|
osegwu (m)
|
I keep having this feeling that a man cannot say categorically
that he is the father if his child accept based on what the wife told him.
Please, lets hear what you guys have to say
|
|
|
|
|
|
cute-ass (f)
|
The key to this whole thing is TRUST, because if there's any atom of trust in the marriage then there shouldn't be any doubt atall. BUT if for some reason you're one of the unlucky ones that find theirselves in a no-trust relationship, then it might please you to know that there's something called DNA . . . . . . . just don't let your wife in on it . . . . . . because if the baby turns out to be yours . . . . . . . . need i tell you what your wife'll do? well i'm sure you won't want to find out either, it won't be a lovely sight, believe me  |
|
|
|
|
|
MyPeace (f)
|
story!!!!!!!!!!!
|
|
|
|
|
|
Seun (m)
|
A woman who slept with two different men before conception won't know which one is the father. Whenever there's any doubt about a child's paternity, a DNA test should quickly settle the case. |
|
|
|
|
|
omoge (f)
|
Seun, do you remove post?
@ topic
I always wonder why a woman will sleep with 2 different guys at a given time. I don't think it is okay.
I also believe that a man might know if he is not the father. A woman might not know though because sleeping with
guy #1 does not mean he gets you pregnant. Unless you've been pregnant and knows it before sleeping with guy
#2. The worst confusion is if you sleep with each few hours apart when you are fertile.
|
|
|
|
|
|
osegwu (m)
|
Even when there is trust for your wife how do you
know it is reciprocated? I think women can be decepttive.
Without any disrespect to the ladies.
|
|
|
|
|
|
Glamourgal (f)
|
sometimes, the woman doesn't know who the father of her child is-only happens when she's been sleeping around.
|
|
|
|
|
|
sweetchick (f)
|
In these days of DNA testing, do you need to ask?
|
|
|
|
|
|
amee07 (f)
|
As Seun rightly said go for a DNA test. That should resolve the issue.
|
|
|
|
|
|
desertboom (m)
|
I think the females should answer the question
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
ehi4life (m)
|
I think when the child looks like the father there is no issue, but when the child does not look like the father but looks like the mom, trust would play a major part, but when the child does not resemble the father or the mother, QUESTIONS should be asked.
|
|
|
|
|
|
ugodaniel (m)
|
It may sound funny and possibly stupid but in actual sense, its the truth!  The man cannot categorically say that a child is his or not BUT the woman knows all. Didnt you read some years back when Okocha nearly divorced his wifey because she gave birth to a child that looks white.  The matter remains unresolved till today.  Thats why we always pray God give us The Virtuous Woman |
|
|
|
|
|
sammyjl (f)
|
I totally disagree. Sometimes some ladies have so many partners that at the end of the day, they don't even know who fathered their children.
So why not just stick to the DNA tests.
|
|
|
|
|
|
holythug (m)
|
How?
Can,t she miscalculate who the father of a child is?
|
|
|
|
|
|
eniola1310 (f)
|
This is the reason i have decided to trace my lineage through the offspring of my female children. i don't want any mix up
|
|
|
|
|
|
ebos (m)
|
There is this idea that a couple may all be dark but if the great-grandfather or mother of the bride or groom was fair, they may deliver a fair baby without cheating by the woman. I know a couple who are quite dark in complexion with seven children, five of the children are completely fair (reddish) and two are dark. The man never complained of any cheating from his wife but relatives did complain against the woman. The elders maintained the above view and exonerated the woman.
|
|
|
|
|
|
ebos (m)
|
It was the elders who gave the story of how the groom’s great grandfather was fair. The groom never saw his great grandfather and the relatives never saw him. The elders gave the story and many believed what they said
|
|
|
|
|
|
Kinsh (f)
|
I totally disagree. Sometimes some ladies have so many partners that at the end of the day, they don't even know who fathered their children.
So why not just stick to the DNA tests.
Exactly!!!I think when the child looks like the father there is no issue, ,,,,,,lol,,,,, 
Have you 4gotten he might have a twin brother, junior brother or senior brother or even his FATHER!!!!!!!  |
|
|
|
|
|
ebos (m)
|
sometimes, the woman doesn't know who the father of her child is-only happens when she's been sleeping around.
what do we call such a woman? |
|
|
|
|
|
hooplarr (m)
|
You know, the thought of Paternity is all so scarey. To think you're the baby's dad only to discover some twenty something or more years that it ain't so can grieve one to the grave. I agree with the view of one of the commentators to STICK TO THE DNA TEST!!!!!!!!!!!!!HAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!!! |
|
|
|
|
|
simplyReal
|
Yes only the woman knows who the real father is of her child unless she had multiple sex partners during the period of conception. The man can only be but a "believer". If he is in doubt then a DNA test should put doubt to rest. The mother is not needed for the test.
I am recently did a test on all my 3 kids after I discovered my wife's blog on this site where she said she had thought of cheating on me in the past. You see before the discovery I had no doubt I was the father. But now the result is out and its confirmed that I am 95,485 times more likely to be the biological father, in other words the probability of paternity is 99.990% This has put doubt to rest needless to say I could have saved $600 (cost of 3 tests), but that is peanuts compared to having to live with a lifetime of doubt.
As for her blog, that is a different matter altogether.
|
|
|
|
|
|
bameyi (m)
|
a female that sleep around could be so foolish she don't even know her self but brother if you don't trust her get a DNA
|
|
|
|
|
|
justin04 (m)
|
Not all women know father of their kids. I know DNA is the only one that knows.
|
|
|
|
|
|
BlackMamba (m)
|
This is the reason i have decided to trace my lineage through the offspring of my female children. i don't want any mix up
If you don't mind, can you explain. |
|
|
|
|
|
pannyman (m)
|
This is an out-dated question. It has been overtaken by DNA testing. |
|
|
|
|
|
BillGatesFan (m)
|
No woman is worth the trust,if you like chain your wife in the house with your DOG chain, if she want to mess around she will. some women love their EX so much so that they will love to carry his baby, she got pregnant from him and give to you her husband in the house.But if you use your privates for Money Rituals and told this same woman to get you a baby from anther man she will refuse, instead divorce you and marry another man, women are nt worth it.  |
|
|
|
|
|
initiate
|
you people should learn to trust, that is what relationship is all about. you cannot keep checking if your wife is faithful bla bla.
if you can't trust a woman then don't marry her.
for example how do you know you mother is your real mum? what if it happened at the maternity home that her own child died and she stole you from your real mother, and you have grown up knowing her. it is possible. but do you go around worrying over this? no, because you trust your mum.
so learn to trust you wife and stop fretting over all that
on a lighter note even if she brings in a kid that is not your own, can't you adopt and bring up the child?
|
|
|
|
|
|
McDoe (m)
|
seun, where did u send my post with the caption""say something about seun, the ruling king?
As for this thread, we can know who fathers the child through resemblance.
|
|
|
|
|
|
Christino (m)
|
Mythology, I know of a lady who has 3 kids from different fathers, all unknown. Follow the white man's lead!  DNA! |
|
|
|
|
|
eniola1310 (f)
|
If you don't mind, can you explain.
if i want to trace my real children at all, i'll only trace the children of my female children as my true decendants. Instead of counting the children of my male children i'll only consider the kids that my female children had. that way, i'm sure they got pregnant and i'm sure they have a % of my blood runing in their veins hope that explains it |
|
|
|
|
|
fromuk (m)
|
by reincanation.Period
|
|
|
|
|
|
![Nairaland [Nigerian Forum] Home](http://www.nairaland.com/Themes/default/images/english/home.gif)
Author
