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mohawkchic (f)
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~would you rather be single than be with a brotha or sista who lacks Passion ~Security ~Charm ~Adventure ~Individuality  ~I'd say Hell Yeah!! right off the bat, but sayin that thu,love has No Face or Name Tags,yet somehow we make it a little bit daunting by setting standards as to the personality type we look for in a partner, while you ponder on that thought,do you ave a certain " Type" you normally go for ? as in physical,race etc . . ~I don't do types, its all about chemistry for me  , if the connection is there,am all for givin it a shot, its kind of funny when u meet someone who ticks ceratin boxes/almost all, yet there's always something lacking,for me,thats a constant reminder that nuthing is Predictable or Evitable except for life and death so lets give love a chance wutever shape or form it comes in!! ~Ever so often,we woory more about what we'd rather wish for than what we have,then we miss out on experiencing what cud ave been an exceptional journey of discovery, ~On a much lighter note,do y'll think the brotha's are neck N neck with sista's on the high maintenance ladder   |
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iice (f)
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Interesting. . . .
Hmmm i wouldnt say i don't do types exactly because even if race, physique is not that important to me, i still am attracted to certain characteristics in people. Say humour (i don't like dry jokers plus it has to be a twisted sense of humour), say intelligence (street smarts coupled with common sense with a healthy dose of school smarts), say attitude (I em a bit arrogant with a touch of ghettoness) etc. Sure individuality plays a big part in attraction well that is in my case but I don't boredom, i get enough of that somedays, why da heck would i want it from someone who is supposed to thrill me?
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ogbes (m)
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plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz express yourself well  |
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iice (f)
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who?
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RuuDie (m)
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@ iice - c i got it right, 1 hand ! careful now, your favored xteristics are very "form-able"!
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RuuDie (m)
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Mohawkeye, i'm in love with u already ! would you rather be single than be with a brotha or sista who lacks Passion:Security:charm:adventure: Indivisuality I'd say hell yeah right off the bat, but sayin that thu,love has no face or name tags,yet somehow we make it a little bit dauntin by setting standards as to the personality type we look for in a partner, while you ponder on that thought,do you ave a certain "type" you normally go for ? as in physical,race etc, i don't do types, its all about chemistry for me , if the connection is there,am all for givin it a shot, its kind of funny when u meet someone who ticks ceratin boxes/almost all, yet there's always something lackin,for me,thats a constant reminder that nuthin is predictable or evitable except for life and death so lets give love a chance wutever shape or form it comes in,ever so often,we woory more about what we'd rather wish for than what we have,then we miss out on experiencing what cud ave been an exceptional journey of discovery, on a much lighter note,do y'll think the brotha's are neck N neck with sista's on the high maintenance ladder , lmao Nope kuz we gots 2 the chasing all the time !
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iice (f)
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LOL RuuDie, indeed you did 
Sure they are "form-able" but those are just part of what attracts me to a man. A big part of it has to do with his brain. And am not exactly the type to take a dive from the get go. I like to watch and figure out people.
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RuuDie (m)
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how xactly do u go about figuring out how a brovaz brain works --- seriously, i got my doubts !
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iice (f)
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A person is always bound to slip up if he/she ain't being her/his true self. A person reveals alot by how one talks/speaksif one is thus inclined to read/see the patterns.
Sometimes, in a weak moment, one reveals things. I don't know about other people but i tend to read people quite well (not 100% of course!) And there is such a thing as intuition 
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RuuDie (m)
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i feel your attempt at being objective but i sure it is kuz you are not exactly caught up in the "whirl-wind" now thats why you sounding so cool, methodical & in control !
a brova steps up to you & he's got those immediately visible appealing xteristics; boom you're gone ! if from the moment he comes your way, you start assessing him it means you're not immediately attracted to him ! kuz if you are, you ain't going to be assessing jack ! about the "weak moments" thang, don't know !
pardon my asking & you don't have to answer if you find it inappropriate --- you in a relationship now or you been in one in the past ?
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iice (f)
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laughin ma frozen butt off I think at my age, am allowed a relationship or two! So yeah!
A tidbit - something i never do. . . i must be bored
Ahahahaha i am actually caught up in a whirl-wind But am still watching even though am totally diggin his brain Not a cannibal Sure i am attracted because i think we are very similar, we tend to watch people alot. And i certainly get his humour more than most people do |
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RuuDie (m)
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Good for you --- in time you'll find out that its pretty hard 2 watch & still be attracted --- something's gotta give, one way or another & oh, really don't think you've gotten into a whirl-wind yet kuz your eyes can't be open then !
seems like you are the romantic type --- correct me if i'm wrong !
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iice (f)
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Tres wrong! Am not romantic whatsoever And i don't do romantic dudes, am likely to crush them! Sometimes when i have a crush, once i know the person, the crush goes away. Sometimes not but reality bites and sets in. I have many cool crazy male friends, some i like alot but i will never cross that lineits a mental thing
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RuuDie (m)
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then you're the romantic type & if you don't have a weally, weally special dude in your life now, thats kuz you ain't found that 1 that fits your bill just like our dear ol' poster was saying --- the time on your post says 6:40 a.m., don't tell me you was online all night ?
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iice (f)
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Ahahahaha sorry but really not the romantic type, not in my genes j/k about the genes but if it soothes your brain or whatever to think am romantic just because i happen to be a woman then by all means go ahead People who know me, know me Special is relative atleast for me. And there is someone special but then again he can be 'un-specialled' in due time
Hmmm hmmmm really? Sometimes am online all night but not always around
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RuuDie (m)
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its a mental thing
tell me more about it ! |
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iice (f)
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Ahahahahatoo much tori
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RuuDie (m)
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& i'm a good listener or is it reader ? |
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iice (f)
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Ahahahaha but am not really one for long tori-s
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oreofemi (f)
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no enough replies.
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RuuDie (m)
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Okay, make it as brief as possible, Pweeease !  |
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iice (f)
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Hah! Like i said the brainpower, conditioning, instinct, natural. We are attracted to the physical @ first glance, its natural. But one can condition himself/herself to looking beyond or to look only at the surface.
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RuuDie (m)
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i feel you but do not share your sentiments exacto; kuz i say when you're really, really attracted to someone its like your brains been freezed in gridlock. you are watching but you ain't going to be looking out for stuff that'll bring " 'em down", it'd be more like stuff to "elevate yourself"as 4 romantic, i think you're 1 --- its somewhere in there hidden under a nice, crusty layer of grit; but it is there ! why do u keep changing the pic in your profile |
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iice (f)
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Ahahahaha elevate oneself ke? If you are already elevated, what's the point?
Aha! An optimistcarry on
Is there a restriction against changing profile pics? So i like to change them, depending on my mood
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iice (f)
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Pray tell what that would be?
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luxoire (f)
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@TOPIC
for u to love somone, then they have some of those characteristics that make u attracted to them.
so they might not have it ALL but they have SOME,
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mohawkchic (f)
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Lawdy Lawdy!!! looks like me been away from here for far toooo long,was fun readin your flirtin iice N who's Ruudie??? had a giggle readin your posts!! i plan on catchin up on all the "WHO's,whens N hows" on here ASAP!!! still miss comin on here but soooon i hope!!! regards to y'll, mwauh!! ooh by the way nice pic Ruudie |
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iice (f)
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Lawdy Lawdy!!! looks like me been away from here for far toooo long,was fun readin your flirtin iice N who's Ruudie??? had a giggle readin your posts!! i plan on catchin up on all the "WHO's,whens N hows" on here ASAP!!! still miss comin on here but soooon i hope!!! regards to y'll, mwauh!!
Hahaha, welcome back mohawkchic |
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RuuDie (m)
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ooh by the way nice pic Ruudie Thanx, whoever you is - first person to ever look at the pic i think. Thanx ! @ IIce, who's that |
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iice (f)
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Lol she's the thread starter
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RuuDie (m)
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Lol she's the thread starter yeah but y'all was all pally and stuff - mohawkchic bizzarely, queer |
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