Can You Marry A Prostitute?

AS FOR ME A THIEF U NO IS BETTER THAN D ONE U DON'T NO, IF U LOVE HER U CAN CHANGE  HER  MODE OF LIVING AND SHE WILL BE COME A SERIOUS PERSON, FORTRATION MISS LEAD LADY INTO THAT

_{I've seen a topic like this before.}

A prostitute is someone who offers her body indiscriminately for sexual intercourse especially for money.
is that the kind of person i can even think about proposing marriage to?
no way.
i can't even give it a second thought.

@Cheavroi

It depends, is the woman still a prostitute, if she is, then she should not be considered for marriage.

However, if she was a prostitute in the past, and she is now a productable citizen, I don't see why not.

We all have skeletons in our closets, at least you are aware of what this womans skeleton is. However though, before marriage test should be conducted to make sure she does not have AIDS or HIV but then again, even if she were not an ex prostitute, those test should still be done. Even if she was a virgin, you would still never really know if that is the truth.


No body's perfect, and when it comes to love, you have to accept people the way that they are; other wise you will never get a chance to see how love is if you are constantly looking for ways to condemn the very person who will be there for you and always love you.

Can you marry an ex prostitute? the answer is yes.

Can you marry a woman who is presently a prostitue? the answer is no.

men u've said it all,

@Crazykid



You are really crazy for that one. That is not true, a woman's stuff is very capable of snapping back. In fact I have heard that because of the experience prostitutes have, they have some of the best stuff a man can get. Why else do you think men pay to be with them?

Also as far as being able to satisfy an ex prostitute, when a woman is a prostitute, do you think she enjoys' having sex with different men?

Sex with one man is the most rewarding and a woman knows this. More than likely a prostitute who wishes to change her life, she will be very grateful to a man who wishes to be faithful to her and more than likely the sex that she has with him will be the best she ever had.

I refer U to The Tragedy Of Samson & Delilah.

how many girls today no be prostitute?, less than 50%, prostitute get class,
lowest class, stays in a brothel, stands on the road
lower class,  a student doing 'runs' from the campus
low class,  a girl dating more than one man that gives her money for her up-keep
high class,  a woman that sleeps with a man just to get a contract from his company, and get paid on time
highest class, a woman that sleeps with the high and strong in the society for political positions, such as commissioner, Minister, board appointment etc,

brother, which level your prostitute de?

Nahhhhh. Wont ever be sure if she wont go back to it in future. Ifshe had changed beforeI met her I may consider it

Marry a prostitute? What kind of sick joke is that? 

Sista, u joking, right?

Prostitute know who go marry am! _{You guys should also ask "can u marry a mad woman or mad man"?}

Yeah because u already know that she will be cheating anyway.So why worry about it

@Radiant



I don't see anything wrong with marrying an ex prostitute.

What are the chances of you knowing of the fatal skeletons in your mates closet?

How many women marry men who at one time used to engage in homosexual activity and now they are married to him?

How many men marry a woman they thought was a virgin but she in fact was not.

All I am saying is, if a man knows the woman he is about to marry used to be a prostitute, at least he is aware of her skeleton.

Nobody is perfect not even you.

In case you over looked, I also said, if a man is to marry an ex prostitute, test should be taken to make sure she is not HIV positive or has Aids, but then again she needs him to be tested as well. Anyone who is planning on getting married and they have had unprotected sex in the past, weather they used to be a prostitute or not, they should get tested to prevent the past from becoming a future problem for the future marriage.

Sista me, Once a prostitute, always one! (Tho' might not be hardcore when married)

Only before marriage you test for HIV?  

Prevention is better than cure! Those who can marry a prostitute, I wish you the best in life.

I didn't say they can't be married but Sista, I can't marry a prostitute. Can you marry one?

Then I guess you can say once a poor man always a poor man. Or once a sex addict always a sex addict. Or once a woman who sleeps around for free, always a woman who sleeps around for free. In which case, who would be the stupidest? The woman who sleeps around for free or the one who gets paid for it?

If a prostitute stops getting attention, money and enough sex from her partner, there's a very high possibility of going back to the vomit of the past.

Are you advocating abstinence? If anyone has had sex, weather a prostitute or not, they need to be tested before marriage.
What I was implying when I said this was that, it's better/safer not to marry a prostitute because like I said earlier, she can always go back to her vomit.

Would I marry a male prostitute, it depends on how long he has not practiced prostitution. No one is perfect. I would much rather a man who has prostituted to women than a man who claims to be an "ex" homosexual.

At this point, I can only say, goodluck! 

Tho' this whole issue isn't all about HIV. Other things count too

I hope you not encouraging prostitutes and prostitution? Please, lets stop rubbing around the damn shyt. It is bad and please lets try to encourage a quit to it.

@Radiant



I am not encouraging Prostitution or prostitutes and I don't see how you came to the conclusion that that was a possibility no my behalf.

All that I am saying is no one is perfect. A lot of our African sisters are prostitutes and lord knows when they were children, they didn't say "when I grow up, I wish to be a prostitute."

People are abandoned by their family's and as a result they can't eat and they don't have a place to sleep.  There are other circumstances as well that I will not go into. A woman in those types of circumstance may turn to selling her body in order to survive. I say that if she is no longer selling her body, she should not have to suffer a double jeopardy of being rejected because of what she used to do in her pass.

A Prostitute is not alway a prositute from choice. Most of them are from poor countries.
Eastblock Africa Asia.
In Europe you may say she just wanted money. But many other places its bitter.
Her in Germany for example a girl that is 16 still in school can get a regular part time job and earn at about 300€ to 500€ a month. Note on a part time job. In the holiday more Tax free.
A girl in Nigeria cannot do that.
A child that has a bad home here can call a nummber they will tell her were to go and the welfare will take care of her.
In a home here there are about two in a room you get pocket money money for cloths and they home helps you with your home work and any other problem.
Were can you run to in Nigeria.
It is not every body here that runs to a home . some rather go to the streets.
What has all this got to do with   a  A Prostitute?
Ask most of them how they started.
A prostitute in Tailand dose it to support her whole family.
Even dose girls from Nigeria  many do it to support their family.
But what of  a german or US or UK   Prostitute do it for? to support the family? i do not think so.
Sista bringing in the blacks in this case is very okey. And everyone knows that normally am one of the first to say what has Black got to do with this.
In this case it has a lot to do with 3rd world or not.
Why condem them their blood is as red as ours and they have feelings.
They are hardended with time ut they were all born as babys  like everone.
And no child says "when am big i want to be come a P.
Its easier to become one that get out of it.

@Radiant


You must not have learned me yet. When ever I get a chance to speak from a black perspective, that Is what I will do and I will not be stopping. So, I think you should get used to it or don't waste your time responding to my post  because when I reply to you, the word black, African or Africans  is going to be in at least one of my sentences.


Now, if you must know why I talked about our African sisters. I talked bout them because if I am not mistaken you are of African descent your self. You never know if you could have been in the same situation as one of our African sisters, what you would have done. Would you want to be rejected for doing what you had to do in order to survive? Survival is a human thing and being that some of us humans are not human enough, other people on this planet have to suffer. We don't have to go into the politics of why Africa and Africans are suffering. Our African sisters, even the ones who are prostitute, they are some beautiful women.

I know one here where I live. She used to be a prostitute in London and she just gave birth to her first baby after having so many abortions. I am proud of her for not being selfish enough to keep on having those abortions and finally giving birth to a beautiful African baby. Unfortunately however, the African man she had the baby with, he wasn't worth having a baby for because he sleeps around and is not interested in settling down. My point is, now after being a prostitute she is a loving mother who gave up prostitution a long time ago and now she is a mother. Some day I hope she can find a loving man to help her raise that baby and I don't think it should matter that at one time she used to sell her body.

How many women do you know who have had several male partners for free, without charge? You don't know. That is the whole thing. The only difference between a prostitute and a woman who sleeps around in my opinion is, the prostitute is smart enough to charge.