Smooching And Petting As Alternatives To Premarital Sex?

Olagbangba, we were seeing practically everyday when schools were on vacation and as often as thrice a week when in session and so  it  was not a distant relationship thingy, we were both in Lagos.

We both settled it in our minds and because we were both christians and in agreement, it made it a lot easier. Besides, i was a virgin and was quite naive and he didnt want to take advantage of me in that regard, being a christian that feared God.

Its quite unfortunate that he is late now and it pains my heart to reminisce but trust me when i say that you can have a relationship for 4 years and not mess around.

No he wasnt.

no it isnt. kissing and smooching is all the foreplay to actual sex anyway. and alos, sex is SEX, how can kissing be an ALTERNATIVE? I'm very confused

Abeggi!
woz sai..wetin una dey yarn sef?abeg jo..which kain levels?shey una no kno say na babe gangan we suppoz blame for this thing..u guys saying what?look its no big a deal..jare.u can hug and kiss ansd smooch..it wont lead to nutting..except of course the guy na sharp bobo wey kno how to treat the right spot at the right time..then we can say it might lead to shit!asides that one..what hapens to kissing..hugging and caress/...aint we guys suppoz to treat out babes fine?jo..make una no talk that one again..these moves wont lead to sex..except both parties want it..period!

....some guys have to settle for this. others have options. 

mamba will always be in these kind of threads,

Snazzy, we are waiting for your comments on this topic o! Because if there is a thread where the original Miss Nairaland has not talked, then that thread is not yet 'thread'.

How can you kiss a woman on the mouth and not fondle her breasts?

This thing is systematic I tell you..  Once you start kissing, the next thing is the juice..

Your rules are too strict jare haba!!

What has mama got to do with this now, we won't tell her naa so how's she gon know?

Ok..ok..ok then, no prob, just tell her you saw a mamba and played with him on the bed for 10mins before you let him go, I'm sure she'll think you're very brave and will even praise you for that..

yall never cease to make me smile. sure mamba we will do it ur way but if she sees d mamba o well then d mamba gon be on his own

No. Simply because it's the highway that leads to the destination of sex.

That's a shame! The pastor must have been nursing it in his mind to sleep with the sister because i don't want to believe that it only just descended on him that night of the prayer meeting.

The integrity of that kain pastor should be questioned or more like his annointing! Besides, self control is a fruit of the spirit and for a "pastor" to lack this freely available gift is quite pathetic.

Poor sister! To think that here was a pastor she respected and looked up to is a shame indeed.

Then she must be a jezebel! But the pastor should have discerned shouldnt he?

Na wa for this kain story o! Are you sure you're not cooking up a story larger20? You mean the pastor impregnated a member and married her just in the bid to cover up her pregnancy or what? Na wa o!