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Zebedee (m)
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based on the NIGERIAN and African culture, if you caught your daughter having sex with her boyfriend in your home. what would you do?
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mamaput (f)
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Depends on the tribe not so.
From forcing them to get married to stoning everything is possible
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Omo Eko (f)
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There is nothing you can do now, u should warn her that if she get pregnant u are kicking her out.
This are the reason why parents should be close to their children and also talk to them about sex education., anyway is to late now, now u just have to advice and talk to her. And don't curse at her or yell because that will make the matter worst.
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Coco29 (f)
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There is nothing you can do, now u should have to warn her that if she get pregnant u are kicking her out.
now why would any parent do that  |
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Omo Eko (f)
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now why would any parent do that trust me African parents will, it like a disgrace to the family and community. they will feel humiliated |
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Coco29 (f)
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wow when i got pregnant my mother took me too a private hospital, making sure i was ok, i was showered with love,
although she was quite disappointed.
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ThiefOfHearts (f)
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Guess we're raised with the thought of not disappointing our parents.
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Omo Eko (f)
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There is nothing like showing love or affection.
The girl will be damn lucky with her parent doesn't disowned her, but they might later change their minds.
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ThiefOfHearts (f)
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I wouldnt exactly want to spend money raising my daughter and her random kid either.
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Radiant (f)
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There is nothing you can do now, u should warn her that if she get pregnant u are kicking her out.
I've never seen a family disown their own daughter because she got pregnant outside wedlock |
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Radiant (f)
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What can I do if I catch her having sex in my home? Is it different if she's doing it outside my home? Bring her closer to me and advise her. What else? |
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Sweet T (m)
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I will first cut the phone line where she can't call the police, then i would get a very strong belt and begin lash the boy for yansh. The problem is not that he's screwing my daughter but that he has the gut to do it in my own house. To me, that's very disrespectful. Don't he have a place of his own? if he doesn't then he has no business messing with pregnacy ! My daughter is most definitely grounded for months.
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Omo Eko (f)
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@sweet T
But doesn't slove the issue and that doesn't mean she will stop having sex.
They are going to found a place to do it.
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Sweet T (m)
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@Omo Eko
You right Baby, but atleast they get the point. The things that you don't see or hear doesn't bother you. What she does outside home does not bother me but when she bring that sh!^ to my house, trouble go start O.
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Sweet T (m)
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I wish that anytime you have a daughter, there is a mechanism that you can program that a point or mark shows on your daughter's forehead everytime she screws a boy until she's 18.
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Radiant (f)
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Sweet T, you sure you in planet Earth? You reason like . . . |
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Busta (f)
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@topic,
how old is the daughter we're talkin bout here?
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ima1 (f)
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I've never seen a family disown their own daughter because she got pregnant outside wedlock oh trust me my dad will, if something like that ever happened. |
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Sweet T (m)
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@Radiant
I know but i'm only wishing !
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Radiant (f)
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oh trust me my dad will, if something like that ever happened.
I've heard this times without number but it NEVER happend. You dad can only threaten you with that but when it actaully happens, that's when you'll know blood is thicker than water. |
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Zebedee (m)
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I've heard this times without number but it NEVER happend.
You dad can only threaten you with that but when it actaully happens, that's when you'll know blood is thicker than water.
forget matter, some dads could be mean you know!!!!!!!!!!!! |
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gmcln (m)
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Why will my daughter bring a man (u call it boyfriend) to my home?
When my daughters were in college, they don't even catch a ride home during
college breaks with a boy, much less come home with one. I pay the student loans and the house mortgage,
that is why i make the rules. They all graduate now, bought their own homes now they can have how ever they want.
Sorry Aim just a father.
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Omo Eko (f)
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Why will my daughter bring a man (u call it boyfriend) to my home?
When my daughters were in college, they don't even catch a ride home during
college breaks with a boy, much less come home with one. I pay the student loans and the house mortgage,
that is why i make the rules. They all graduate now, bought their own homes now they can have how ever they want.
Sorry Aim just a father.
anyway strict parents like u are the ones their children get out of hands, sneak out of the house and get pregnant. |
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tafari (m)
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ferlie, mania.
where av you been?
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tafari (m)
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you are a goat and cray fish.  |
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Everbright (f)
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I will send hjer to a military school |
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osegwu (m)
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I don't want to think about it. don't know what I wiil.
If I have daughter good but I i don't have better.
Still me
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Radiant (f)
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forget matter, some dads could be mean you know!!!!!!!!!!!!
Excuse me Mister, what don't you get in my previous posts? I said I've heard it a million times but it has never happened. It's just a mere threat!!! Got it now? |
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numbers
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I'll will personally design and install a vaginal lock on her and the only key would be my thumb print, ;Djust hope I'll never have to, |
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mamaput (f)
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numbers are you not afraid to torch your daughters something when putting that lock.
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kaydee (m)
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Cane ma daughter in ma crib  That boy will get 100 lashes of koboko on that nail he waz using to "chook chook" ma daughter. Then ma daughter will get 100lashes everyday for a month. Nonsense!!! |
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busygirl (f)
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ah kaydee, You're exagerrating, u can't beat ur daughter 100lashes everyday for a month ------u'll get tired |
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