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jdeebaba (m)
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I'm a guy but i find it difficult to tell a girl i want to have a relatiuonship with her how can i do this plz help me
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nikynike (f)
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@Jdeebab, In this Naija huh, u don't know how to toast a girl? Funny u. l will make a drawing for you and the babe on how to start it. 
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cute-ass (f)
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@ nikynike where have you been, ive missed you darling  @jdeebaba well some will find it weired, bur dear you have nothing to be ashamed of, i like your courage ad hope you get the help you're after afterall nobody knows it all Now where are the guys in the house forum?, get your b^tts over here and help this brother out 
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Pelumiv (m)
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I was once in that stage so i will advice u start with girls that i've been chatting with before and later you can think of girls u re meeting for the first time alright. It pretty simple. As you have enough courage to tell us ur problem, try and walk up to her with courage ok. Then U say "Hi what's up just say it like u want to ask for a direction from a girl don't be afraid try sayin thing like i have been havin something on my mind an di think it time i just let you know because i can't help it. Then say things like " I will like us to get a bit closer" Alright? By now i'm sure she will be like she's engage or not ready or not interested. Let her know you can't take that for an answer. U want a positive reply. Try come up with words of humor, don't make it too much, just to make her smile a litter bit. Alright but always expect the unexpected and learn to smile when you get yabed. Hope that helps
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Pelumiv (m)
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Girls please. help this guy because you know what the guys have been saying to you. Just come up with some and help this big brother.
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Raymond88
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To toast a girl you just put her in an oven and watch the baby fryyyy! 
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saucekid (m)
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@ poster, walk up to the girl,look her straight in the eye and tell her these words oruko mi ni sikiru.wo, mo ni ife re so iwo gbodo ni ife mi pada odawise se o ri igo yi lowo mi,ti o ba ni ife mi nisin, ma pa igo yi mo e lori. if she doesn't agree,the i'll refund your money chai,the guy no sabi toast
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SwtNsoFLyy (f)
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LOL Saucekid. YOu're too funny. Tho I'm learning what 'toasting' means, I was also wandering how a man does this,, and looking for some idea, tho in your case I see the guy getting a refund on this one. LOL,
love & light,
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saucekid (m)
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@ sweetnsoflyy,
thanks alot and i hope the guy in question forgets about the refund
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marlet01 (m)
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@ Poster
Don't you have friends that can give u tips on that? Rather than come here and get embarassed by people.
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niceuzor
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@topic You know what visit www.loveupdate then you will get tips on how to toast a Girl Good luck 
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Easybaby (f)
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@Poster . . .this ya pose na die!  Anyway . . . come let me brush you up 
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niceuzor
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-Clear throat 
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niceuzor
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-yes oh just a little fresh cold with this Topic 
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McDreamy
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U can't teach a man how to "toast" a girl , its inborn!!
*Its 'Abinibi'. not Ability!*
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niceuzor
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You can't teach a man how to "toast" a girl , its inborn!!
*Its 'Abinibi'. not Ability!*
WORD!!
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saucekid (m)
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the guy no jasi at all
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olanajim (m)
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If you want to toast a girl. You don't a formular or abracadabra.
Why not be yourself? If you have healthy self image, and you are not the type with devilish intent, my advice is JUST TALK!
Stop embarasing yourself just because you want to chat a lady. I suspect, you are still young. If I am correct, please face your study!
If you still feel you must toast something, TOAST BREAD.
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buzzgonz (m)
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omo i tire for you o. u no jasi at all. re u sure u a real guy ? i bow. na wa for you . but any way sha if u no fit toast babe u go fit toast bread. try toasting bread first u hear.
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olanajim (m)
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Yeah, the way to toasting a small girl is to learn toasting bread!
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niceuzor
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yes na 
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mekoyo (m)
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I was once in that stage so i will advice u start with girls that i've been chatting with before and later you can think of girls u re meeting for the first time alright. It pretty simple. As you have enough courage to tell us your problem, try and walk up to her with courage ok. Then You say "Hi what's up just say it like u want to ask for a direction from a girl don't be afraid try sayin thing like i have been havin something on my mind an di think it time i just let you know because i can't help it. Then say things like " I will like us to get a bit closer" Alright? By now i'm sure she will be like she's engage or not ready or not interested. Let her know you can't take that for an answer. You want a positive reply. Try come up with words of humor, don't make it too much, just to make her smile a litter bit. Alright but always expect the unexpected and learn to smile when you get yabed. Hope that helps lecturer is this toasting 101? 
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Baby love (f)
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 its like this ur disease is as a result of 2 things: 1. either u dnt have d guts o confidence 2 talk 2 them o which u can go to school n learn 2. u tooo wowo 4 their liking.
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NaJa HaJe (f)
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You can't teach a man how to "toast" a girl , its inborn!!
*Its 'Abinibi'. not Ability!*
WORD!!!!!!! If you want to toast a girl. You don't a formular or abracadabra.
Why not be yourself? If you have healthy self image, and you are not the type with devilish intent, my advice is JUST TALK!
Stop embarasing yourself just because you want to chat a lady. I suspect, you are still young. If I am correct, please face your study!
If you still feel you must toast something, TOAST BREAD.
 @ saucekid what does your yoruba mean? The bit i managed to read was really funny
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saucekid (m)
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@ Naje,
the yoruba simply means that the guy should take the girl by force whether she love am or not
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NaJa HaJe (f)
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LOL!!! i thought so. lol!!!!
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Vicjustice (m)
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I'm a guy but i find it difficult to tell a girl i want to have a relatiuonship with her how can i do this plz help me
You wrote this up there with courage, so with the same courage, you can "toast" a girl. Com'on, it's easy; remember that there are many guys like you, so this means there are many more girls who are vacant with anticipation that you guys would come to them. There are many ways a relationship can kick off, many of which do not necessarily demand many grammars or step by step. But in an event of conventional "toasting" simply follow this guidelines: *Meet a girl you like in an area and condition that would be convenient for her to give you better attention *Give greetings with integrity. . . *Have a little chat about anything and see her areas of interest. . . *Be sensitive to her attitude and see if she likes your conversation *Ask her what she plans for the week, especially the weekend *Then ask her if she'D like to go outing with you, perhaps for a drink *Arrange the day and time *Close the conversation with an exchange of phone numbers. I know that some Nigerian girls could be so unnecessarily reluctant in a show of "hard to get", so this is where you simply have to apply some instinctive wisdom: remember, money, money, money is not always the best way to entice a lady.
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Tattooboy (m)
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@victjustice nice one
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Creamish (f)
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watever u do, don't let a little slap discourag u because as a beginner, its bound to happen 
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Steroid101 (m)
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Poster, simple thing now 1) Eye contact first, make sure you don't look away till she does 2) Show interest, call her if she comes, tell her that you have always admired her anytime you see her, that she is so beautiful, she will say thank you and leave, allow her. If she does nt come and ignore you, don't mind her, give her some time and do as if you don't care again 3) On the third sight repeat the procedure Note this will only work on a particular enviroment, if you need more enviroments show interest, or go to her blogger www.blogspot.com/
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onyeka_ng (f)
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u no sabi toast ke! that is really funny 
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