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molasco (m)
No Sex, No Touching For Me
« on: March 27, 2007, 06:15 PM »

I have been asking this lady out for about four months now. Just last week she gave me some conditions - NO SEX, NO TOUCHING AND SHE WOULD'NT COME TO MY HOUSE ALONE.

She will be 25 this year. She claimed to be a virgin and she is currently serving.

Though I love, shoud I accept this condition? Because I've been having sex for a very long time.

I'm confused.
Undecided Undecided Undecided
BlackMamba (m)
Re: No Sex, No Touching For Me
« #1 on: March 27, 2007, 06:46 PM »

There are 2 kinds of guys my friend.  Those who have patience and those who don't.  Which one are you?  You can play along and still get the punani when she's ready to give it up.  ie if you're the patient type and really want her.  Hanging along doesn't stop you from exploring.  Everything depends on the type of guy you are and what you want from her.
busygirl (f)
Re: No Sex, No Touching For Me
« #2 on: March 27, 2007, 08:06 PM »

If u really love her like u claimed, u should wait till your wedding nait,  ask 4 grace from God
Busta (f)
Re: No Sex, No Touching For Me
« #3 on: March 27, 2007, 08:46 PM »

The ball is in your court.

at least she wanna date u,

u either be patient and wait till wheneva she's ready
or u leave her and go find someone else that give it to u wheneva u wanna.
Omo Eko (f)
Re: No Sex, No Touching For Me
« #4 on: March 28, 2007, 12:36 AM »

Well i won't be surprised if that girl is not a  virgin on your wedding day Lips sealed Lips sealed
spoilt (f)
Re: No Sex, No Touching For Me
« #5 on: March 28, 2007, 01:59 AM »

everything shouldnt always be about sex. dont you want to experience how the other half lives for once?  Undecided
ima1 (f)
Re: No Sex, No Touching For Me
« #6 on: March 28, 2007, 03:08 AM »

ya you should, if a guy can't wait until i am ready then he shouldn't bother wanting to be with me, but im cool with the touching just not the sex.

no touching is like dating a stone, but if its what u want u should wait it might actually be worth it if she is a virgin
cute-ass (f)
Re: No Sex, No Touching For Me
« #7 on: March 28, 2007, 03:38 AM »

Quote from: ima1 on March 28, 2007, 03:08 AM
ya you should, if a guy can't wait until i am ready then he shouldn't bother wanting to be with me, but im cool with the touching just not the sex.

no touching is like dating a stone, but if its what u want u should wait it might actually be worth it if she is a virgin

couldn't have said it better myself Wink
Sweet T (m)
Re: No Sex, No Touching For Me
« #8 on: March 28, 2007, 01:24 PM »

@Molasco
Would you want some idiot touching or sexing your daughter before she is ready? Now leave that girl alone and get the hell on ! onisekuse. If that was my daughter i go chop off your swollen balls  Grin Grin
abstarr (m)
Re: No Sex, No Touching For Me
« #9 on: March 28, 2007, 01:37 PM »

Very simple, if u can, wait; if u cant, then get the hell on' Grin
Bolarge (m)
Re: No Sex, No Touching For Me
« #10 on: March 28, 2007, 01:41 PM »

 Since she won't be coming to your house alone,if u must touch,touch her friend. .
   That's touching her by proxy. . Grin  She no suppose mind

 Nairalanders no go kill me O! Grin

 Neways I respect your girl. Cool
ugodaniel (m)
Re: No Sex, No Touching For Me
« #11 on: March 28, 2007, 03:09 PM »

Have you thought maybe she just wanna try ya psyche and ego to see how long you can last?

spoilt (f)
Re: No Sex, No Touching For Me
« #12 on: March 28, 2007, 06:45 PM »

even for girls who have had sex before, sometimes you just want a break from all the sex sex sex!
she might not be a virgin, maybe she just wants you to know her , without biblically  KNOWING HER
molasco (m)
Re: No Sex, No Touching For Me
« #13 on: March 29, 2007, 08:41 AM »

Thank you all for your replies. The point is that I love her and I dont want to break her heart, I'm scared because I may actually end up cheating on her.
LJ (m)
Re: No Sex, No Touching For Me
« #14 on: March 29, 2007, 09:45 AM »

Quote from: molasco on March 29, 2007, 08:41 AM
Thank you all for your replies. The point is that I love her and I don't want to break her heart, I'm scared because I may actually end up cheating on her.

my impression about u is that u can but have sex somtime soon. i dont think its realistic for u to assume u wouldnt cheat on her. good luck bro
numbers
Re: No Sex, No Touching For Me
« #15 on: March 29, 2007, 11:08 AM »

damn!, rule no 1, never settle for less than your expectations,its not worth it, if the reason your going into a r/tionship is 2 be happy.I personally can't ask a girl if I ve not slept with her Undecided,
knighthood (m)
Re: No Sex, No Touching For Me
« #16 on: March 29, 2007, 04:28 PM »

well if i am in that condition, i will be patient cos i know where i will get her that will make are to forget rules! I am good in seducing ladies so , hey girls watch out for me!!!!
neyo7
Re: No Sex, No Touching For Me
« #17 on: March 29, 2007, 05:11 PM »

believe me, she wants to eat her cake and at the same time have it. Find out the kind of girl she is first, she might want your attention &  money but yet nothing attached. by so doing she is not loosing anything . she want to play a common game with u, i sensed
De-Hero (m)
Re: No Sex, No Touching For Me
« #18 on: March 29, 2007, 05:13 PM »

WATCH OUT!

SHE MAY BE THE GEM YOU REALLY NEED.

CARING FOR HER OPINIONS AND LIKES/DISLIKES IS PART OF TAKING CARE OF YOURSELVES.

BUT DONT HARM YOURSELF
Ezinwannem
Re: No Sex, No Touching For Me
« #19 on: March 29, 2007, 06:29 PM »

must u have sex? dis is wat pisses me off wen guys put sex first
lovito (f)
Re: No Sex, No Touching For Me
« #20 on: March 29, 2007, 06:53 PM »

Sex should not be the basis of your relationship.You can only experience true love when sex is not a do or die affair
macalurs (m)
Re: No Sex, No Touching For Me
« #21 on: March 30, 2007, 07:17 AM »

yo listen,

You can make a girl want you. You can make her break her vow. You can turn the table around, if you're player enough. If you're not, just step aside and let a better guy do her even while she's renewing her vows.  Grin *beats his chest like King-Kong "I'm Good!" he roars
cute-ass (f)
Re: No Sex, No Touching For Me
« #22 on: March 30, 2007, 07:53 AM »

Quote from: macalurs on March 30, 2007, 07:17 AM
yo listen,

You can make a girl want you. You can make her break her vow. You can turn the table around, if you're player enough. If you're not, just step aside and let a better guy do her even while she's renewing her vows.  Grin *beats his chest like King-Kong "I'm Good!" he roars

it seems you're too proud for your own good, if he's player enough? what do some guys actually take ladies for?? your girlfriend is not a luky one ooh Sad

the last time i checked there was a saying that a barking dog doesn't bite, that one was for you, "mr. i'm-too-good-in-bed" Wink (just suck it up Angry)
dapsins69 (m)
Re: No Sex, No Touching For Me
« #23 on: March 30, 2007, 08:01 AM »

men, wht can i say.she might actually be a virgin , she ight not.it really does nt care wht really matters is what you want.am a born playa but i no apot of gold when i see one, you can actually date her, love her and all dat and still pokinpo her! try 2 be a little seductive, just give her time she would open up, her heeart, and of course, her legs! Grin Cool Grin Cool Grin Cool
dapsins69 (m)
Re: No Sex, No Touching For Me
« #24 on: March 30, 2007, 08:06 AM »

men, wht can i say.she might actually be a virgin , she ight not.it really does nt care wht really matters is what you want.am a born playa but i no apot of gold when i see one, you can actually date her, love her and all dat and still pokinpo her! try 2 be a little seductive, just give her time she would open up, her heeart, and of course, her legs! Grin Cool Grin Cool Grin Cool
macalurs (m)
Re: No Sex, No Touching For Me
« #25 on: March 30, 2007, 08:08 AM »

Quote from: cute-ass on March 30, 2007, 07:53 AM
it seems you're too proud for your own good, if he's player enough? what do some guys actually take ladies for?? your girlfriend is not a luky one ooh Sad

the last time i checked there was a saying that a barking dog doesn't bite, that one was for you, "mr. i'm-too-good-in-bed" Wink (just suck it up Angry)

nice to meet you (finally might I add). I don't remember claiming I'm too good in bed.

yes if he's player enough. One of the most crippling factors to a relationship is inhibitions. Why not a lady say: "let's see where this goes"? The relationship is as good as ended with such a statement, bad move on her part.

It's not about sex (if you really want to understand me), it's a game. The moves by each player determines the outcome. The aim, to maximize happiness. In the beginning, players play against each other for trust, like say a qualifier. A qualifier to play as team against the odds-- later.

twisted words aye?

Cutie, take it easy-- it's too early to be angry. Wink



cute-ass (f)
Re: No Sex, No Touching For Me
« #26 on: March 30, 2007, 08:32 AM »

Quote from: macalurs on March 30, 2007, 08:08 AM
nice to meet you (finally might I add). I don't remember claiming I'm too good in bed.

dearie, nice to meet you too Wink , though i was wonderig why the "finally"?

back to the topic of the hour:
there's nothing attractive about the word "player", in my dictionary(and many other girls im sure) it stands for a heart-breaker Sad

He pointed out that he loved the girl, so why the "player" advice or that he should step aside and let another guy do her
why must another guy do her? isn't she worth her wish being respected at all? is she that worthless that her fate should be decided for her?

on some other thread you said 
Quote from: macalurs on March 30, 2007, 07:37 AM
LOVE IS BULLSH!T.

that love means absolutely nothing to you doesn't mean others should hit the road. Always try to help someone out wisely, not turning their belief upside down?

I was reading your comment to lil red , and i was like Shocked so he could be such a gentleman, i was even convincing myself that that's why its always good to give someone a benefit of the doubt

but then, there came the "from a player", at that, the whole sentimental post flew out the window.

But anyways try to be nice, see you around hun Wink

BTW i'm not angry ooh dear, it takes a whole lot more to get me mad,  i just like making my point and stand clear, very clear darl Wink
macalurs (m)
Re: No Sex, No Touching For Me
« #27 on: March 30, 2007, 04:17 PM »

lmao.

I made those posts yesterday,purposedly for you to read 'em, I had a feeling you were. But bringing 'em here? Oh god, you gotta be kidding. Cheesy

Ah well. Just move on with your life and always remember you met another guy you dont like. It's not my style making posts and expecting people like you to read them and get back to me. (Can we stop ruining this poor guy's thread? I'll be online for the next 3hrs. my YIM: saysumfin@yahoo.com If you've really gotta vent. (gawsh!) but Cool)

I'll ignore your next messages on here.   Smiley

spoilt (f)
Re: No Sex, No Touching For Me
« #28 on: March 30, 2007, 04:57 PM »

what is it about guys and sex?  Huh
cute-ass (f)
Re: No Sex, No Touching For Me
« #29 on: March 30, 2007, 06:39 PM »

@ molasco
please this is a special message to you, i am so so sorry that we had to mess up your thread, its just that since Macalurs has declared us(i and him) strangers to each other from this day forward, then i have no other place than here to drop my last piece of mind. So please just this last post Wink
The former conversation though was actually in terms with the topic,each person making their stands known.

@ Macalurs

Well i'm happy you said you made your comments purposedly for me to read, well when you tread on the lion's tail, its only natural that the lion does that which is expected of it Wink

You said you didn't expect me to bring them here? where else was i supposed to bring them if not on the forum?? and your posts that i quoted bear today's date, so what's all the talk about yesterday??

You 're not the first person i've quoted, and you won't be the last, in my dictionary its called holding them to their words. You quote people because that's the impression the person made (on me to be spesific) and if the person was misunderstood, what's better than clearing the air there and then. Guess i ran into the wrong person Sad

Well you've decided to ignore me, and honey believe me its more than fine.
I bear no grudges against you though, and you were wrong with  that comment about "another guy i don't like" , sorry to dissappoint you ooh but i don't dislike you, not at all.

Your comment got me irritated because i felt you were dissing myself and my fellow females but that doesn't mean i'm angry. Like i said earlier it takes a whole lot more to get me mad. so just for the records and your informetion know it that incase you make a comment or statement i like or dislike, please bear in mind that i'll quote and comment to the fullest. Its a discussion forum, you know

And its very sad that you get mad so easily, as not being able to disagree with someone and still keep your cool, it dissappointed me though because i did find you interesting and was looking forward to sharing more of your views and points but i guess that's history now.

well that's what life is all about: you loose some and you gain some
spoilt (f)
Re: No Sex, No Touching For Me
« #30 on: March 30, 2007, 07:17 PM »

what exactly are cute-ass and macalurs bickering over?  Huh
Brymore (m)
Re: No Sex, No Touching For Me
« #31 on: March 30, 2007, 07:38 PM »

Quote from: spoilt on March 30, 2007, 07:17 PM
what exactly are cute-ass and macalurs bickering over? Huh

I wonder! I just wonder!! I really wonder!!!

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