Virginity: Pride Or Shame To A Mature Bearer?

Am a virgin, & i don't really go out watching what other people think of me or what their reactions re... they can all FLY off as far as am concerned...ROFWL..HUh!

Times may have changed but the word of God is still the same. Girls, do not be brainwashed - stand for what is true, u will have no regrets- i promise.

It's not easy for one to manitain his or her virginity nowadays.  Most men would insist on making love to so many women before they will end up choosing one to marry.  Most women too would want to test if their men would perform to her test before accepting their proposals.  You can just count the few that are exempted in this regard.  You can see why I see it's not easy to maintain virginity.

Please the few virgins around, be very proud of it and keep to it.  There is nothing to be be ashamed of.

believe me if you are a woman and you wish to keep your vir... you can keep it but be ware of men who move up  and down to see if there are girls to can have sex with
for example there is this guy that came to me and he told me lie that he would like to marry me  and that since he was born that he has never lied his hands on a girl, then what happen this guy he goes to my church and one day my mom saw me talking to him and she told me neveer to talk to him again and each time i see him my heart would be hitting me seriously and i will just run away

love4ever could you please help us out?

ok baby..we now grab

First of all, love4ever, please where are you from?  As in ethnicity.  Secondly I have no idea what you are talking about here so I'll just give my view from the topic.  Walai I did not want to comment on this, but I'll say this: I feel a lot of anger in this place.  Phew, the heat here is hot!

Ladies slow down, abi una need water?  Damn, look we don't have many virgins but we still have quite a few. Keeping the legs closed is a choice.  I don't think it makes you a bad or good person, it just makes you your kind of person.

And for the love of God I see some ladies in here defending there virginity like they are on a war path or like "if the society finds out that you are virgins then you'll be sacrificed".  Hey Pinky, dablessed, tayotina, why you girls fighting?  If you are virgins then in my books you are elite.  You are diamonds, so stop fighting and keep it up.

We have different people in this world; some would accept and some would hate it (look out for the girls that would hate you because they actually wished they were virgins).  Some would be very indifferent to it, and some would not trust it (like me).  But a whole lot of people would respect it , so ladies keep the legs closed till you're ready for your man, okay?

Virginity!!!!! pride of course, come to think of the decadence in our society,for a girl or a boy to keep their virginity means standing out and being non conformists . I am not but I respect those who have treasured theirs especially the girls Way to go ladies!!!!

Pinky and co: very soon we'll form a virgin forum.  I'm very proud of it, ain't you?

Legry, you're a clown in your own respect.  We are not figting, we're only making our comments too.  As for you not trusting us, that's your own big business  No one is really asking for your trust in the first place.  Hulalalala!

Pinky and co: very soon we'll form a virgin forum.  I'm very proud of it, ain't you?

Wonders shall never end.  With all due respect it seems all the girls on this forum are virgins.  I guess the the ratio or percentage is up to 80%. How come it's so only on this forum that we have such a high percentage and not in the actual life or are you ladies not Nigerians?

The only kind of ladies I see around this dayz are the ones that would say anything to get guys to be financially supporting them while they still do other rougher guys who are not willing to accept their "innocence" stories. I am not trying to say anybodys claim is false but I am skeptical of all those who claim to be virgins.

Please don't be quick to jump on me; my personal experience in the university is a big factor.

Well to twist things a little bit, how many people would be ready to marry a virgin? (I, for one, would not.)

Editor: Please visit http://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-481.0.html to answer jogego's question

  Virginity is not a shame but a pride and if you are not a virgin don't feel bad because of what some people wrote here because you got your own life and I've not seen any one that wrote "I'M A VIRGIN" on the forehead so no one can confirm that for you except yourself and maybe your spouse.Life is pull of surprises I wonder why all the ladies in nairaland are all virgins...
  And I will like to give a clue.if you are a virgin then try to keep it for as long as you can but please beware because some guys are out there that they will want to confirm if what you said is real..I'm not saying you will give in but I almost got raped just because I told a friend of mine that I'm a virgin and I never knew she hated me right from that moment and set me up with her boyfriend,thank God I escaped but the guy confessed to me she was the one that prompted him that I too dey "Sako" or how do you say it in Yoruba..I'm not saying this will happen to anyone and I don't think we know ourselves and no one can rape you on the internet but please we gilrs should be careful the way we make publicity..

Sade na wa o!  This is a new twist in the tale.  I hope you  have thrown that silly pal of yours into the dustbin where people like her really belong.  We virgins have sure heard your advice.  I promise we will stop the publicity...LOL

Oh my God...I just can't stop laughing anytime I log in here. 

See this Virgin war don tire me sef, very soon we'll see para-troopers round Lagos with bayonet guns and bazookas saying "be a virgin or die!" or the virgin super trio connection on this forum would strangle me.

Abeg virgin, remain virgin and stay put there.  Non-virgins, hook up with me I'll tell you where we meet.  Haba, to give or receive na problem these days o.