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olise
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my best friend (Gina) and i have feelings for each other and that is no secret. everyone in our neighbourhood knows that. we both feel it and we have even kissed once but we decided to take things slow since she just returned from the united states of america, heartbroken, by some nerdy boyfriend. a couple of days ago her father (who is a diplomat) threw a lavish party and i was invited. in the party food, wne and beer was plentiful and the effect was outstanding. everyone felt good and flirted with each other. my friend ws serving and taking care of things and i was preety much left alone. trouble started when my host (my girl's father) started flirting openly with a young black beauty of about 25. after a few mins he left with her. they were openly laughing, toching and smooching were everbody could see them. they got into his jaguar and left the party! although Gina's mother was not there (as she was in the kitchen), friends and "well wishers" immediately went into the kitchen and told her of her husband's indescretion
suffice it to say that she felt betrayed and she was not herself throught the rest of the party. when the party ended at about 10pm Gina, escused herself and asked me to drive her home. her mom did not look like she should be left alone but she herslf insisted that i should take Gina home. after dropping Gina off at home (victoria island) i had the "not -so-brilliant" idea to check on her mom and see how she was doing. i do not know if it was the devil that pushed me or if it was my hormones but there was some thing about an older lady in such a pitiful state, that turned me on.
when i got to her house, she was alone as "oga" had not returned from his escapade. as i rang the bell, she pulled back the curtain, saw it was me and she sighed, audibly. i should have taken that as my cue and run for me life, but no. i am as sturborn as every one of you and i know you understand. she opened up (the door) and i went inside (the house). she offered me drinks and you must know i only take alcohol when ladies offer drinks, it relieves boredom.
she then went on to tell me of how she has been suffering her philandrous husband and the entire works. i spent about three housr listening to her woes and by the time i had realised myself, i was drunk, late and in no position to drive. worse of all "oga" was not back yet. it was clear that "oga" was not comming back tonight. Gina's mum (after exclaiming: oh olise will you look at the time! you cannot and will not go home tonght in this state!) offered me aguest room and at about 3am i went it to crash.
at about 2 hours (i cannot be sure of the time) she entered my room. i do not really know if it was the light that entered my room as she opened the door, or if it was her perfumme (oh that heavenly smell) that woke me up. well i was awake and any man in the house will tell you that the early hours of the morning is when hormones are at al all day high. i guess at five o'clock in the morning, all active little jhons around the world wake up. well mine was wake.
she came over to the bed, placed a finger on my lip and croaked:" olise have you ever helped someone in need?" confused i nodded. she went on: "then please, my baby, help me"
the rest is history and i gave her my best. i did not bargain on enjoying it so much! from what i gathered, she did too. now she wants me any way she can get me. what do i do?
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Rolly
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i think you should stand up to the mother and tell her that what happened was a mistake and that its never going to repeat itself again and u should mean this then go to gina and i try to explain yourself and tell her that u r sorry i'm not saying this suggestion would work but.......  not to work, u'll get more from the members of Nairaland GOODLUCK!!!! |
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FOD (m)
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I think the topic should be "how do i tell my best friend that I've slept with her mum"...if u do not have the intention of sleeping with her (mom) again, which is what I'd advise. You know it's wrong, do know let big John lead u astray.
Do you have to tell your friend at all? I'm afraid this may bring an end to the friendship.
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lexyflexy (m)
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if he is truely a friend, he is bound to stay and welcome him....... its his mum and not his GF
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snazzydawn (f)
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Well,why not let sleeping dogs lie?
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rikkyjen (m)
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It would tantamount to penny wise pound foolish to tell Gina!!!yes...Why don't you tell the woman it was all a mistake and don't let that incident repeat itself again..but don't flirt with the idea of telling gina because be rest assured you will loose at both end
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gracious (f)
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@ olisea don't uuu know how to keep sealed lips???  if u are not a story twister, that is if u don't know how to tell your friend in a way that isn't offensive, then just keep it to yourself as one of the things u can;t believe u did.  hopefully this will work    cheers. |
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Rolly
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u girls that are says he shouldnt tell gina, would u like if it was your BF and he hid such a thing from u?
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rikkyjen (m)
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and how will you will feel rolly hearing your friend betray you to that extent...
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lexyflexy (m)
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and how will you will feel rolly hearing your friend betray you to that extent... let me speak on her behalf ............ shes going to forgive nwayz |
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rikkyjen (m)
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ol boy ..u fit forgive that kind thing?
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Rolly
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allow me jo lexy  @ rikky, it would be hard i know and i would feel better if my friend told me and it would take me sometime to actually forgive him but i would be hard for me or anybody to forget but i think i would end up forgiving him |
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Rolly
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besides people do worse things |
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Rolly
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i don't know like impregnate their mother-in-law and say it with confidence in front of their wife that they (men) will marry their wife's mother but i know i willl 4give him sha |
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lexyflexy (m)
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Aunty Sdawn......like em .......em...... I don forget one name.........I pray may God helep e remember......
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truthhurts (f)
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Olise for the sake of the friendship you have with Gina don't tell her about your roll in the hay with her mother and i would also beg you to avoid the mum like a plague so you don't fall prey again a word is enough for the .... |
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loriann (f)
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hey i really advise u to tell gina its the best u can do and u hve to tell her mum it was a mistake and mean it
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lexyflexy (m)
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well....I guess its left to him on knowing what to do next.....all I got to tell you, do what u think is right, what u think is the best thing doing to make sure u re on the right part....... (THERE IS A WAY THAT SEEMETH RIGHT UNTO MAN, BUT THE END THEREOF ARE THE WAYS OF DEATH) |
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niniowo (f)
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the first thing is to decide not to do it again with the old woman. Secondly, truth may not be the best option in this case. what do you intend to achieve by telling your friend? Seek forgiveness from Almighty and continue with your life
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immanuella (f)
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Gina is going to find out some day. So if u have no plans of getting married to her, u better call it off. And run for your life! You have no business dating anyone in that family again.
my 2 cents
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christyne (f)
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Though,its been said that there's nothing hidden under the sun but if u know you're not going to marry Gina,then u can tell her but if u guys r going to get married,don't u dare tell her because u don't expect her to have a man that has slept wit her mother as her husband. Dont u think its unheard of?
But have it at the back of your mind .that u wont be free wit your mother in - law to - be because of what has transpired between u two n there's no how your darlyn Gina wont knw about ds lateron.So i'll advise u not to marry her.
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lexyflexy (m)
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true.......he is old enough to choose.....but all I keep saying is onething.....out of all advices you ve got.....choose the one that best suits your condition for which you feel is right for you......
all you need do is stay on the right track and play safe and cool.
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pearldrops (f)
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sounds to me like an illusion
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lexyflexy (m)
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its not if he knows what is right and put it into use.....
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pearldrops (f)
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what's right there?
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lexyflexy (m)
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telling the best friend if it calls for it......if she is truely a friend, she is bound to remain.....
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pearldrops (f)
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l don't think so,if u were in his/her shoes would u stay back after telling u?
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lexyflexy (m)
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I will and it depends on the ground I get the news too. I see no reason in that..........everybody makes mistakes and when admitted and ... should be reasoned to. Even if she does not stay.... I believe the most important thing has been done and thats doing whats right..........
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Rottweiler (m)
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My friend, tell you story to the birds. From your story and comments, you capitalised on the poor woman's emotionally weak period! How will you feel if your friend sleeps with your mum. You are a sexual adventurist and you achieved what you wanted. But to tell you the truth, IT'S SHAMEFUL. You are really remorseful, you won't be passing comments like: I GAVE HER THE BEST. I wish you good luck in your adventure, but it leads to destruction.
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lexyflexy (m)
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well i did not make my post or comment for the sake of being satisfied with, but to make people know and understand how I feel about the whole thing. You are a sexual adventurist and you achieved what you wanted. But to tell you the truth, IT'S SHAMEFUL. You are really remorseful, you won't be passing comments like: I GAVE HER THE BEST. I wish you good luck in your adventure, but it leads to destruction. u can say all you want..... but I have made my point clear...........and I believe you are only meant to read the posts made on a thread to reply thereafter and not read so as to throw words at others..... well I guess Mr. Admin would be glad to hear this.......... I don't make trouble and I don't like trouble..... but if you want it............you will get tripple fold of it....... |
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hausa chic (f)
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Jeez! and i thought i had heard it all! its a tough one but here goes:
1. Tell the mum no more hanky panky, if you love Gina, then this shouldn't be a problem ...not unless you enjoyed it so much and you've been back for seconds! and thinking of going back for thirds!
2. Come clean to Gina. she's bound to find out especially if her mum decides to blackmail you if you don't dance to her tune. People make mistakes, hopefully she'll find it in herself to forgive you. Hiding it is going to take its toll on your friendship/relationship especially if you want thing to progress.
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