My Boyfriend Doesn't Want Me To Give Guys My Number

u got a boyfrnd, he keeps frowning at you giving guys your number. wat has number got to do with faithfulness and he kips nagging that u are too frndly with guys when u are just being urself and really loves him and doesnt really care if he has other girls as frnds.he accuses just too much.[

hes just INSECURe dump him u just too gud 4 him or try n talk 2 him like its u dat i want not  em  talk

he read some sms and was bitter cos they wer romantic ones 4rm sum guys. but it isnt my fault cus i didnt tell dem to send dem,dats wat i bilif.

hmmmm

question 1:
kkutecolo, to be realistic, will u mind if he gives other babes his number and they send all sorts to him

question2:
it seems here that we are having TRUST AND TRANSPARENCY ISSUES; 

 i am a marketer and my dear 99.9% of my clients are guys and my fiancee doesnt frown wen he sees me give guys my number cos the trust is there.

but lets reason together,if i didnt give him my number ow on earth would he think we will date. considering the fact that he is also a guy.

my sis just relax and be wise in your dealings with him, in as much as that there are no strings attached to those guys.

@bunmii well said you are the only one with a reasonble response. A guy knows how other guys think he knows the reason a guy will ask for a gals number. If you don't mind him doing that (that is askin for other gal's numbers),then you can carry on but if you do, then pls stop am.
it also depends on the stage you are in a relationship, @seun you said sumtin abt a plan B from my experience plan b more often than not backfires becos a woman will never give her best when she knows she can work out and go to her plan B. if you want to date exclusively then date exclusively no extras on the side.

I personally don't think it is healthy for a woman to have very close male friends my opinion is your partner shoud be your best friends. you can all disagree but i have done a survey of marraiges that have lasted over 30yrs and they all agree.

if you value your man and see a future with him then behave urself, dont force him to cheat.

hmmm interestin 

@kkute

how would U feel if he did da same thing
if he took other gurls phone number in your presence??

if it wud bother U
then U shud know where hes coming from

Why are u giving other guys your # if u have a boyfriend

Put yourself in his shoes too, if it was all the way around wouldn't u be jealous if he was giving girls # or if they were giving him #s to

why would u be giving other guys your number, its like a sign of disrespect to your boyfriend, and he obviously values you thats why he doesn't give his number to any girl, im sure u would be jealous if he does the same thing and calls them back,

c'mon be reasonable, he has a valid reason to nag at you.

@topic, if there's nothing like class work or business btw yu and da guys and they're not related to you , then there's absolutely no reason for you to give them ya numbers. It shows disrespect and unseriousness in the relationship on ya part.

am getting to understand hw he feels

hmm it shudnt have taken U this long 

why would you want your boyfriend to accept you giving guys your number? would you like him to collect girls numbers? please are you still a teenager?

If u want your boyfriend telling u wat to do, maybe u might as well stop giving guys your number.

There's is no trust and moreover depends on your intentions behind the phone number giving. it might not be u but the guys u're giving your numbers to. . they can be real jerks just to get under your skirt.

that simple.

put it here - u know.

If guys are calling you to hit on you then that should be a problem for you too. And in Naija, you just know thats gonna happen. For peace just restrain yourself and try not give out your number in front of him.