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molasco (m)
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I have been asking this lady out for about four months now. Just last week she gave me some conditions - NO SEX, NO TOUCHING AND SHE WOULD'NT COME TO MY HOUSE ALONE. She will be 25 this year. She claimed to be a virgin and she is currently serving. Though I love, shoud I accept this condition? Because I've been having sex for a very long time. I'm confused. 
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BlackMamba (m)
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There are 2 kinds of guys my friend. Those who have patience and those who don't. Which one are you? You can play along and still get the punani when she's ready to give it up. ie if you're the patient type and really want her. Hanging along doesn't stop you from exploring. Everything depends on the type of guy you are and what you want from her.
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busygirl (f)
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If u really love her like u claimed, u should wait till your wedding nait, ask 4 grace from God
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Busta (f)
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The ball is in your court.
at least she wanna date u,
u either be patient and wait till wheneva she's ready or u leave her and go find someone else that give it to u wheneva u wanna.
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Omo Eko (f)
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Well i won't be surprised if that girl is not a virgin on your wedding day 
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spoilt (f)
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everything shouldnt always be about sex. dont you want to experience how the other half lives for once? 
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ima1 (f)
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ya you should, if a guy can't wait until i am ready then he shouldn't bother wanting to be with me, but im cool with the touching just not the sex.
no touching is like dating a stone, but if its what u want u should wait it might actually be worth it if she is a virgin
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cute-ass (f)
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ya you should, if a guy can't wait until i am ready then he shouldn't bother wanting to be with me, but im cool with the touching just not the sex.
no touching is like dating a stone, but if its what u want u should wait it might actually be worth it if she is a virgin
couldn't have said it better myself 
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Sweet T (m)
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@Molasco Would you want some idiot touching or sexing your daughter before she is ready? Now leave that girl alone and get the hell on ! onisekuse. If that was my daughter i go chop off your swollen balls 
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abstarr (m)
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Very simple, if u can, wait; if u cant, then get the hell on' 
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Bolarge (m)
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Since she won't be coming to your house alone,if u must touch,touch her friend. . That's touching her by proxy. . She no suppose mind Nairalanders no go kill me O!  Neways I respect your girl. 
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ugodaniel (m)
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Have you thought maybe she just wanna try ya psyche and ego to see how long you can last?
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spoilt (f)
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even for girls who have had sex before, sometimes you just want a break from all the sex sex sex! she might not be a virgin, maybe she just wants you to know her , without biblically KNOWING HER
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molasco (m)
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Thank you all for your replies. The point is that I love her and I dont want to break her heart, I'm scared because I may actually end up cheating on her.
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LJ (m)
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Thank you all for your replies. The point is that I love her and I don't want to break her heart, I'm scared because I may actually end up cheating on her.
my impression about u is that u can but have sex somtime soon. i dont think its realistic for u to assume u wouldnt cheat on her. good luck bro
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numbers
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damn!, rule no 1, never settle for less than your expectations,its not worth it, if the reason your going into a r/tionship is 2 be happy.I personally can't ask a girl if I ve not slept with her  ,
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knighthood (m)
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well if i am in that condition, i will be patient cos i know where i will get her that will make are to forget rules! I am good in seducing ladies so , hey girls watch out for me!!!!
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neyo7
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believe me, she wants to eat her cake and at the same time have it. Find out the kind of girl she is first, she might want your attention & money but yet nothing attached. by so doing she is not loosing anything . she want to play a common game with u, i sensed
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De-Hero (m)
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WATCH OUT!
SHE MAY BE THE GEM YOU REALLY NEED.
CARING FOR HER OPINIONS AND LIKES/DISLIKES IS PART OF TAKING CARE OF YOURSELVES.
BUT DONT HARM YOURSELF
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Ezinwannem
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must u have sex? dis is wat pisses me off wen guys put sex first
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lovito (f)
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Sex should not be the basis of your relationship.You can only experience true love when sex is not a do or die affair
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macalurs (m)
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yo listen, You can make a girl want you. You can make her break her vow. You can turn the table around, if you're player enough. If you're not, just step aside and let a better guy do her even while she's renewing her vows.  * beats his chest like King-Kong "I'm Good!" he roars
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cute-ass (f)
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yo listen, You can make a girl want you. You can make her break her vow. You can turn the table around, if you're player enough. If you're not, just step aside and let a better guy do her even while she's renewing her vows.  * beats his chest like King-Kong "I'm Good!" he roarsit seems you're too proud for your own good, if he's player enough? what do some guys actually take ladies for?? your girlfriend is not a luky one ooh  the last time i checked there was a saying that a barking dog doesn't bite, that one was for you, "mr. i'm-too-good-in-bed"  (just suck it up  )
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macalurs (m)
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it seems you're too proud for your own good, if he's player enough? what do some guys actually take ladies for?? your girlfriend is not a luky one ooh  the last time i checked there was a saying that a barking dog doesn't bite, that one was for you, "mr. i'm-too-good-in-bed"  (just suck it up  ) nice to meet you (finally might I add). I don't remember claiming I'm too good in bed. yes if he's player enough. One of the most crippling factors to a relationship is inhibitions. Why not a lady say: "let's see where this goes"? The relationship is as good as ended with such a statement, bad move on her part. It's not about sex (if you really want to understand me), it's a game. The moves by each player determines the outcome. The aim, to maximize happiness. In the beginning, players play against each other for trust, like say a qualifier. A qualifier to play as team against the odds-- later. twisted words aye? Cutie, take it easy-- it's too early to be angry.
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cute-ass (f)
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nice to meet you (finally might I add). I don't remember claiming I'm too good in bed.
dearie, nice to meet you too  , though i was wonderig why the "finally"? back to the topic of the hour:there's nothing attractive about the word "player", in my dictionary(and many other girls im sure) it stands for a heart-breaker He pointed out that he loved the girl, so why the "player" advice or that he should step aside and let another guy do herwhy must another guy do her? isn't she worth her wish being respected at all? is she that worthless that her fate should be decided for her? on some other thread you said LOVE IS BULLSH!T.
that love means absolutely nothing to you doesn't mean others should hit the road. Always try to help someone out wisely, not turning their belief upside down? I was reading your comment to lil red , and i was like  so he could be such a gentleman, i was even convincing myself that that's why its always good to give someone a benefit of the doubt but then, there came the "from a player", at that, the whole sentimental post flew out the window. But anyways try to be nice, see you around hun  BTW i'm not angry ooh dear, it takes a whole lot more to get me mad, i just like making my point and stand clear, very clear darl 
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macalurs (m)
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lmao. I made those posts yesterday,purposedly for you to read 'em, I had a feeling you were. But bringing 'em here? Oh god, you gotta be kidding. Ah well. Just move on with your life and always remember you met another guy you dont like. It's not my style making posts and expecting people like you to read them and get back to me. (Can we stop ruining this poor guy's thread? I'll be online for the next 3hrs. my YIM: saysumfin@yahoo.com If you've really gotta vent. (gawsh!) but  ) I'll ignore your next messages on here. 
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spoilt (f)
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what is it about guys and sex? 
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cute-ass (f)
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@ molascoplease this is a special message to you, i am so so sorry that we had to mess up your thread, its just that since Macalurs has declared us(i and him) strangers to each other from this day forward, then i have no other place than here to drop my last piece of mind. So please just this last post  The former conversation though was actually in terms with the topic,each person making their stands known. @ MacalursWell i'm happy you said you made your comments purposedly for me to read, well when you tread on the lion's tail, its only natural that the lion does that which is expected of it  You said you didn't expect me to bring them here? where else was i supposed to bring them if not on the forum?? and your posts that i quoted bear today's date, so what's all the talk about yesterday?? You 're not the first person i've quoted, and you won't be the last, in my dictionary its called holding them to their words. You quote people because that's the impression the person made (on me to be spesific) and if the person was misunderstood, what's better than clearing the air there and then. Guess i ran into the wrong person  Well you've decided to ignore me, and honey believe me its more than fine. I bear no grudges against you though, and you were wrong with that comment about "another guy i don't like" , sorry to dissappoint you ooh but i don't dislike you, not at all. Your comment got me irritated because i felt you were dissing myself and my fellow females but that doesn't mean i'm angry. Like i said earlier it takes a whole lot more to get me mad. so just for the records and your informetion know it that incase you make a comment or statement i like or dislike, please bear in mind that i'll quote and comment to the fullest. Its a discussion forum, you know And its very sad that you get mad so easily, as not being able to disagree with someone and still keep your cool, it dissappointed me though because i did find you interesting and was looking forward to sharing more of your views and points but i guess that's history now. well that's what life is all about: you loose some and you gain some
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spoilt (f)
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what exactly are cute-ass and macalurs bickering over? 
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Brymore (m)
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what exactly are cute-ass and macalurs bickering over?  I wonder! I just wonder!! I really wonder!!! #Candid Submission#
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