Do Long Distance Relationships Work?

That is not the point. If u discover nko, What will u do. So many do have man-friend just to have enough when getting ready for society marriage.  No love if there is no contacts. Na long throat dey make person wait for 5 years not love. Love thinks of only what benefits the other not what can I benefit from her or him. You are waiting for dollars then not love.

True talk, bro.

na wah o! why all this aggression?

it does work, with the advent of internet and phones, communication has been made easy.

Distant relationship can work. It depends on the understanding and maturity between both of you.

disadvantage on long time relationship, is that if both party do not have believe them selves, it lories one into sin by the time u might realises it , it might be too late. that is to say, it might not work, co's life is dynamic.

Secondly, it might work when you looked at it in the biblical way, co's distance is not a barrier to what God is about to do, that is to say if God has destined the person for u no matter how long the relationship has lasted it will still come to pass.

Man might propose but God has the final word.

It's different for everyone. I tried it once and it was very different for me and I didn't handle it so well.
My situation was that we met in person and hung out and bonded, we were together all of the time or talking. Then he moved to another state. We still talked and made plans to see each other.

It didn't last that long because the patience wasn't there and the anticipation over took the relationship. I wanted the physical bond we had because I was already used to it. I couldn't see him when I wanted nor talk with him when I needed too and the same for him. Then the phone bill became a problem sometimes for both of us. I used a computer he didn't. He needed emotional security in certain ways that I wasn't able to give because I was tired. We lived in different time zones., our work hours were different. When I'm sleeping he's at work and vice  versa, It was crazy for a while.

He wanted me to move where he lived. I was afraid because I didn't have family or friends there and have only known him for a year so I could not place all of my trust in that situation just yet. Trust issues came up. We both didn't truly know what was going on with each other because we couldn't see for our selves. He would accuse me, I would thin him  but didn't say. We tried to get it together but we didn't give it enough time. But like I said it's different for everyone. I'm glad we talked on the phone for a while because I was able to deal with his mind more than emotions and I was able to see allot of more things clearer and found out that he was not who I wanted nor needed to be with in the long run.

So there's good and bad to it but you have to weigh it out for yourself and figure out what you want and how does this person fit into your life and you fit into their's. It could work. People get married to strangers all of the time and live for the rest of their lives. Pre arranged marriages. Sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn't.

It's always a gamble because we never really know

Nuffing is wrong wit long distance relationship..its kind of fun though, but depends on what kind of people are involved, dey miss eachother during that time innit and can cause one of them to cheat on de other because dey aint "getting it"(if u kno wot i mean)

damn rite girl

but long distance cost money tho, but i am not complaining cutie boo.lol 

but u can't really see wots going on can u?

but u think u can trust in anyone?

o wel..i hav to agree wit u..too persuasuive

o wel..aye aye

aye aye is like ok or owel or i hear u..do u watch spongebob..lol