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twinkledew (f)
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Out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaketh.
Therefore, you can't start talking about sex without developing a premonition to do it. The fact that they talk about it does not mean they intend doing it at that period of time. At least if they ain't nuns, they would definately have sex. So, yes, all should feel free to talk about it, but if anyone of you out there is waiting to have sex when you get married that is cool. If you know that talking about sex will drive you to do it then please don't talk about it. |
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sage (m)
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il rather be doing than talking
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chawkee (m)
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Ok, Twinkle. Let's talk about sex............
[editor: Snipped some really explicit sex-talk that would make most people uncomfortable!]
Charl.
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Seun (m)
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Ok, chawkee, I see your point.
That is definitely not the kind of sex-talk that is recommended for people who 'dey hold body'! There are some aspects of sex-talk that are more innocent and profitable for someone who hasn't done it before or doesn't want to do it soon. Afterall we've been discussing sexuality on this forum without going into that area!
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tasteguy (m)
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i feel every individual is free to express his or her feelings especially towards sex,because it's emotional
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Chigszy (f)
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i will think that the girl is just being herself. expressing herself. i for one aint shy to talk about sex it is in talking about it that we learn. i am straight to the point that is just me. i mean like i keep shouting we are adults and i do not know why it is difficult to talk it or why people tend to shy away from discussing it.. that is sad..  . i could get together with my friends and the whole time we are discussing on sexual issues anything and everything and also you will be surprised to know that some people have got a lot of questions and that way if they are confused about something then they learn from the discussion and then they had planned to do something silly then by talking about it they might change their mind. |
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dominobaby (f)
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talking about sex should not be with just anybody, and i mean not just anybody. It should be with friends of like minds or better still parents, aunts or uncles who you know would understand your reason for asking whatever sex related question.
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jogego (m)
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 @dominobaby, where you grow up? which century you think say you dey? Naija mother to discuss sex with her child? Abeg.....maybe our generation would change that. But for the generation of our mothers, there are some things that are just not done and discussing sex with your child is one of them
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legs (f)
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can i ask why the thread was directed at single girls specifically?
so if you marry your market don close abi?
I thot married ladies could even discuss it better they can give an inside experience as to how & why some married couple's sexual acctivities dull out after a few years of marriage
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Greatpeter (m)
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The married women and men too should preside over this topic. Please Mr moderator help us this time, give way for the married to preside and edit this topic. Just this topic, sebi you're still single even virgin.  |
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legry (m)
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Ive said it before and ill say it again it depends on who, where, when and place
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tayotina (f)
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What's the big deal bout discussing sex freely? If we don't discuss it how would we get to know the new styles and positions? Abeg allow us jare.
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Motee (f)
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I see nothing wrong in this. She needs to be careful discussing it with men sha! they might take advantage of your boldness if you are not matured enough.
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Greatpeter (m)
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tayotina & Motee sebi we have given you free hand to express yourself freely sexually,romantically and everything you've got to say please say it now. The chapter is open.
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jogego (m)
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What I had been expecting any of the ladies to ask was why the whole double standard??? Why can a man discuss sex freely but a woman cannot? Are we back in the middle ages where women are to be seen and not heard? I sincerely hope not. There is freedom of speech and am sure that includes free discussion of sex if so desired by males or females
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brownlolly (m)
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actually. i don't see anything bad in talking about sex freely PROVIDED one is RIPE ENOUGH.i can't imagine my younger sis talkin about her sexual escapades as this is not meant to be flying out of her mouth, so it is restricted, at least to a level, but if mature, i think you have every bloody right to talk, not minding abusing your freedom of speech |
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CalabarMan (m)
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Its all a question of maturity. Older babes tend to discuss sex more freely while younger ones are very shy. I have gone out with some 21-23 babes and some 27-30 babes the level of communication is totally different between these two groups. I prefer a matured babe any day to one of those mummy's girl...
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tayotina (f)
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Hmm.....calabarman...na wah oh... Anyway sha..it's all good!! |
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Motee (f)
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I see no reason why single girls cannot talk about sex freely. I feel this is the problem and that is, the moment SEX is mentioned, all thoughts including bones in the body feel REAL SEX is what we are about to talk about (I hope you understand what am trying to say).
How many parents can say they sat their children down to talk about SEX? I am sure not all matured Nairaland members can testify to it positively.
I can tell you that most of what I know about sex is definitely not from my parents but I can say my step mum did make some few attempts because she is Calabar and they can be very, very blunt but still, not all what you are actually suppose not to keep from young ones especially when they are girls, attractive ones for that matter and those type you do not usually allow to mix with other young friends. (I hope am meaningful soo far..i got to go)
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Latoya (f)
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Discussing sex amongst your mates is no big deal.it all about sharing your knowledge on what u know
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Tali-Tali (m)
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Without counting on others opinions, single girls should talk freely about sex, looking at it from the negative point of view. They should see sex from the point that it is not part of them eventhough they are mature. Anyway, it's shortcomings are obvious.
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Tali-Tali (m)
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Discussing sex amongst your mates is no big deal.it all about sharing your knowledge on what you know
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Latoya (f)
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Hey Tali-Tali what is wrong?y did u Quote me?
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Tali-Tali (m)
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Yes hot-angel, talk about sex as freely as you talk bout any other thing. let you talk about sex as a free girl if at all you are one educatively and not distructively. You know nowaday sex to free people is very harmful. What next?
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twinkledew (f)
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chaw... sry i can not talk about sex with u because me boyfriend might not like the idea but if i was not in a relationship i cld prbly talk about sex with ya.
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twinkledew (f)
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its not really directed to single females. i believe married women shld talk about sex all the time with their partner(s). they shld both know the new stuffs they want in their sex life or were they have got faults in.
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yomidipset4eva (m)
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You're right about that. lol. |
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Latoya (f)
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so does every one,one way or the other
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gina34 (f)
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sex talk is no big deal among girls.
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chrisd (m)
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I went shopping some time ago, asked some girls if they wanted to talk about sex. I did not find many. |
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