Dating/marrying A Hiv Person

@his_grace! .We have made up,period.What Nairaland has joined together,no dude should put asunder .

@KK!which one u dey?A man is a man!Cant a 76yr old man marry a 2nd wife or umpteenth wife.Anyway,I need a woman to call my own .Do u have an eligible sister

@N-joy

sorry for the miss quote I dint mean to insult or cause fire on the thread I was only trying to make people know that there is never a time when Viral load will be reduced in a person who is HIV positive to allow a healthy person have unprotected sex with themwithout any risks. I just want to make sure that people understand that if they choose to marry a HIV + person there is every chance that they may be infected too and so should know that they are taking risks when they have unprotected sex with their patners .The society needs to respect HIv+ people and PLWA s  but at the same time it is not wise to take risks with them just because we want to show them that we dont discriminate against them.for example we cant take blood from them or share the same piercing instunments such as needles or even clippers at the barbers shop PLWA will understand and wont take it as discrimination if you ask for an instrument to be sterilized after they use it before the instrument is used on HIV free people we should learn to remove emmotion from facts sickness doesnt know brother or sister we just have to be wise.
Its true a person who is healthy can marry a person infected with HIV just as a seeing man can marry a blind person and the hearing man can marry a deaf person anybody can marry anybody as long as the law does not say otherwise but those proposing to marry people with HIV its wise too know that there are risks involved and so they will be better prepared to deal with their partners in health and sickness till death do them part they should know that they have responsibility to take care of their spouse in case their health takes a negative turn.

@His_grace, your_grace, your_highness (whatever)
You wan come start your own for here? It's over and done with Karl Ken and me. Besides if na wifey karl ken de look for, am over qualified for the role, I don't cook nor clean. Karl ken is a pensioner if he is truly over seventy years old.  I can be a handful, I need a man with an instant erection  the moment I walk into the bedroom. If na old man e go take for ever for the tin to rise to the occasion. I no get time for that kan tin.
Meanwhile quit tryin to marry me off to any Tom, privates, and Harry.
Do remember what the topic on this thread is all about.

you 2 (@t N-joy & Kari ken) make my day by reading thru your comments.For more info on HIV/AIDS contact your Heart-2-Heart centre closer 2 u their counsellor we be glad to attend 2 u.Av a blessed wkend.Byeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee eeee.

CARNAL, pls can u explain how u handle and do the needful. thank u

Sorry, but I just can't do a thing, love or no love

@samic2 ,
Whats the difference between you and HIV person??
Absolutely there is non, so never use that word Carry his Cross. Because a HIV person lives a full normal life like you and me, and can have children like you and me, and can do all work, and live longer than you an me. So tell us whats wrong being HIV.

You are trying to put Stigma on this, so what about one not having HIV but latter in age develops BP that is always monitored? or cancer and Diabetics?

SO do not Judge cos u and I never know when to pass away in life. Cos Micheal Jackson at age 5 never new 2009 will be his last day on earth.

@ ibkaye ,

Hahaha, you can do ooo even do more that this when U feel in love with someone like the Son of Emir King of Kuwait. were you are bathed with Gold from head to toe, and by chance was asked to come to Nigeria and see your old friends, and meet top ranked world Billionaires.
So have it in you bone marrow that HIV is very very common in ARAB and Asia countries. more common among the celebrity in the world, cos they hardly stick to one man, divorce is like a culture to them.
You will really do more than them,