven as any other sin, inclusing actually going under said umbrella and honoring her request to 'come into me'
But its not so bad. If u live in Nigeria your in HELL already so its just like moving from maroko to ajegunle
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Godsgirl (f)
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Just as cigarette-marijuana-and some other drugs are a gateway to cocaine and heroine use. So is, fondling, petting, smooching etc-a gateway to premarital sex. Be not deceived. It starts off slow-There is an end to every story. I say: hugging and kissing above the neck is appropriate. When you marry the girl, you can do whatever, wherever or however you please. At that time, it is no body's business but yours. Then again-My opinion only.
Agape!
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