[poll] Would You Prefer to Marry a Virgin?

NFERYN "How dare you be so judgemental? What do you know about my marriage to tell me I don't really love my wife?

You probably were in the first row when the stones were being distributed for casting, weren't you?"

I wouldn't blame you for using such words on me. I am not being jugdemental on this issue, but factual.
But tell me, will you allow your own sister to be WELL SAMPLED before she gets married? Tell me.

Na wah wah

i'm a lady so i can't a stand an injustice like that. this society really sucks!

sorry sis, thats not what we are doing here. It's all about individuality, I know myself enough to know that I don't need to make sex a priory now. Atleast I have other things that keep me busy.

ah gina no now. But you really know yourself to know that it is an individual thing.

If you think you are factual, you are indeed saying that I don't truly love my wife. Kindly retract this insult and we'll leave it at that.

I don't have a sister and if I were to have one, I wouldn't want to impose my morality on her. It really doesn't matter whether or not she had sex before her marriage. Your portrayal of someone have pre-marital sex as being WELL SAMPLED is not very kind to those that don't follow your morality.

 All this virginity thing again. I had decided not to contribute to any virginity discussion again but........................

  There are many sides to this.

  1. The fact that a woman is a virgin or not is not an issue to me. If somebody comes around me saying i am a virgin bla, bla,  is it going to make me think of her as better than every other woman...   NO

  2. Would i love my woman less because of virginity.................  NO

  3. DO virgins make 4 better  households (proven?) ...................NO

  4. I once contributed to a discussion thread on this nairaland forum about checking ur partners messages and i said that trust was enough in a loving relationship but Seun was like how will only trust do and in my mind i am like after marrying a virgin and u still stress ur life watching her every move is  the level of trust higher than those of others married.........................NO
   ( contrary to what people idealistically argue and say most men who marry virgins still don't have a higher level of trust in them. They are still apprehensive of what these ladies do when they are not around)

 

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  With comments like these it will alwayz be a mans world (y do women complain anyway since they see themselves as simple articles classified into used and not used)


 If i were a woman, would i marry a man that puts emphasis on virginity even if i were a virgin......................NO (men who classify women as sexual objects and who are dogmatic on issues like that have flexibility problems when it comes to other things which involve decision making in life. I grew up in the midst of  these kinds of enviroment and i know. I have seen it happen time and again.

  Does marriage of a virgin assure more success of a marriage..................................NO



  On the other hand since some people insist they MUST marry a virgin, others should please respect there decision and let them accept whatever comes from that. I don't see the use of arguing this topic.

BOTTOM LINE. A woman can be a virgin 4 only one sexual encounter, i don't see how that changes their personality which is what i use to rate ladies. I see all women as the same because THEY WILL ALL CROSS THE LINE ONE DAY AND STILL DO WHAT THEY WANT TO DO. Y would virginity be an issue if i see a woman i love all her characteristics?

 I have friends who have slept with women who were married as virgins and are still in their husbands house and i have also seen virgin girl marriages fail woefuly.
  Like most things in life, there are two sides to this story.


 Out of curiosity i want to ask women how they are able to relate with guys who are dogmatic and narrow minded as regards to insisting on virginity. I mean guys that say i love you because you are a virgin and i hate ALL girls that are not virgins ( like some guys on this forum). On what will you guys base ur relationship, love, virginity what. And would he not love you much if you were not a virgin. if so DOES HE REALLY LOVE YOU?

and why isn't male virginity discussed here. why only women 


because there is no prove for virginity

hahahaha. you asked but they didn't reply you did they?

i thinking someone is a lesbian on this site

virgin or no virgin,i won't marry a virgin .i would prefer a prostitute than a virgin.they are always wild when they get married ,i have witness it on several occasions.i don't go for them for intimate friendship,if i find out that she is still a virgin ,i will leave her and move  on.

@pharrod
Am puting it to you that u have never seen a virgin befor
because judging by what u just said u don't know anything about thm.
Besides who dash monkey banana.

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Let me join before the laff finishes...

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IAH u don win