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adogho (m)
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in more than 90percent of every relationship this kind of problems occurs. the ladies on their part wants to be loved, love to send quality time with their guys but what the guys want is sex! sex!! sex!!!. why is it so???
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hot-angel (f)
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Not all Guys want sex sex sex. Some guys also prefer to have quality time with their girls. Plus when you say ladies want to be loved.. For heavens sake.. who doesn't want to be loved?
And as for guys that want sex sex sex, i doubt if they'll get themselves in a relationship with a girl that only wants to watch Romantic movies with them. Those kind of guys, always know the girl that'll comply to their "sex always" Need.
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aqua (m)
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yea, u see girls have a 100kv gen powering their emotions while guyz have just 2 dry cell batteries powering theirs. also the GUYZ are goal getters love is not a clear goal but SEX is. hehehe
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smartsoft (m)
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Well sex is kinda good.. no ladies wants a sexmate.. they need Soulmate.. like wise other guyz wants soulmate., so ppl go into relationship.. cos they wanna satisfy there flesh.., why some go into relationship cos there friend is into one relationship.. Why some go into it cos they need a future partner.. that equals to ----> Soulmate.. have come to understand that the way you make love to your Girlfriend determines.. if you gonna be having sex all the time.. that what i feel.
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sage (m)
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Ah sayz who? Me i want am for love, and true one at that and this is no joke  |
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smartsoft (m)
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Thank God for your life then..
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funloving (m)
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Men generally have high sexual drives while women have high emotonal drives.
But then not all men want only sex,sex,sex in a relationship.Alot of men want true love as well.
In fact for some men sex without love is utter rubbish
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DONRAPH (m)
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ladies are very emosional's, men has the heart of a rock, while the ladies wants to walk on the beach with their men, we prefer to have it hot in the bed room . my people no be so?  ? but one thing is clear, men are easily arouls. women needs to touched b4 they do so |
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smartsoft (m)
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thats true men
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2nde (m)
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you've said it all
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yummy (m)
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i ma speak for the men. who said na sex sex sex be the only song we sing, we sing love love lofuu too. well, 2 be serious, a lot of girls want sex sex as well, infact they scare u sometimes. most guys here can tell they didn't want to do it at first until a girl pushed 'em, what about that?
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2nde (m)
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i ma speak for the men. who said na sex sex sex be the only song we sing, we sing love love lofuu too. well, 2 be serious, a lot of girls want sex sex as well, infact they scare u sometimes. most guys here can tell they didn't want to do it at first until a girl pushed 'em, what about that? yeah, some girls can make you run away when they start those sex demand, some even feel you are just a machine that never get tired. what a heck? |
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smartsoft (m)
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Sure thing yummy
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brick (m)
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in more than 90percent of every relationship this kind of problems occurs. the ladies on their part wants to be loved, love to send quality time with their guys but what the guys want is sex! sex!! sex!!!. why is it so???
well i dont really know where u got that statistics from. i do know generally that ladies want to be loved, shown affection and given attention, i think there are more guys that won't demand sex in their relationship with their ladies. |
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mizkay (f)
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what kind of sex when the guys no even know how to give am? Me too I like it hot in the room o! Apart from walking the beach holding hands, starring at the starry skies.....bla bla...Personally I can't stand a guy who can't emmm rattle my sex cage (for want of a better word)....look at them.all yap and no bite. I love to be loved and emmm well-sexed. Sorry but the two go together, no one without the other.some yeye lousy, looser, can't-do-it, doesnt-know-how-to-do-it, UNman, go come begin dey fool around with your all excited physique like "what in hell's name do you think you are doing?" - make wuna lif that talk jare.....
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Ashbaby (f)
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Ladies give sex to get love and guys give love to get sex.
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smartsoft (m)
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Ladies give sex to get love and guys give love to get sex.
elaborate more pls
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Rhodalyn (f)
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i wnt both of dem, love n sex!  |
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dracosh (m)
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very true Ashbaby, you're big
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Rhodalyn (f)
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elaborate more please
wht elaboration do ya need again |
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Ashbaby (f)
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Thanks, gal. I was wondering how to go about that.
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nobody2
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i wouldn't know what you call love here on the side of girls and sex on the side of men. try spending time with your girl and avoid having sex and you will see her accusing you or keeping other girls. most of the gals who preach love love love have hiden programmes out there then keeping a particular man who she sings love tones and cries for over little things. you can count number of gals who in their real life have just a man. the hiden truth here is that women think much of their future as a wife than men think as a husband and based on this ladies put more efforts here than men to secure their future and who is doubting this? indicate you disagreement and i will give you scientific proves of this.  |
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kimba (m)
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the problem is this:
Girls feel that they have to give a guy sex, or at least pretend to be in the process of wanting to give him sex(because they think all a guy is after in a girl is sex, sex, sex), and that after giving a guy sex, the guy will become head-over-hills because of them(girls), and finally they'll be in love. So the guy, also decides to play the game until they finally have sex with the girl and then begin to think about Love.
now, guys have these thoughts at the back of their mind and would want to take advantage of it.
But note: When a guy finds a girl, who doesnt make sex a bait(you will have sex with me after 1,2,3, as if sex with her would be the guys reward after, ), as in shes not flaunting herself like an object of sexual enjoyment, the guy will do anything to win her heart, not her body. Such pure-motivated relationships, leads to a blissful family-life together, such couples ennjoy become heaven-on-earth.
Its also true that there are some guys who are just playas, coz theyve played the game once, twice, and it has become a habit, and they are having a time of their lives. Should they come across a girl just like i described above('but note' in bold), guys usually give such girls a lot of respect. They would even shy away from such relationships, coz they feel such girls have something they dont have: Integrity.
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eslynera (f)
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because once girls are loved they feel beautiful and able to be loved by any other man, as long as they are loved by the current guys, then they feel fine. not being loved makes them feel not pretty enough to be, guys like sex, coz they like it, and that's what mostly attracts them to ladies that they don't even feel. LUST. guy's av got lust.  |
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BigSis (f)
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Good sex for women is mental. Most women feel a level of emotional intimacy with a man to really get into him sexually. Men are visual. They can perform without the emotional aspect.
I know for me personally I cannot get into man sexually without emotional intimacy.
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BigSis (f)
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If a man gave a woman what she wanted emotionally, the sex will follow. Believe that!
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Busta (f)
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@ topic cos thats the chemistry of life  |
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experience (m)
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dont tell me u guyz havent met those freaky ladies, guess u av some more exploring to do
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sweet ivy (f)
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of course the ladies are more emotionally inclined than the men, and some guys let their equipment control them, that guy down there doesnt listen to anything unless its satisfied. love should come first
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