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keele (m)
My Girlfriend Is Afraid To Kiss: Is That Normal?
« on: January 02, 2006, 05:45 AM »

my girlfriend said shes afraid to kiss...
the border of us kissing is only on the cheek and forehead..
she said she doesnt want to kiss on the lips because shes afraid..
what should i do? should i give her more time?
Hotstepper (f)
Re: My Girlfriend Is Afraid To Kiss: Is That Normal?
« #1 on: January 02, 2006, 06:30 AM »

why is she afraid? well give her more time..she will come along
keele (m)
Re: My Girlfriend Is Afraid To Kiss: Is That Normal?
« #2 on: January 02, 2006, 06:56 AM »

well i don't know..
she said that shes afraid..
she said its okay to kiss on the cheek but not on her lips..
i said ill wait..
but she said what if the time never comes..
what if she never let me kiss her..
duh..  Huh
thelastdon (m)
Re: My Girlfriend Is Afraid To Kiss: Is That Normal?
« #3 on: January 02, 2006, 08:54 AM »

hey dude.......... u got mouth disease or maybe u have big lips so she might be afraid you would swallow her up, how do u c that? huh?  Grin Shocked Grin Grin
keele (m)
Re: My Girlfriend Is Afraid To Kiss: Is That Normal?
« #4 on: January 02, 2006, 09:29 AM »

T_T
naw i got sexy lips alrite..  Wink
Rolly
Re: My Girlfriend Is Afraid To Kiss: Is That Normal?
« #5 on: January 02, 2006, 09:39 AM »

@ thelastdon,

   puh-lease Roll Eyes who r u to stop me from commmenting ?  Cheesy


@ keele,

    u'll have to give her some time ok? take it easy with her and don't push ok? Goodluck  Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy
keele (m)
Re: My Girlfriend Is Afraid To Kiss: Is That Normal?
« #6 on: January 02, 2006, 11:48 AM »

thx.. T_T
really helped me alot.. Smiley
hummer_v (m)
Re: My Girlfriend Is Afraid To Kiss: Is That Normal?
« #7 on: January 02, 2006, 12:32 PM »

@ kelee
do u think your mouth stinks? Grin
your girlfriend will tell u better Grin 'kiddin'
 well i think its normal for someone that has never kissed before. i used to say i'd never kiss because its nasty but the first time i kissed, though i was afraid-i didnt have to show it because i'm the man, i felt like i was flying. 4 real.
i don't blame your girlfriend because its kind of scary 4 a novice.

so give her some time ok.
coldwill
Re: My Girlfriend Is Afraid To Kiss: Is That Normal?
« #8 on: January 02, 2006, 12:58 PM »

 Grin ol boy.E be like say youe mouth dey boom.E get one dentist for my side wey i fit introduce you to.LOL
I think she don't just want to kiss you in particular.Leave her with me and she'll get addicted to kissing . LOL Roll Eyes
Chxta (m)
Re: My Girlfriend Is Afraid To Kiss: Is That Normal?
« #9 on: January 02, 2006, 01:47 PM »

Don't worry. It will happen soon enough. And don't go listening to those who say that she doesn't love you because she won't kiss you.
thelastdon (m)
Re: My Girlfriend Is Afraid To Kiss: Is That Normal?
« #10 on: January 02, 2006, 02:20 PM »

boy...the truth can be maybe the girl is infected and she doesnt want to transmitte the disease or sickness to you.... thats my real opinion
Z4M4eva (f)
Re: My Girlfriend Is Afraid To Kiss: Is That Normal?
« #11 on: January 02, 2006, 02:49 PM »

Quote from: thelastdon on January 02, 2006, 02:20 PM
boy...the truth can be maybe the girl is infected and she doesnt want to transmitte the disease or sickness to you.... thats my real opinion

 Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy

But really, why would she be afraid to kiss you?...I don't think that's normal at all...that's just sad and weird
4face (m)
Re: My Girlfriend Is Afraid To Kiss: Is That Normal?
« #12 on: January 02, 2006, 02:55 PM »

well give her a liitle space like 2 wek after then tell again and hear from her.
keele (m)
Re: My Girlfriend Is Afraid To Kiss: Is That Normal?
« #13 on: January 02, 2006, 03:42 PM »

yea.. i guess im rushing things..
well we dated like for more than 1 month already..
i asked for a kiss on new years eve.. but she turned me down.. T_T
she said shes afraid.. don't know why..
but after that she gave me a kiss on the cheek tho..  Roll Eyes
well i think i should give her more time ya..
Seun (m)
Re: My Girlfriend Is Afraid To Kiss: Is That Normal?
« #14 on: January 02, 2006, 04:12 PM »

Will the mouth-to-mouth kiss make you richer? Huh
layi (m)
Re: My Girlfriend Is Afraid To Kiss: Is That Normal?
« #15 on: January 02, 2006, 06:03 PM »

This is not an issue of mouth smelling, otherwise she'ld avoid u totally.

Truth be told. This girl is scared of your love. She sees kissing as an oath that she be urs. She still needs time to grow in love with you. From what is happening, she's not totally in love. she still want to watch u for a while and prolly make her decision whether to stay or not.

If a girl is in love, she'll kill u with kisses. You don't need to ask her.

aqua (m)
Re: My Girlfriend Is Afraid To Kiss: Is That Normal?
« #16 on: January 02, 2006, 06:14 PM »

Na wa o this much wahala for ordinary kiss in da mouth.
My guy you go do  sacrifice before she decides to have sex with you be that o. Cry Cry
Z4M4eva (f)
Re: My Girlfriend Is Afraid To Kiss: Is That Normal?
« #17 on: January 02, 2006, 06:20 PM »

You had to bring S E X into this...didn't you? sex is not everything you know Roll Eyes
ldollier (f)
Re: My Girlfriend Is Afraid To Kiss: Is That Normal?
« #18 on: January 02, 2006, 06:24 PM »

this could be because she is not a good kisser.. its normal for girls to be afraid.. i guess.
Z4M4eva (f)
Re: My Girlfriend Is Afraid To Kiss: Is That Normal?
« #19 on: January 02, 2006, 06:26 PM »

Afraid...he's not going to swallow her Cheesy
disney (f)
Re: My Girlfriend Is Afraid To Kiss: Is That Normal?
« #20 on: January 02, 2006, 06:46 PM »

please don't forget she is african and she might be from a strong african heritage where its looked upon as an abomination to kiss unlike our white women. please, take it easy on her she would kiss you someday when she's ready or you can just give her a surprise kiss when you fight and just tease her that that was the solution to you guys argument. Kiss Grin
Z4M4eva (f)
Re: My Girlfriend Is Afraid To Kiss: Is That Normal?
« #21 on: January 02, 2006, 06:48 PM »

Quote
take it easy on her she would kiss you someday when she's ready or you can just give her a surprise kiss when you fight and just tease her that that was the solution to you guys argument. Kiss Grin

 Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy
vichel (m)
Re: My Girlfriend Is Afraid To Kiss: Is That Normal?
« #22 on: January 02, 2006, 07:00 PM »

Na Kiss hard to get like this Huh, my broder e go take looooong before una go even talk about doing other stuffs Grin
Z4M4eva (f)
Re: My Girlfriend Is Afraid To Kiss: Is That Normal?
« #23 on: January 02, 2006, 07:03 PM »

 Roll Eyes Roll Eyes
michelin89 (f)
Re: My Girlfriend Is Afraid To Kiss: Is That Normal?
« #24 on: January 02, 2006, 08:10 PM »

ahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha
the replies here are killing moi!!!
beautifull (f)
Re: My Girlfriend Is Afraid To Kiss: Is That Normal?
« #25 on: January 02, 2006, 08:26 PM »

waooooooooooooooooooooooo if she is really in love with you
u're suppose to kiss her with out her permission i guess love
works with feeling abi your mouth dey wooozzzzz? Grin Grin
dejiolowe (m)
Re: My Girlfriend Is Afraid To Kiss: Is That Normal?
« #26 on: January 02, 2006, 10:23 PM »

hey dude, if she can't kiss your lips can she should at least kiss some other parts  Grin

if she can't do that, may it is time i took u shopping...
prince_onx
Re: My Girlfriend Is Afraid To Kiss: Is That Normal?
« #27 on: January 03, 2006, 12:52 AM »

maybe people get pregnant from kissing where she came from! ask her!
seriously, you need to talk to her about that since you guys already dated for a month! ask her if she ever kissed before! if the answer is yes, then she need some time to get to know you and your dentist before she kiss you! (joking) maybe she need some time! good luck!
Chxta (m)
Re: My Girlfriend Is Afraid To Kiss: Is That Normal?
« #28 on: January 03, 2006, 01:36 AM »

Maybe his lips are too large and would suck the air all out of her!
nana (f)
Re: My Girlfriend Is Afraid To Kiss: Is That Normal?
« #29 on: January 03, 2006, 01:45 AM »

Same thing happened to me because i was shy but all of a sudden,i just kissed d guy unexpectedly.My guy,please how old is d girl? Her stage of maturity matters.
sage (m)
Re: My Girlfriend Is Afraid To Kiss: Is That Normal?
« #30 on: January 03, 2006, 04:12 AM »

The kiss dey de use am collect money 4 bank?, abi IMF de use am give loan?

My guy, this kin kiss we don de make waves, b/4 una go graduate to another level maybe u go sacrifice ram or goat, b/4 una go come reach the main thing u go don develope grey hair wey get white toppings, b/4 una go come add the oral flavor u go don fry yourself give am make she chop u with cheese b/4 she go come go pilgrimage

Ah, infact my man, i gbadun your longsuffering. Ebi like say na u they make the quality 4. You fit change your name to longsuffering or suffer long.  Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin
hot-angel (f)
Re: My Girlfriend Is Afraid To Kiss: Is That Normal?
« #31 on: January 03, 2006, 06:10 AM »

Hunnie, she might be afraid because it could be that she hasnt had a first kiss yet. See, it's kind of normal (not really)... for a girl to be afraid of her first kiss. All u need to do, is make sure your mouth smell nice (use mint and ish)... and then kiss her cheeks, go to her ear, and then look into her eyes.. using your hand to hold her face to be in front of your face, and tell her to  look into your eyes.. kiss her forehead again, and then go for the lips... using your other hand to hold her body close to urs. I tell u she'll forget that she's afraid of kissing.

Dont just go in front of her, and bring your mouth to her mouth, or even ask her :can i kiss u now?  I know u might want to ask for permission, but on the realz tho.. when u feel the moment is right.. just look into her eyes, tell her u love her.. kiss her forehead like u normally DON'T.. go for her ear (is it just me... or does is there really power in the ear) ..*my body is shivvering*. Anyways like i was saying, Just kiss her when u've gotten her to be in the mood. Good luck hun, and u also got to make sure.. your breath don't stink. Don't kiss her after eating pickle and onions.  Wink

BUT if your girl is head over heels about you not kissing her.. Just leave her alone and MAKE GOOD USE OF THE PART You ARE ALLOWED TO KISS. SHebi its' just lips u can't kiss. Go for the ear, neck, forhead, cheeks, neck again, ear again...

Plus... don't be sloppy when kissing her ear.. just bite em a little, kiss em.. I swear to my black ass. When she see the wonderful job you're doing with those part, she wouldn't be able to wait any longer for u to kiss her lips and not just her lips... (also for u to do some magic with her tongue).
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