My Fiancee Is Too Attractive For Comfort

hey i think u should remain clam and try an think things through. if she really loves you, she will stay with you no matter what and if she knows that you are trying to make more money then she should not leave you for anything. if she does leave you then she was not meant for you. i beleive in true love and it can blind everthing even finances. gd luck men. i think u should just keep trying to build those financial muscles and see how things turn out.

guy, I feel your predicament especially if she's as attractive as u said.

but women are not that reliable. She'll make the promise to u but as soon
as a richer guy comes along, trust me, she's gone. . .
or better still her family and friends can make her change her mind about u.

my advice, get her pregnant quick . . that way, she's stuck with u!

omg you did not say that, lol

he is complaining he can't afford to get married and now you say add a child in the mix, lol thats like jumping from fry pan to fire

my advice, do what you can to make her comfortable, and don't take too long finding your way as a man.

show us a pic, we ll let u know where u stand, u probably have nothing to worry about   

@ckc,
for her to stand by you despite your financial status shows that her love for you is not based on what you have but who you are. She is in love with you. My advice to you is that you should trust her, it is very important. Remember that those other wealthy men were there before you started your relationship, yet she picked you. I know how you feel because my fiancee once had doubts about my being able to wait for him. Like you, he was struggling to find his feet when we started our relationship and he had fears because i had advances from wealthy goodlooking men. Do you know what i used to tell him?I told him that of all the men he was the only one my heart,my body and my soul longed for and i wasnt in it for the money, because for me money can't buy my happiness. My parents and friends also helped reassure him that i was his. That encouraged him, and he tried his hands at so many things to earn a living. I am proud to say that he is doing so well now and our wedding is coming up soon.
Dont let your reservations push her away, because you will start beng jealous unconciously and start suspecting her of having affairs. This can push her away and you'll loose her. Hang on there, and try to build a career for yourself. Reassure her of your love for her, that is what she needs, while at the same time planning for your future together. Commit your relationship to God in prayer. That is what my fiancee did and it held us together.Wish you all the best.

what a great family i hv in nairaland.woooow!thanks to u all for your wonderful pieces of advice and i will sure adhere to them.I really fell better now.thanks to u all.

@CKC
 you said she is attractive and beautiful,one thing you don't understand in women is the more beautiful they are the more their market value. So if you know your money cannot afford and maintain your fiancee go for a less attractive and beautiful one.

Just lie down in your game and keep hoping for better dayz

I hope she's not complaining, I won't really blame her if she complains cos she's a woman, women get old easily and most men are dogs, I don't mean u, most men in the sense that the woman sticks with them when its rough and everything until he gets really rich, and how does he repay her, he dumps her for another lady cos he feels on top of the world.
I will just advice you to do the best you can, and get yourself together on time if u know what I mean, don't waste too much time all in the name of "i'm not financially ready"

get it?

people think all women love money.its not true. you really cant do anything except love her with all your heart. and while you are at it quit whining about other guys having money. work hard or get a better job (there's something very sexy about a man that has dough in the bank) and provide her the security she deserves ok.
goodluck oh!

@rookie

Out of curiosity, could you please tell us how you would find out ? What exactly are you going to say to her ?

Love is not everything oo
You better make your dough fast before a faster guy does it for you
Yes she will profess luv now but when she cannot be maintained,
definitely she will look for an alternative
shine your eye

I advice you leave her if you are not comfortable with the fact that she is so pretty despite the fact that she professes her love for you and is willing to stick to your poor ass! Grow Up!!!!

     My guy,u're drifting all over the Atlantic.

if she's urs, she'll be,so no long tin

guy my advice tu u is tu hold your ground for as long as u can but as much as id advice u tu b positive the odds are against u . u do need a contigency plan cuz there definitely wil b other factors for her tu consider bsides love.dnt drop dead if shit happens cuz it just myt.like i said u need tu be PREPARED!