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de facto
Flirting Is Healthy?
« on: March 22, 2007, 07:03 PM »

Is flirting a crime or [just] a way of boosting your ego?
cute-ass (f)
Re: Flirting Is Healthy
« #1 on: March 22, 2007, 07:26 PM »

Its not a crime ooo, just an innocent exchange of eye contact and flattery words Cheesy

flirting with someone dosen't have to mean anything or lead to anything.
I flirtbut i've never had dirty thoughts in my head while doing that Wink

common, i love my boyfriend, its just an act to keep the hand of the clock moving Grin

sometimes you even flirt on-line jokingly Wink
damsol (f)
Re: Flirting Is Healthy
« #2 on: March 22, 2007, 07:27 PM »

re u serious?
cute-ass (f)
Re: Flirting Is Healthy
« #3 on: March 22, 2007, 07:32 PM »

Quote from: damsol on March 22, 2007, 07:27 PM
re u serious?

is the question for me?
Radiant (f)
Re: Flirting Is Healthy
« #4 on: March 22, 2007, 09:40 PM »

Flirting is healthy? OK! *roll eyes*
white`Nkem (f)
Re: Flirting Is Healthy
« #5 on: March 22, 2007, 10:34 PM »

Quote from: de facto on March 22, 2007, 07:03 PM
is flirting a crime or its a way of boosting your ego?

Why only these 2 options? Healthy? In what way? Man,  you gotta sort out the definition of flirt!
Radiant (f)
Re: Flirting Is Healthy
« #6 on: March 22, 2007, 10:39 PM »

Lol. . .Nkem, pls don't even get me started with this topic  Grin
white`Nkem (f)
Re: Flirting Is Healthy?
« #7 on: March 22, 2007, 10:45 PM »

And why is that? Pls do start, I can't wait to see your ideas on the table. Wink
Radiant (f)
Re: Flirting Is Healthy?
« #8 on: March 22, 2007, 10:52 PM »

Hehehehehe  Lips sealed Wink
akara (m)
Re: Flirting Is Healthy?
« #9 on: March 22, 2007, 10:56 PM »


Grin

                                          Very healthy so long as it doesnt go beyond "just that". Though the temptation is always there.

Grin
spoilt (f)
Re: Flirting Is Healthy?
« #10 on: March 23, 2007, 02:03 AM »

i dont appreciate flirts!
i just dont see the point. richer guys trying to bring another guy down by being all over his girl or those girls that like to display in front of your man. seems they can never get their own but as soon as they see yours they start acting demented and crazy like they are on cheap drugs!  Grin Grin and by the way, dont flirt with someone who is accompanied. its to poor taste.
waleleader (m)
Re: Flirting Is Healthy?
« #11 on: March 23, 2007, 02:08 AM »

I don't know, i never flirt except if the lady is cute and charming  Cheesy Cool
ikamefa (f)
Re: Flirting Is Healthy?
« #12 on: March 23, 2007, 02:39 AM »

flirting is aight!  Cheesy it helps to keep his blood boiling!  Cheesy
Free (f)
Re: Flirting Is Healthy?
« #13 on: March 23, 2007, 04:15 AM »

hmmm

i dnt know bout it bein healthy though???
acidrop (f)
Re: Flirting Is Healthy?
« #14 on: March 23, 2007, 04:27 AM »

oooooooooooo no its not, cos the beating or yelling or even breakups that follows it is ssssssssssssssssoooo not healthy
waleleader (m)
Re: Flirting Is Healthy?
« #15 on: March 23, 2007, 08:19 AM »

@acidrop,
i thot we were talking of casual flirting not actually  commmiting the act.
breeolan (f)
Re: Flirting Is Healthy?
« #16 on: March 23, 2007, 08:27 AM »

flirting is so much fun, very interestin, but attimes you av to be ahead of your game or it will land u in a deep mess, if you knw wat i mean,

i'd say flirting requires alot of maturity, Two matured minds playing a game,  Its a game, so play it, Ders always a winner,  Cheesy
waleleader (m)
Re: Flirting Is Healthy?
« #17 on: March 23, 2007, 08:30 AM »

Quote from: breeolan on March 23, 2007, 08:27 AM
flirting is so much fun, very interestin, but attimes you av to be ahead of your game or it will land u in a deep mess, if you knw what i mean,

i'd say flirting requires alot of maturity, Two matured minds playing a game, Its a game, so play it, Ders always a winner, Cheesy

@Brenda
You took these words out of my mouth, how dare you  Grin Grin
breeolan (f)
Re: Flirting Is Healthy?
« #18 on: March 23, 2007, 09:28 AM »

@ walelead

ehehen Undecided

 Cheesy

Rhea (m)
Re: Flirting Is Healthy?
« #19 on: March 23, 2007, 09:45 AM »

Flirting can be mad fun,

especially when that big booty secretary bends over my desk to ask a question,

with her creamy bosoms harrassingly and aggressively starring at me through that tight top,

and I'm trying very HARD to concentrate

and at the same time pretending so much that I can make out what she's saying,

only for me to interrupt midway with

'could you come again with that question'.

Women! What would we do without you? Grin
brownbaby (f)
Re: Flirting Is Healthy?
« #20 on: March 23, 2007, 10:01 AM »

Quote from: breeolan on March 23, 2007, 08:27 AM
flirting is so much fun, very interestin, but attimes you av to be ahead of your game or it will land u in a deep mess, if you knw what i mean,

i'd say flirting requires alot of maturity, Two matured minds playing a game, Its a game, so play it, Ders always a winner, Cheesy
[/quote

I guess you are very mature, there is nothing to be said again u said it all. Cheesy



Dvampire (m)
Re: Flirting Is Healthy?
« #21 on: March 23, 2007, 10:01 AM »

as many of una dey say flirting good, make una remember say na wetin dey sweet na im dey kill persin.
breeolan (f)
Re: Flirting Is Healthy?
« #22 on: March 23, 2007, 10:16 AM »

Quote from: Dvampire on March 23, 2007, 10:01 AM
as many of una dey say flirting good, make una remember say na wetin dey sweet na im dey kill persin.

dat is y i sed you av to be ahead of your game cos as much as it can be fun, if your not in control of your senses, u might loose it,

tho' attimes u might wanna loose it really depending on who or wer your flirting u get? Wink
d venom (m)
Re: Flirting Is Healthy?
« #23 on: March 23, 2007, 11:08 AM »

I love to flirt a lot but I cant say if its healthy or not.It just depends on the people involved,and being able to stop things from going out of hand,although,that to me is the essence of flirting;things getting uncontrollable.Just try as much as possible to avoid a showdown!As for me,I cant live without eye contacts,with girls I think are soo cute,and unfamiliar,It keeps me going!
agnesoseka
Re: Flirting Is Healthy?
« #24 on: March 23, 2007, 12:05 PM »

its sweet to flirt sometimes.No harm. Grin
SOJ (m)
Re: Flirting Is Healthy?
« #25 on: March 23, 2007, 12:41 PM »

You bet it is!How do expect to keep your sanity in this boring world? A little something by the side wouldn't hurt nobody,
















except your lover!
waleleader (m)
Re: Flirting Is Healthy?
« #26 on: March 23, 2007, 01:31 PM »

@all,

Just like Breeolan said, its a game for adults only, No kids allowed.

i mean kids as in adults that cant control thier emotions

If a girl wants to be with me, she needs to be OK with the fact that im gonna compliment other ladies

she just needs to be confident that i am mature enuf to end it when appropriate and attach no strings


@rhea, what u described is not flirting, thats sexual harrasment, check Dictionary for reference
if the secretary finds out, she'll sue you

So peeps, get your flirting skills on
brownbaby (f)
Re: Flirting Is Healthy?
« #27 on: March 23, 2007, 02:24 PM »

Can somebody quickly give the dictionary meaning of flirt?
amodiaquin
Re: Flirting Is Healthy?
« #28 on: March 23, 2007, 02:55 PM »

Flirting is a nicer word for ADULTERY. Once you look at one lustfully, the act has already been commited.The first look might be inevitable but the next look is adultery
waleleader (m)
Re: Flirting Is Healthy?
« #29 on: March 23, 2007, 03:12 PM »

Your accepted definition for flirting will influence the way you play the game. I choose definition 1, Mind the phrase "without serious intentions"

Definition 1: To make amorous advances without serious intentions

Defintion 2: Playful behavior intended to arouse sexual interest

Ref: http://www.answers.com/flirt

an average nigerian man does no know how to flirt to get a lady's attention, thats why they steal to become aristos and shower her with gifts. Have u ever realised that not all players are rich, they just got game. Wink Wink
iice (f)
Re: Flirting Is Healthy?
« #30 on: March 23, 2007, 05:00 PM »

*sighs* Undecided
hooplarr (m)
Re: Flirting Is Healthy?
« #31 on: March 23, 2007, 08:01 PM »

Hey! Flirting works for me all the time.

Kind of knocks off the boredom,

And the moral of the story is that you had better cuff your chick to yourself,

I'm on he prowl and soon she'll be calling you my name, Hoopy!!!!!
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