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estylove1 (f)
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Fellows, how does the initiating of sex in a relationship work? Is it the guy or the girl?
Girls, why don't we initiate it when we want it do we have to wait for the guy to do it?
And guys, would you want your girl to initiate sex when they are with you?
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nkc (m)
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well as for me, i initiate it , if d girl initiates it, also fine with me, means she just can't wait. i don't mind who initiates first, am more concerned with d end results,
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cute-ass (f)
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girls why don't we initiate it when we want it do we hav to wait for d guy to do it ?
Hell no  He's mine so why would i hold back to take what i want, it shows lack of openness between the couple. This is someone you shouldn't be scared of pouring out your soul, and heart not to mention using your body to get what you want from him, afterall you don't expect him to hold back if he was the one that needed the "treatment" I wouldn't want him to be getting it somewhere else, so i give him a treat when he needs one, and won't be scared to ask for a treat either  isn't it why he's my one and only??  |
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adewale78 (m)
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That is a good question and i was wondering why some ladies don't initiate it since they are together.But according to some of my cousin's friends,they told me that most men will be thinking that they are wayward which i disagree upon.Once you need it ask each other and don't be shy about it because we are both mature.
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numbers
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it turns me on extra when d lady asks, I make a point to knock her out |
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iice (f)
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@Cute-ass abeg help me ask ooo. So why are you even in the relationship, if you cannot communicate whatever you wish to communicate? I have no problems saying what i want, when i want and how i want it
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woleprof (m)
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*clears throat*
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woleprof (m)
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the ladies should wake u and make the move instead of waiting for the guys |
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olagoke1 (m)
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boy friend to girl friend, boy should initiate it, only if it has to happen, couple any of the two can initiate it, but if my girl initiate it i will be very happy because it gives me the courage that any time she want it she can easily tell me instead of fletting around
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AnalFlower (m)
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It is wonderful when a woman initiates sex , it goes to prove her independence and openness and in most cases sweeter
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teemine (f)
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Anyone of them (guy or lady) feeling horny should initiate sex. It doesn't matter who has to.  |
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K@RST (m)
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It seems sumhow if a guy initiates first. Gurls feels more in SEX dan guys also gurls get 2 much desire dan guys. so it depends on her when it comes it, a Guy is EVERREADY just holla @ him and continue 4rom where u stop.
Simple, 
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agnesoseka
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yeah yeah thats true,
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samy-young (m)
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Its actually the Girl, They carry on the thought even before the guy thinks about it, They only pretend to succumb to guy thereby, wanting the guy to know he started the whole Drama. If the girls don't what it, u would know, but 90% of them actually carry the thought of sex in them.
Ans: THE GIRL
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onyeka_ng (f)
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whatever, as long as d end result is fantasticcccccccccccccccc and heavenlyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy.
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fosh
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Hi It's the lady that initiate sex, even before she comes arround she know what will happen, if she decides that nothing for u, nothing for oooooo! Ladies are the initiators men are the catalysts . |
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fosh
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looking at it from two difrent angle Men initiates sex more b'because the moment a man sees a lady d first thougt is sex and goes all out for it,its left for lady to obliged or not. On the other hand too one could say the ladys initiates sex by action than words  |
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culasi (m)
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The answer should be men in most cases!
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pisces20
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The guys initiate it first because it's kind of the only thing they hope for in a relationship.
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culasi (m)
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I don't agree with you. Women also initiate sex but like i said b/4 men do most times. please do not steroetype. I know some men who wants more than sex in a relationship!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! The guys initiate it first because it's kind of the only thing they hope for in a relationship.
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youngies (m)
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After all said and done. It takes two to tango. Anybody can start the fire as far as the two feels the heat
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munchkins (f)
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me i believe it should swing both ways, there's nothing wrong with a girl initiating sex in . most cases it will actually jazz up things. way to go girls. |
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jaguda (m)
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anybody fit start ooo, but these babes dey always want us start the touchery when na them want am pass.
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moondust (m)
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if i start it, great, if she starts it, grand
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culasi (m)
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I feel feel you my dear. Way to go!!!!!!!!!!!  me i believe it should swing both ways, there's nothing wrong with a girl initiating sex in . most cases it will actually jazz up things. way to go girls. |
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asoderock (m)
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In most cases , Men.
But it can be an extraordinarily thrilling session when the lady initiates it.
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BillGatesFan (m)
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If your lady initiate it first then your blessed that very day because she gona release a lot of juice for you to drink that is if your the kind that love sucking your baby's pussy
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ziddy (m)
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do you drink pussy-juice?? It's not good for your health because it's acidic
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de facto
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anybody can! if u want it then get it. therez no point frontin, its a waste of time. its really spicy if a girl does.
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lakeside4love (m)
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My gurl always initiate sex, n she does that in a very sexy way,
n trust me, after the show, she pat me at my back, n say she am the best,
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culasi (m)
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Ziddy are you a Pussy Dr?  If your lady initiate it first then your blessed that very day because she gona release a lot of juice for you to drink that is if your the kind that love sucking your baby's pussy
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