Male Gender - Whats Up With This Mother & Son Bond?

Males, whats up with u and your mothers???
Yeah i know ya mama brought  you up and all, but do u guys have to bring her into the picture everytime.
Most guys i've met are always like "my mother said i shdnt do this", my mama expects it like this, "mama will tell me when to buy a car" " i'll talk tomy mum about it ............  its quite discouraging.
Personally, am a real daddy's girl but i consciously try not to bring it into my r/ship or marriage.

Yeah Eddy Tells but u don't see Jesus calling Mary on the phone  before he heals the sick, or before he drinks water. I bet Mary didnt know he went to vist mary and martha.

OMG lioness, youre something else  .

We all love our mummies. My mother-in-laws got nothing on me, cause my husband loves me more! 

I dislike those kind of mummies boy...ther ae also called girly-boiz....i as a matter of fact don't put my mum in my personal affairs because it shows dependence..

Infact some married men are so close to their mum that ,the old woman knows how her son makes love to his wife...and all those kind of balderdash...shit!!! i detest guys like that

If thats a criteria for marriage, alot of guys won't be married today because most wives to be and mother-in-laws do not get along.

No i disagree. In reality , its the other way round.

Well... i don't really know. I guess it's just like how we girls bonds with our daddies. But one thing is that, we don't talk about it as those boys do.

I guess my daddy has broken the rules ohh MR. ADMIN!

He's the sweetest man ever, I'm not saying this because 'he's my dad'/

Are u for real? the bonding between females & their mother is just the transfer of knowledge.........u  know, child birth, being submissive, keeping the home etc. thats understandable.
Male Gender [race,colour] especially nijia, tend to bring their "mama" into the picture most times.

No man should despise his mother but cut down on the references.

You ladies just wait till you have a son and then we'll see, because i'm sure you'll do the same thing you're complaining about here

I was looking for this thread. At last i found it.

Well, my friend just told us something totally stupid today. Although she said it was her psychology teacher that said it.

She was like.. The Psych teacher said, there's a bond between a mother and young male child. We were like.. Duhh, why wouldn't there be? And she goes.. "nooo, not like that". He said this bond is bigger than mother, son bond. I was like..  And then she went ahead, saying.. the psych teacher told them that.. this kind of love wears off as the child grows.. but when the child is an infant, the mother feel some deeper love for the child. As in kind of sexual sorta feeling. She said the psych teacher was saying something about, the mother breast-feeding the child and all that. (that reminded me of the thread about mother's breast-feeding their sons).

Anyways.. just thought, i'd share with u guys. It's funny to me tho.

Thats so ewwwwwwwwwww. Why would a mother have anything but ordinary love for her male child? Gosh what type of education do kids receive in school nowadays.

no It is defined as a child's unconscious desire for the exclusive love of the parent of the opposite sex (mother). This desire includes jealousy toward the parent of the same sex (father) and the unconscious wish for that parent's death (father).

Freud was a very strange guy....

 

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LOL...thanks so...at 20, though not with ma mum any more, she's back home. My brother was asking me over the phone, what girl I like better, blacks or whites? My mum had to snatch the receiver from him and was like...my son is still a young man, don't go around looking at girls....I was like haba! at 20? why now??...hopefully some day after sch I will thanx:D