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quickygirl (f)
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Get involved in activities. Girls like guys who are doing things. And on the plus side, if you join a school team, more girls will notice you so you have another way to tell her. Be yourself. Girls like boys who are themselves. And make sure you know the girl! While girls appreciate an honest boy, if who "you" are is not what the girl is into, you're not going to get very far. If she won't like you for who you truly are, she's not worth it. Dig up any information you can find out about her. Search for her hobbies, interests, music she listens to, friends she likes, etc. Just understand her general style and adapt to it. The first thing a girl looks at is a guy's style. Talk to her about stuff she is interested in - such as music she likes. Most importantly, try to get her to talk about herself, then build on that. People are naturally more comfortable talking about themselves anyway. Think of it as an opportunity to find out more about this girl so you can determine if you want to pursue her further. Also, if you are stuck on some conversation starters, remember the two starters that always seems to work: food and weather. Be funny and crack a joke every now and then or tell a girl an embarrassing story, but don't gossip! Most girls hate guys who gossip, but love guys who are funny. Ask her to hang out. If you get to know each other better you may end up going out or you may end up realizing she wasn't the girl for you anyway. Be a gentleman. Open the door for her, pull out her chair before she sits down, don't interrupt, etc. Those things show a poised, graceful man, and girls like that. You can't act like you do around your male friends. Also, be polite. Compliment her. Just make sure that you are sincere, don't just make something up- if you look for something that really makes you like her, she'll know that you're interested in getting to know her better. Also, know the right ways to compliment. Some girls like it if you say "I like your hair/clothes." To be safe, be nice, cute, and above all, not creepy. Leering is a definite turn-off. Space. Chicks dig space.Don't be too clingy, Give her space.
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