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hot-angel (f)
Re: Does Long Distance Relationship Work?
« #64 on: August 01, 2005, 12:53 PM »

uhmm long distance relationship works when both of you have seen each other before, been with each other, known each other..but due to some stuffs you left each other and decided to make it a long distance stuff.

BUt hey, If you ain't seen the person real life before, as in internet meeting, text messaging, phone calls, emails, and you are hopping to see the person...---- i bet you have only 10% of my ass to really meet the person. Relaltionship based on the above don't work.
jamesc
Re: Does Long Distance Relationship Work?
« #65 on: August 01, 2005, 01:35 PM »

I have met a nice girl from Nigeria.  I am in the states.  I am trying to figure out how much it will cost to fly her here, because I can't afford to take time off of work to go there.  I have many questions and she doesn't seem to answer me straight.  I can't figure this out.  Do you really need a passport agent to get out of the country?  How much should it cost?  Can I buy the ticket here in the US and have her pick it up at the airport?  If anyone can help me with this I'D appreciate it.  She seems nice enough, and I am willing to take a chance on her.  I believe she is sincere, but doesn't know how to deal with the money issues very well.  I know this is not a good sign, but nonetheless, things could be different once we meet in person.

She also doesn't seem to talk much unless it is about us getting together.  A little strange to me.

Anyway, I'D love to talk with someone about this.

James
Latoya (f)
Re: Does Long Distance Relationship Work?
« #66 on: August 01, 2005, 02:04 PM »

 Huh Huh Huh
Latoya (f)
Re: Does Long Distance Relationship Work?
« #67 on: August 01, 2005, 02:07 PM »

 Huh
nike4luv (f)
Re: Does Long Distance Relationship Work?
« #68 on: August 01, 2005, 05:24 PM »

wassup latoya
hot-angel (f)
Re: Does Long Distance Relationship Work?
« #69 on: August 02, 2005, 12:43 AM »

james, that a big issue right thurr. I'll lay down and wiat for the "elders on the forum" to help you.
nike4luv (f)
Re: Does Long Distance Relationship Work?
« #70 on: August 02, 2005, 01:58 AM »

me 3
Latoya (f)
Re: Does Long Distance Relationship Work?
« #71 on: August 02, 2005, 03:52 AM »

 Nike,I love spongebob Cool..... have u seen spongebob Square pants???

James u need some Prayers,and i will have to invole u in prayers
so that God himself can guide and direct u. Lips sealed
nike4luv (f)
Re: Does Long Distance Relationship Work?
« #72 on: August 02, 2005, 03:54 AM »

yea..

whos de pineapple under de sea---spngebob square pants..!!
i can't hear u..?
hot-angel (f)
Re: Does Long Distance Relationship Work?
« #73 on: August 02, 2005, 03:55 AM »

Spongy ehh? I like them but not like love them.
Latoya (f)
Re: Does Long Distance Relationship Work?
« #74 on: August 02, 2005, 03:59 AM »

i see it every morning before i get ready for uni,that is how much i like cartoons
some of my friends call me childish because of that Sad
hot-angel (f)
Re: Does Long Distance Relationship Work?
« #75 on: August 02, 2005, 03:59 AM »

I'll call u childish too. I don't like cartoons. I just watch some really good ones..like madagascar (sp?)
Latoya (f)
Re: Does Long Distance Relationship Work?
« #76 on: August 02, 2005, 04:02 AM »

hey its what i have always liked from time so i don't blame myself at all
cartoons aint for kids only??? well i like madagaskar
u better move it move it Smiley
nike4luv (f)
Re: Does Long Distance Relationship Work?
« #77 on: August 02, 2005, 01:55 PM »

i love cartoons..
recess
sabrina
american dragon..
loads of them..

anyone watch celebrity deathmatch?
gina34 (f)
Re: Does Long Distance Relationship Work?
« #78 on: August 02, 2005, 01:57 PM »

The truth is that it dose,nt work, they say that out of sight is out of mind.
what do u think she will be doing where she is.waiting for u i don,t think so time no dey wait for anybody
nike4luv (f)
Re: Does Long Distance Relationship Work?
« #79 on: August 02, 2005, 01:58 PM »

that is wot people think
gina34 (f)
Re: Does Long Distance Relationship Work?
« #80 on: August 03, 2005, 03:52 PM »

But it's true but in the case of online relationship it different because they never met befor.nike can u keep that sort of relationship
nike4luv (f)
Re: Does Long Distance Relationship Work?
« #81 on: August 03, 2005, 03:57 PM »

yea..am still in it
hot-angel (f)
Re: Does Long Distance Relationship Work?
« #82 on: August 03, 2005, 06:50 PM »

Not me. God Forbid. What am i looking for in an internet date when so many guys are here in real life. Boy-friend should be there at all time for me. I don't want to make internet dates. Besides how sure am I that the guy that "loves" me on the net doesn't "love" another girl. BullSh!t is what i call it. (No offence y'all, just my opinion)
nike4luv (f)
Re: Does Long Distance Relationship Work?
« #83 on: August 03, 2005, 08:03 PM »

yea..none taken
hot-angel (f)
Re: Does Long Distance Relationship Work?
« #84 on: August 03, 2005, 09:59 PM »

Mmkay. Smiley
nike4luv (f)
Re: Does Long Distance Relationship Work?
« #85 on: August 03, 2005, 10:13 PM »

 Tongue
tcherokee (m)
Re: Does Long Distance Relationship Work?
« #86 on: August 03, 2005, 11:46 PM »

Quote
I have met a nice girl from Nigeria.  I am in the states.  I am trying to figure out how much it will cost to fly her here,

Jamesc Firstly I'm a Nigerian  based in Nigeria and I'm saying "DON"T THINK ABOUT IT". Firstly a girl that is evasive about stuff is most likely not sincere. there's a popular thing that is going on in Nigeria right now and that is guys (sometimes posing to be girls complete with pictures of very fine girls) and girls go on the internet see if they can charm a guy based abroad to "fall in love with them" and then try and start milking them for what they are worth. some of the ways are....."I'll really love to come and see you but i don't have money to buy a ticket", "i wish i could call you but they just stole my phone and i don't have money for a new one", "i think I'll have to drop out of school because i can't pay my school fees...for some reason" and stuff like that. so sorry to say especially as i am a Nigerian but Nigerians aren't the most trustworthy people especially when it comes to money issues.
My advice to you is take your time, study the girl if she seems impatient because you are not doing anything for her, she is probably a fraud. find out what u can about her and try and make sure money doesn't come into the issue and if she is insistent about something that has to do with you sending money to her, she is probably only about that (Money that is)
Besides if you send her the money, is it easy to get a visa to the USA........ or those she already have it.... i doubt it.
Latoya (f)
Re: Does Long Distance Relationship Work?
« #87 on: August 04, 2005, 02:41 AM »

Long distance Relationships WORKs OUT THE MOST.......
Trust me.i have seen it work several times.
Take my advice............
TRUST,GOD,COMMUNICATE,and Let it Flow
hot-angel (f)
Re: Does Long Distance Relationship Work?
« #88 on: August 04, 2005, 02:45 AM »

Aisha, i am not going to trust you and that one. Sawry. But we still cool Wink
Latoya (f)
Re: Does Long Distance Relationship Work?
« #89 on: August 04, 2005, 05:49 AM »

Believe me girl,
it works.
I am in one now Wink
nike4luv (f)
Re: Does Long Distance Relationship Work?
« #90 on: August 04, 2005, 09:42 AM »

yea..me too.hot angel doesnt like it either
Latoya (f)
Re: Does Long Distance Relationship Work?
« #91 on: August 04, 2005, 11:20 AM »

Its more fun to be in a long distance relationship
nike4luv (f)
Re: Does Long Distance Relationship Work?
« #92 on: August 04, 2005, 12:41 PM »

yea..just believe in yourself..u even get to want de person more..
Latoya (f)
Re: Does Long Distance Relationship Work?
« #93 on: August 04, 2005, 12:50 PM »

yes i know
 
 Cry Cry Cry i think am in love
hot-angel (f)
Re: Does Long Distance Relationship Work?
« #94 on: August 05, 2005, 12:00 AM »

ouch ouch ouch.. both of u in long distance?? ouch ouch...I know my self, i can't handle long distance...better yet, i'll cheat on the dude. And that's not being fair.
Latoya (f)
Re: Does Long Distance Relationship Work?
« #95 on: August 05, 2005, 01:09 AM »

Yea its so tempting especially when u see a nice hot guy
but yet i believe in  myself so i ll wait until we meet again Wink
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