Wives: Would You Submit Your Paychecks To Your Husbands?

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madam, thank you jo! I believe everyone is responding in relation to the initial story. I still maintain that any man who demands his wife's paycheck is no MAN at all. Even pastors do not do that, I don't believe any man of God would ask his wife to submit her paycheck, HABA! So noone should come here and try to blackmail people with all this submission thingy. For a man to be a MAN in his house he should be capable physically, emotinally, financially etc and not be thinking of what his wife will submit to him at the end of the month. Its a different thing if someone says her husband's pay cannot meet all the family's needs and so she has to chip in sometimes, it can also be a matter of choice. I am fully, completely and wholly submissive to my husband(he can tell you that), but he has never demanded my paycheck and I have never felt compelled to submit my pay to him. I contirbute to the upkeep of my family as much as I can and in a very commendable way (if i might say so myself)  but it is my husbands duty to provide for his family. I believe it is even worse for a woman not to allow her husband exercise his rights/duties or whatever as a man by thinking she has to contribute before he can provide for the family.

nikinash,thank you jare, God bless you!

It's good if couples are close enough to disclose such information. It's the best.

However, if the man wants to make it a submission issue, no woman should agree. Let the man go and earn his own money and mind his business.

never would i submit ma paycheck 2 ma husbeeeeee
i worked 2 earn da money dere4 i must use it n feel da goodness

no I'm nt bt whn i do I'm nt submit ma patcheck 2 ma husbee
no way

da best time i can answer that question is now ooooooo
as da saying goes time n tide waits 4 no man
why u wnt your wifee submit her paycheck 2 u abi so u go chop da money

would u wnt ur wifee 2 submit her's 2 u because u're al of da above?

well den, I'm al of da above so why dnt we get married someday so u submit ur paycheck 2 me

I'm also very committed
i ws only kiddin whn i said that

wht is a race?

I cannot submit my pay check to my man even though he will know how much I earn or at times even know how much I have in my account.  For the fact that he has the right to ask me for money out of it does not mean he has the right to take it away from me except, if I willingly want to give him to hold for instances where I am unable to control my spending.

ok. . what should I have said?

you seem like you would know

then maybe you shouldn't have said something

if you didn't know what i was supposed to not have said about what I didn't say, then maybe if you didn't say anything about it, we would not have the problem of trying to figure out what we didn't know that i was supposed to have said