Do Long Distance Relationships Work?

That is CHEATING , in MY OPINION.

If they've both got their own partners, Y do they still GET IT ON?

Yeah, of course it's "cheating" and it's not right.  I'm just saying it happens.

me as a persin, i have a long distance relationship going on now and it is GOOD for me and her.

well last friday made it one year we have being together and i think it is the best i have had all my life.

because when we were together in Nigeria, we never had sex and i told her that if she was looking for someone to have sex with, then i was the

wrong person for her to date and that she should move forward btu she refused and told me she doesnt mind as she was a virgin.,

well i belived her a little at first, because she just came out of a christian sec school and her family did not give her space for friends and all that.

then as we went on i just had to believe her. but as we went on she or should i say we had the temptations but most of the time i had the firm

ground to say NO and most of the time it ended in a little dispute, which she would get over after some talking about side implications and moral

effects.

so after made plans to come to the united states, i called her and told her my plans and she aggreed and i told her that if she can't wait, we can

as well breakup and she continues with her life and mine {note; it was not that i did not love her , but i did not want to disruot anybodys life with

my life or my problems} but she refused to breakup saying she doenst mind WAITING and that she is too into it that she just doesnt want to loose

me {i too sweet } and i talked to her about the implications and how she had the greater part to play because she has was the lady and all

that. but she stood on her words that she was going to wait, well i agreed and it has being that way since then and i thank God for our lifes!!

well how do i keep up?

i call her EVERYDAY or rather we talk everyday because sometimes she calls me and all that but mennnnnn i love her too tooo much and i did not

mention she is in babcock university now so well i am not as worried as i would have been if she was in like OSU or UNILAG   

and i always pray to God about us although we did fast and pray before i did leave the country i still pray to God.

well as for me i don't play "away match" according to pie1ect said and that is my story.

good for you casper. urs just one of those that survive because of the effort put in. wish u da best.

@James, she doesn't talk much except about flying her to the states, IN MY OPINION, she just wants you to fly her to the states, and thats all she is concerned about, all other things is not her cup of tea, she doesn't care.IN MY OPINION

Ermmm.. I Am in one right now..(a LDR).. I want to see if it'll work, Although i still stand on the fact that it doesn't work.

it is possible to work , for as long as there is love.........but i don't know about not meeting each other in 5 years.

The rate at which people are entering this Long distance thingy is alarming o!
Hot-angel too? Snazzydawn too?
I wish you good luck, girls.

see don't go into it being pessimistic. In contrast to normal relationships, long distance ones require more time and work to make it last. Since u don't like this type of relationships but u r willing to give this a try, then there must be something good u have seen in  the guy. So have a positive approach and i'm sure things will work out.


But most of all, u must also be extraordinarily patient

Even if it doesnt, at least u gave it ur best shot. 

I must say, thank- you! He's getting on my nerves now. He was talking trash earlier today.. but it's a little thing tho! 

Wow.

is that a question?

@ Loveth, OF COURSE, IT IS A QUESTION, what do you think?

 , K how much do I pay

When it's long distance it's all in the mind.... it's all about perception and trust.

You, lucky, lucky girl Shaddy, four years, that I say is a long time. Have you seen this guy before? , as in one on one? , or just a picture or something