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femland
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I love this girl and she has kept me on hold for the past 4mths, not stating her mind on the issue whether she is interested or not.all she said is that she is still praying on it but within me i knew she has interest but at times behave funny and getting tired of her.she said she needs to take her time and she need to see something concrete from God about this. which i know God will not come down to tell you this.please kindly advise me on this  |
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Bolarge (m)
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Ol' boy,"I'll pray about it" is oftentimes a very "born again" way of sayin "NOTHING FOR YOU!".  It's 4mths(120 days);better sit her down and thrash it out once and for all. Even Jesus only prayed for 40days. |
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femland
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people kept on saying i shoulg give her time,that she is just trying to study me but for how long does it take to study a person.should i forget the whole thing or still give her a little chance.
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Tobiegal (f)
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How long ave u guys known each oda? Wel, if she realy wants u, den y nt let her come 2 u at her own tyme, abi?! God help u, u would ave moved on by den, Infact, i chics n fronting sef?!  |
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femland
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have known her for more than 8mths i think and hav been askin her out since december last year, i lost my relationship mid last year and i taught i need a woman to go on,as i can see she is a nice one, i don't want to miss her for anything.
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Man-eater (f)
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Duuuuuuhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!
Read between the lines son!
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femland
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man eater
i just need advise on this cause it will very useful, aa per reading between the lines, i don't understand
please open up or explain what you mean, am always appreciating u guys, what ever u say might work and if doesnt i will beard her farewell cause she said if i can't wait that i shold forget it.
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Tobiegal (f)
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i lost my relationship mid last year and i taught i need a woman to go on Am sorry man, bt i think u need 2 get a life!  U want a girl to fill d vaccum in ur life when u ave not fully discovered wot u realy want, femland, i think u should take tyme out n discover yourself, den woman can come in. The woman aint ur problem, ur problem is U. |
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Omo Eko (f)
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Femland move and start searching for a women that will really appreciate you  And what the hell is prayer about is not let u guys are getting marry soon , FEMALES Na WA OH |
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femland
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i knew hav found what i want in this girl not to fill the vacancy in my heart, i mean it almost 8mths after that i got in touch with her. anyway thanks for that wonderful idea
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MyPeace (f)
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@ Tobiegal. dear, you really said it well I want to add are u proposing MARRIAGE to her or u are proposing BOY FRIEND and GIRL FRIEND abegi if the later is the case, leave the poor girl alone, to face more serious thing in life. |
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femland
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marriage ke, am not ready for that now, i just want us to walk towards it.
i mean a seroius relationship that could lead to marriage at long run but i don't know if
shes a prayer warrior ooooooooooo, i mean how long are we going to continue praying.
she comes to my house, i go to hers but she insisted i had to be patient and we should
keep on praying. i told her have prayed my part, is just to hear from her.
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