Interracial Dating

Hi Nairalanders,

Have you interracially dated before, in a interracial relationship at present or kind of considered it.
What did you friends, family say?
Share your experiences.

Yes I had been interracial dating in the past. My family has no object! I have several relatives who is currently in interracial long-term steady relationship (with cohabitation and raising children just like married couples) but I never seen them (my family/relative) are interracial marriages.

Doesn't matter to me, as long as this person respects my culture accepting who I am.

Great just be prepared to accept a different outlook to life.
Some of them are the most loyal girls you will ever date. Besides they wont press you for a commitment you are not ready for, i know a couple who are just willing to come around and do whatever you ask them to do. No stress, no unecessary nagging or whining and no RULES.

_{can you imagine, poor wretched filipinos.}

 

indeed 

Balthier i want to tell you that interracial dating means nothing to me , as far as i am concern, i have had a lovely experience with different race, tribal sect in my country and will be glad to date you for you to experience the power of love that can not be substituted for any orm of Interracial dating or any other forms.
i give no damn about any reason why i will need to marry from my hometown simply because i must follow culture.

@ topic

the truth of the matter is that it works out for some and for some, it just dosen't work

some will say that the difference in traditions and culture makes the whole thing tiresome, because on some issues, they never tend to be on the same page.

For some the same difference is what strengthens them, because they always find a way to compromise or meet each other half way and it makes them feel stronger in the relationship for everyday that goes by

For some its the best thing that has ever happened to them , and for some it was their worst nightmare

it all depends on the individuals involved, one's got to be patient,enduring, tolerating and good at communicating to make it work

Thats your prefernce, people's taste varies

cute ass you have said it all,you spoke my mind.

Well i dated this guy for 3yrs he was half Dominican and Black American, he was the sweetest thing ever, but it couldn't work out because we both have different cultures and views.

For examples when he comes to my house, he greets my mum by saying hey or hello but she felt offended by that, he complains his very disrespectful which he isn't.

Oh when he calls, he doesn't greet who picks up the phone but just ask if am round or not.

In another word Interracial Dating doesn't work at all.

I have an aunt that got married to a white guy, he  even  moved to naija because of her but the wedding this last more than 2yrs.

Interracial dating is hard.

Yoruba and Ibo doesn't understand each other culture, talkless of dating a foreigner

 
To Omo Eko:

Is this your way of apologizing to your Black bros. that you rejected them and decided to go with Mr. White? Apology not accepted. Now that Mr. White have used you and you have messed with him, I don’t think that any of the Black bros. out that you rejected are interested. Why don’t you go find another Mr. White?

“Yoruba and Ibo doesn't understand each other culture, talkless of dating a foreigner.”

Word.

I think that ‘s one of the smartest statements I have read in this forum. It’s like not thinking outside the box but thinking the box doesn’t exist.

I know a lot people wasting their money, time, energy, and doing all kinds of devilish acts by dating a white guy or lady. The fact is whether you like it or not the chance of the relationship succeeding is .5% or less out of 100%

If you disagree go figure.

 
To Omo Eko:

There was no misunderstanding. The only misunderstanding is that you think this furum is for kids that you can lie to and they will just take it without thinking.

Read what you posted again. Maybe you will rember the date. There is no point of lying now.

who says filipinos are wretched, u wan wound!!!!!

Have dated interracially before, both White and Asian. It wasn't a problem for anyone except my mother who just had to ask the question as to whether i was serious. Aside from that people, friends, brothers, sister, father and hers were all cool with it.
The Asian one proved more difficult as her father was not prepared to accept it but everyone else including her mother was fine, but it wasn't a major as we both knew it wasn't going anywhere and it was her chance to be experimental & rebellious.