You Discovered That your Wife Is Dating Someone What Would You Do?

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haywhy (m)
Re: Article Requests or Proposals
« #32 on: March 30, 2007, 12:44 PM »

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cykpelle (m)
Re: You Discovered That your Wife Is Dating Someone What Would You Do?
« #33 on: March 30, 2007, 05:09 PM »

Castrate the bastard dating my ex wife. because that is what she has become. My ex,
olutomiwa (m)
Re: You Discovered That your Wife Is Dating Someone What Would You Do?
« #34 on: April 09, 2007, 09:57 PM »

is your wife SHITTING on you
adeboo (f)
Re: You Discovered That your Wife Is Dating Someone What Would You Do?
« #35 on: April 10, 2007, 12:11 PM »

My guy, the thing is that once you are married, the whole situation changes.

If you discover that with concrete evidence, and you still love her then you should give her another chance - there is nothing new under the sun.

But obviuosly the trust element is gone but if you allow her another chance, you will have to build that trust all over again. Its going to be real hard cause whenever she receives phone calls or even goes out, you will be suspicious but tr as much as possible  not to allow your suspicions run riot in your head.

And another thing is there is no flame without smoke - obviously you need to reflect on the fact that u may have contributed to the whole saga (maybe u work late or you just don't give her the time of day) but u just need to do alot of deep thinking.

Another thing is to see a real professional marriage counsellor. If you are believers don't leave it to your pastors alone, let them assist you in prayers but go to a professional cause thats there job.

It shall be well but if you can, and yu still love her don't let this one go without a fight.

Good luck.
amaikama (m)
Re: You Discovered That your Wife Is Dating Someone What Would You Do?
« #36 on: August 06, 2007, 01:34 PM »

First of all, what is she sorry about? what is it that made her to go out to do what she did? Your respond to this thread sound ridiculous! Angry how can u forgive your wife cheating on you? if u are a bachelor it's a different ball game but not when u are married. we all have custom's and in some customs, such an act is punishable while in some, while you figure it out. let me just ask this few question, would you forgive your wife trying to kill you all in the name of i love her?  Angry

One should have seeing what sort of wife or man he or she is marrying. if you see the man or woman you are getting married too is a womanizer or a slut, you back out!! abi you go see fire go put your hand all in the name of love?

Abeg make we talk true.  Angry
amaikama (m)
Re: You Discovered That your Wife Is Dating Someone What Would You Do?
« #37 on: November 12, 2007, 03:56 PM »

There is nothing to talk abot with a cheat woman.  Angry let call a spade a spade. she out of my life  Angry and if you want to question me if am been faithful to her as well, yes i will be it not all men that are cheat but women will not believe that
Naturalle (f)
Re: You Discovered That your Wife Is Dating Someone What Would You Do?
« #38 on: November 25, 2007, 07:58 PM »

I would jst love to believe that most of the guys shouting "kick her out" have/will not cheat on their wives otherwise MAKE THUNDER FRY THAT THAING IN BETWEEN YOUR LEGS for speaking so unforgivingly.

There are many reasons to why someone would cheat. If my husband cheats(God forbid!!) I think i'll seat n reason with him if:
1. I know he aint that kind of person
2.He's apologetic and remorseful

Contrary to this, Only God knows what will happen.

@amaikama,  who knows she could cheat because in your "Oh so knowing" mind, u neglect to shower her with the little things she needs like attention, care, understanding, love, playfulness and instead put in pride and authoritativeness, 

That said, have a swell day all Cheesy
amaikama (m)
Re: You Discovered That your Wife Is Dating Someone What Would You Do?
« #39 on: November 26, 2007, 11:35 AM »

Naturalle!! i treat my girls with respect, love attention, care and what have you.  Angry I came to find out they wanted to be treated like dirt  Angry just recently i came to find out a girl a friend was dating was cheating on the guy even when they where dating she was cheating on him. Her character made the guy to leave her and guess what, she snatch her mothers boyfriend  Angry The mother had to leave the man for her.  Angry isn't that a shame  Cry A girl of least than 25 years old has started snatching her mothers boyfriend, what if she now get married?  Lips sealed
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