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OBVIOUS (m)
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@ Adam Brody, what if you and your wife get divorced, are you implying that no one else would marrry her because she is a used and expired bermuda triangle.
There is a false emphasis on virginity in marriage. and virgin or no virgin, marriages are much more than that and there are people who get divorced and get married again and live happily ever after. If the value of a woman to a man is based on whether or not she is a virgin, then that man is not meant to be with any woman.
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glorina
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hmm, na wa o, virgin o,
i've been going out with a virgin for 2yrs now who i'd love to marry, but how', i'm definately not ready for that. you may ask how do i get by, being a full red blooded naija boi, well, i do what every self respecting guy would, CHEAT. i'm not proud of it, but i like her a lot. if i had a choice (on paper i do) i would never had started it because its not easy. so as an answer, if i'm 100% sure i'm going to marry before i get blue balls sure why not go out with a virgin. u can't go wrong there. plus u can be sure they wont have any pre-marital sex. after that is anyones guess. but my advise to any guy who's not ready to marry sing along with me, No dull your self!!!!!!!!!!1
And how are you so sure she's not doin the same thing behind your back  |
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adobalade
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sade, i was move by your comment, there is life in virginity as i may see it. i dream of meeting one for the price still remain intact. All that matters most is LOVE, CARE and DISCIPLINE that is all, this build up relationship. in view i will prefer to
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funkyfella
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Honestly I dont intend marrying a virgin. As far as I love the gurl n its reciprocal then am cool,
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No2Atheism (m)
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For me marrying a virgin is a desire but not a compulsion, hence although as a bible believer, I desire to marry a virgin both for the novelty and also because of the spiritual implications/problems associated with pre-marital sex. Nevertheless I am not naive enough to think that all bible believers are virgins. Hence i don't have any problem with marrying non-virgin under certain considerations (e.g. consideration of being a bible believer).
The most important thing is that i meet a babe (who meets all my specs) and to whom i can truly say "I love you", without feeling that am lying about it.
If it turns out that the babe willingly/personally tells me that she is not a virgin, frankly I would not be bothered and I won't really care because I am not perfect either, and because am more interested in my love for her and hers for me. So i don't have any problem with her not being a virgin so long as her personal history (which she tells me) shows that she's not a whore, but rather that she was a victim of men that took advantage of her in previous failed relationships.
The truth is that most of us are damaged goods anyway, hence i don't think its fair to condemn women who have lost their virginity due to failed relationships, however i have no respect and desire for ladies who are sex addicts and whores just for the fun of it.
Yes I can marry a virgin
Yes I can marry a non-virgin
No I cannot marry a whore
I rest my case,
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dayokanu (m)
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Anyone who wants to marry a virgin should also be a virgin himself. N2A are you a Virgin?
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FL Gators!
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Bro Dayo, So you too should marry a virgin  N2A a virgin? Yea, and and Thailand is in Los Angelos |
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Lax75 (m)
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Can't marry a virgin for two reasons: 1. I'm not one and it's only fair that we both should be virgins 2. Got no time to train no one |
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dyabman (m)
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anyone which come my way , a virgin or a dogin
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CyberG (m)
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See thread as the thing long like LONGINUS and this thing go LONG tire o ! So the koko of all the story: (1) GIRLS who have been banged, re-banged, over-banged, bang-banged (factorial) : NO SEND for virginity talk and virgin guys! Their opinion on this thread easily betrays them (2) GIRLS who have been banged maybe by ONE guy or not so much as the ^^^^, usually tone down their rhetoric. . .depending on the circumstance, they hope to marry a VIRGIN guy. . .if possible. (3) GIRLS who have persevered and, by tooth and nail, kept their VIRGINITY, hope to meet someone who is equally ONE so they can have a tit-for-tat kinda thing, you take my V, I take your V GUYS who do the girls in (1) above, usually will want to marry girls in (3). . .'scared' of their 'handiwork' GUYS who do the girls in (2), hope to marry (3) or (2) GUYS who are in (3) often times have not had much opportunities or bungled all them opportunities, mostly! My unscientific prediction is that more guys will not meet a virgin in their life before they get married. . .while a less number will DISVIRGIN most of the girls. . .which they won't marry. . .hoping to find a 'better' one in future! In all, guys, think of your own female children when you finally have them o. . .so they don't inherit the whirlwind you have sown! . |
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opsydudu (m)
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i love the sweetness and the tightness of any virgin! i love to see my virgin girlfriend (even after breaking her hymen) dance galala while doing that thing, but this world don spoil guys will always want to pardon (overlook) their girlfriends who aren't virgins. it is not the experience that count but dignity should be taken into consideration you can't expect her girl who has tasted orisirisi to permanently stick to one after saying "i do", lust. desire (not even satisfaction) and their crazy fantasy will always come into play i rest my case here. |
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faakay (m)
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Anyone that comes my way!  |
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No2Atheism (m)
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Bro Dayo, So you too should marry a virgin N2A a virgin? Yea, and Thailand is in Los Angelos , FL Gators , (seems some people need medical discipline/spanking ) |
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FL Gators!
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FL Gators , (seems some people need medical discipline/spanking who, me? So, can you work it?  |
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No2Atheism (m)
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who, me? So, can you work it? , yes you, Come to think of it maybe i should quit my program and instead also come in for training to become a medico, so as to do the spanking myself. |
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FL Gators!
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Who you dey spank? BSDM in the making. |
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No2Atheism (m)
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The spanking is all yours and yours alone, , there would be no piracy of content Biological * * M - yes o Don't worry na in other to make the spanking more barbaric, I would train to become a Geanocologist , dude starts to wash his mind with soap |
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posakosa (m)
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Virginity is not guarantee for a successful marriage.
What happens when the virgin gets divorced? when she's been banged for years by her now divorced husband. Does she now become useless ?
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C2H5OH (m)
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Yes, I would very much prefer an undefiled bunny. Virgin woman is much better than gold and silver.
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FL Gators!
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The spanking is all yours and yours alone, Grin, there would be no piracy of content Grin
Biological * * M - yes o
Don't worry na in other to make the spanking more barbaric, I would train to become a Geanocologist , dude starts to wash his mind with soap rotflmao. . . . you got jokes |
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F u up (m)
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I think its overrated, Getting married to a virgin might end up as a disaster. What if after marriage she tries it and its not her thing?  then you're stuck with a plywood and cheating will commence |
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Dammy_ray (m)
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It will be fun doing the wahala myself on the night
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Orimili (m)
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For me marrying a virgin is a desire but not a compulsion, hence although as a bible believer, I desire to marry a virgin both for the novelty and also because of the spiritual implications/problems associated with pre-marital sex. Nevertheless I am not naive enough to think that all bible believers are virgins. Hence i don't have any problem with marrying non-virgin under certain considerations (e.g. consideration of being a bible believer).
The most important thing is that i meet a babe (who meets all my specs) and to whom i can truly say "I love you", without feeling that am lying about it.
If it turns out that the babe willingly/personally tells me that she is not a virgin, frankly I would not be bothered and I won't really care because I am not perfect either, and because am more interested in my love for her and hers for me. So i don't have any problem with her not being a virgin so long as her personal history (which she tells me) shows that she's not a whore, but rather that she was a victim of men that took advantage of her in previous failed relationships.
The truth is that most of us are damaged goods anyway, hence i don't think its fair to condemn women who have lost their virginity due to failed relationships, however i have no respect and desire for ladies who are sex addicts and whores just for the fun of it.
Yes I can marry a virgin
Yes I can marry a non-virgin
No I cannot marry a whore
I rest my case,
This is quite possibly the most sensible post I've ever read on Nairaland. I agree 99.9% (Nothing is ever 100% with me) |
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Dondav (m)
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That's top priority. No virgin, No marriage. Hey virgin(s) in da house, call me for a serious relationship. 07031327715
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platinumnk (f)
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so true, many women in india are now doing this |
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Moonstone (f)
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so true, many women in india are now doing this
India alone? I read an article - women in London do it during their Lunch breaks for only 1,500 pounds. Imagine - it takes less than an hour to become a virgin again. |
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