Why do we women attach so much importance to sex?

Women are emotional creatures, unlike men.  So when women get involved with a man, it's always an emotional thing.  Men can get together with a woman without having any emotional attachment.  I'm not sure if this answers your question no doubt other members will give us their views.

Not all girls attach so much importance to sex but majority of girls do that.  We just attach importance to it because of our nature.  Majority of guys will have sex and forget about it immediately not because they are bad but because of the natural way they are made.

It is of a truth that women attach so much importance to sex. But when a guy tries to be "Mr Nice" instead of them (women) to take it that the guy is acting according to their pretence and be happy about the guy's mr nice behaviour they will quickly conclude he is getting a good dose of that, I mean s** else where.

And they will start squeezing an already-ugly face and they will always forget that people like me  do not beg for nothing, s** inclusive.

So, whenever they squeeze face I show concern, understand what they need, intend to give it to them but some still not sincere with themselves still pretend not to be bitchy hoping that I will insist to a great extent but to their (women's) disappointments I insist only to a medium extent and let them be and they become sad the more but I cannot be found blamish because I understood and tried giving it but their insincerity even to themselves prevented it.

They attach so much importance to sex because their s** organs are  canals and they cannot scratch them when they itch unlike men who can just scratch theirs.

Haba!

Both sexes attach importance to sex but one is stronger than the other.

The females' inclinationation to sex tend to be stronger than the males' just because of their nature.

If males are to attach importance to sex than women things will go wayward.

I have a note for this topic I'm coming back.

  Greatpeter I'm waiting for your note and i hope it wont take long sha...

   You said you want to go and you are still online..anyway I'll be here tomoro to read it...

Yes! I've come back. But where do I start and how do I present this without  going into details, you can ask questions here or you send me pm.

Women do not just attach importance to sex, but the their body composition and systems make it be.
There are certain hormones in female, though male have theirs too, which have some specific functions.



I think I'm about to disappoint my fan, I do not know how to start this without goimg to some details,and again to abridge it is another problem but whichever way we go we will gain few things and you ask questions or pm me for some details.

Like men, women have their own hormone?

Hormones are chemicals your body produces to regulate various functions. They do so by sending important messages and signals to various organs and tissues. When they work harmoniously, your body behaves in a predictable way. But if there is too much or too little of any one hormone, then imbalance occurs and you can begin to feel that something is wrong. Wanted pregnancies don't happen, the discomfort of PMS makes the days before menstruation very difficult, or menstruation may occur irregularly or not occur at all. This is when an accurate assessment of hormone balance can mean all the difference in the world.

There is this hypothalamus in the brain which co-ordinates all the activities in the body, sending messages and receiving.
Female hormones: Progesteron,Testosteron,bete- estradiol (Oestrogen)
Some functions:
-Enhance sexual and reproductive health.
-Improve Clitorial arousal.
-Boost sexual response and sensitivity.
-Increases libido and restores lack of sex drive.
-Intensify sexual sensation.
- Speed arousal and time of climax.
-Creates more frequent interest in and enjoyment in sex.
-Enhances fertility by tonifying and strenghtening the entire reproduction system.
There is normalty though is there is hormone balance. Hormone imbalance will cause changes in their reaction.
But many at times there occur naturally for body to adjust to some external stimuli.

Prior to menstruation, an imbalance of progesterone and estrogen can produce physical and emotional discomfort for women. Premenstrual Syndrome (PMS) can result in bloating, headaches, mood swings, and irritability. Too much estrogen, in relation to progesterone, or visa versa, throws the body into a severely imbalanced state.

In a nut shell, prior to ovulation, there is what we call heat period. A heat period is when a woman feels like seeing her male counterparts(Female in the house, LIE?)If you do it that time pregnancy results straightaway.

In a journal, a research revealed when a man phantom a woman(i.e tell her sweet words, the head swells it's as result of a message the hypothalamus sends to( FSH) follicular secreting hormone) to produce oestrogen which causes arousal.
( So making your woman' head to swell can do magic) Oriki in Yoruba does that too. (Female in the house please Na Lie)
My dear, this is a wide topic. I've not even touched the brave part of it.
I may continue by popular demand. But react to this first.
And if you people can appeal to seun if he can grant us go into some details.

honestly I do not know how to explain without being explanatory enough.

Yes O! Help appeal to Seun I'm ready to dig down and it will be more meaningful and Interesting!

Do you know that when I first started out, after the initial disappointing relationships, I wished and hoped to meet a babe who didn't attach too much importance to sex, someone I could explore my sexuality with and have a free and open minded  discussion about sex and learn from. It took quite a while but I finally found them. Interestingly these were babes who claimed to be in a serious relationship with guys who were based abroad. They had so much hope in travelling out to join bobo in obodo oyibo, but since body no be firewood they didn't mind having a no string attached relationship with a nice, descreet guy in naija, and CalabarMan was only too willing to provide this service, eh nothing sweeter than a mutually beneficial relationship eh....

Abi what do you guys think? We need to loosen up on this sex attachment of a thing especially when we are still young and inexperienced......I don talk my own o! if una no like am make una yab me, afterall na free world, carry go.............

Why do we keep talking about AIDS as if it is a new invention, this thing has been around for over 25 years everyone is aware of it, in fact I am yet to meet any happening guy or babe who doesn't know of it and what precaution to use. So stop being pre-occupied with it. If you can't hold body then use precautions, haba...... before AIDS there was Gonorrhea, there was Syphilis, and others too numerous to name.....

that's just a woman's nature

i guess you're right, women have lots of sweet sensational feelings

yea,we do have it in us

Maybe because most guys see nuthing so spectacular in SEX