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Z4M4eva (f)
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CimonJorr,elpaso doesn't need to get a life, he's saying the truth!!!learn to face the facts!!!and respect people's opinions, everyone are entitled to their own opinions just like you are, so don't criticize someone for saying his mind!
Get a life(just because he's objecting ur opinion)
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Z4M4eva (f)
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Go Miriam!!!tell them!
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Z4M4eva (f)
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Tayotina, stop being so verbally abusive to Seun
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Z4M4eva (f)
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Whh are people so against virgins?, talking about being experienced and everything, those gurls that are "EXPERIENCED", weren't they virgins first before they got "EXPERIENCED"?same goes to virgins, if a virgin then decides to have sex, then gradually she gets "EXPERIENCED", or are those 2"EXPERIENCED" gurls/guys, trying to say THEY WERE BORN EXPERIENCED?
BEFORE you got experienced, I am referring to the non virgins here,both male and female, weren't you virgins FIRST?see what I mean?!
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Z4M4eva (f)
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Why would anyone HATE a virgin, that is a very strong word, weren't you a virgin before you were deflowered?what if someone said they HATED you when you were a virgin, because you are a virgin??HARSH!!!
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Z4M4eva (f)
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Someone pisses me off real bad in this forum!
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Z4M4eva (f)
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B'because Y as two edges and one tail, that's y Allonym
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gina34 (f)
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Z4m u have much interest in this topic
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Z4M4eva (f)
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Oh yes I do,Gina  |
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gina34 (f)
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Carry go girl.  Am behind you 247 |
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goodguy (m)
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Z4M4eva, all those could have been under one post. Besides, I see that you are objecting to comments posted several months ago.
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CimonJorr (m)
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Sweetie... Me saying that the individual should get a life pertains more to the fact that he's worrying his head off about what he obviously couldn't change (even if he wanted to) if he were in that circumstance.. Let me break it down.. Why should he bother his head with what his girlfriend or wife did in a relationship ages before she agreed to date/marry him, when obviously she isn't in a relationship with anyone else but him at the moment.. If that were his main concern before going into a relationship, he should have subjected her to an interview before starting anything with her, as well as build a dossier and give it to the SSS for further investigation.. What anyone does in a previous life or relationship is just that.. something done previously.. here we are not querrying the woman's fidelity (or lack thereof) but what he would be bothering his mind about.. (ie. the fact that she could have given head to a guy she was dating previously / recieved head from one of her ex's).. Do you understand now???.. ps.. would u date a guy who had a complex about people u've been in relationships with prior to dating him.. to me this smacks of insecurity and a lack of self-belief.. my views only.. CimonJorr,elpaso doesn't need to get a life, he's saying the truth!!!learn to face the facts!!!and respect people's opinions, everyone are entitled to their own opinions just like you are, so don't criticize someone for saying his mind!
Get a life(just because he's objecting your opinion)
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allonym
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B'because Y as two edges and one tail, that's y Allonym
What's this about? |
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elampiro (m)
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In my opinion this is best topic so far.
Virginity is a precious gold. But it is not all in all when it comes to choosing a life partner.
I'm equally totally agaist pre-marital sex. For religious reasons I vowed never to do it before marriage, and I will not give up.
However, when I finally decide to settle down with someone, which I know is soon, I will not be searching for a virgin but a decent girl who has what I want in a woman (beauty,shape, height & intelligence) . If after our marriage I find her to be a virgin it will be a bonus , and I will forever 'worship' her. If she is not a virgin, I will only demand faithfulness from her.
When it comes to having experience, my believe is that no body brought it from birth. It can be liken to someone who just started driving. Initially it will be obvious that the person is learning, after a few weeks no one will be able to tell how long the person has been driving.
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goodguy (m)
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God bless you, elampiro.
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elampiro (m)
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God bless you, elampiro.
Thanx alot goodguy. |
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waool (m)
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nferyn said" Don't forget that at the rate our body replaces our cells, no bodypart will be the same after 9 months maximum. If you're really that worried about cleanliness, just wait a couple of months and you'll have a brand new girl "
I think this is only correct for people who want to have sex casually, without the meaning of the sex being involved.
A girl who has had sex before 100 times is not clean even if her "cells" are renewd mr. nferyn.
At least she will always compare between your performance and the other guys in her mind before u.
She can say, Ok Mr nferyn was doing his best but, Mr X had a larger cock. Do u like to be put in this situation? Always in comparoson for your dignity.
Having sex after marriage makes a family with all its meanings, compared with animals!
If u get all what u want before marriage, then why getting married then, and if u don;t get married then there is no family and if there is no family then there is nothing left to be done. Have sex, have sex, and then have sex, so what?
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waool (m)
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The scenario should be
U being a virgin -> Find a virgin person (same experience as u) --> get married --> have a family --> Have sex.
Other than this scenario is NOT normal, and people who are defending having sex before marriage or with non virgins are just peopl who suffers from the problem that they can't be virgins anymore.
A virgin can be non-virgin, but a non-virgin can't be a virgin (By virgins I mean real virgins not talking about operations of course).
Also people who defend non virginity are only people who can't control their desires enough to find the life partner, they just get sex when they wanted it, no matter what are the consequences.
No offense to anyone, this is just my opinion and it makes sense to me though.
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CimonJorr (m)
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Yellow card...  nferyn said" Don't forget that at the rate our body replaces our cells, no bodypart will be the same after 9 months maximum. If you're really that worried about cleanliness, just wait a couple of months and you'll have a brand new girl "
I think this is only correct for people who want to have sex casually, without the meaning of the sex being involved.
A girl who has been fucking before 100 times is not clean even if her "cells" are renewd mr. nferyn.
At least she will always compare between your performance and the other guys in her mind before u.
She can say, Ok Mr nferyn was doing his best but, Mr X had a larger cock. Do u like to be put in this situation? Always in comparoson for your dignity.
Having sex after marriage makes a family with all its meanings, compared with animals!
If u get all what u want before marriage, then why getting married then, and if u don;t get married then there is no family and if there is no family then there is nothing left to be done. Have sex, have sex, and then have sex, so what?
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waool (m)
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Yellow card... Thanks for the card CimonJorr, I loved it... |
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larger_20 (m)
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One thing about virginity is that girls are likley to loose it faster than guys..especially in nigeria...Hungry parents give birth to beautiful looking girls without money to surport them..what do u think will happen? Just give her a tom tom and see..even among the rich kids, they aint doing anything better because the masses are poor and will definitly influence them..so no one is really safe from not having sex and makes the issue of being a virgin even more complicated. We have hiv...it is climbing everyday...may God help us
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gina34 (f)
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What planet are u frm.
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gina34 (f)
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Hey Girl ,how are u doing.
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nferyn (m)
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nferyn said" Don't forget that at the rate our body replaces our cells, no bodypart will be the same after 9 months maximum. If you're really that worried about cleanliness, just wait a couple of months and you'll have a brand new girl "
I think this is only correct for people who want to have sex casually, without the meaning of the sex being involved.
On what basis are you saying this? A girl who has been fucking before 100 times is not clean even if her "cells" are renewd mr. nferyn.
Please define clean to me and then we can have a meaningful discussion. It is pointless if we are talking about different things At least she will always compare between your performance and the other guys in her mind before u.
She can say, Ok Mr nferyn was doing his best but, Mr X had a larger cock. Do u like to be put in this situation? Always in comparoson for your dignity.
So what if she does? Besides, someone who thinks that the size of his cock is that important has got serious issues Having sex after marriage makes a family with all its meanings, compared with animals!
So you are defining the worth of the marriage by having sex. I was under the impression that marriage was about more than sex, but of course, I could be wrong. If u get all what u want before marriage, then why getting married then, and if u don;t get married then there is no family and if there is no family then there is nothing left to be done. Have sex, have sex, and then have sex, so what?
Once again, you're stating that the only thing you get from marriage is sex. The first impression I get is that either you're not married (and thus do not really know what married life is about) and/or you haven't had sex (which would explain your obsessive approach to sex) |
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waool (m)
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On what basis are you saying this?
Please define clean to me and then we can have a meaningful discussion. It is pointless if we are talking about different things
Clean means that once u touch her, she feels the touch and enjoys it without comparing it to others. Clean means "new" in term of experience, and you teach each others what you like and not like, and u will face that more if u are new to sex compared to "experienced" guys, and this is healthy in my opinion. So what if she does? Besides, someone who thinks that the size of his cock is that important has got serious issues
The size of the cock was just an example, but my point was I am not there to be compared to others, I am there because I am in love and her entire sex experience should be just me, and she should be my entire sex experience and teach each others. So you are defining the worth of the marriage by having sex. I was under the impression that marriage was about more than sex, but of course, I could be wrong.
Once again, you're stating that the only thing you get from marriage is sex.
Again sex was one example of the fruits of getting married, not everything in marriage ofcourse. Having a family and responsibility and thinking about the future and all the good stuff, are just examples. But ONE very nice fruit that reflects love and all the emotion u have to each other is having sex, so being inexperienced and teaching each others what u want and go to the peek together in my opinion is the BEST thing u can get from sex. That also what I meant by clean. The first impression I get is that either you're not married (and thus do not really know what married life is about) and/or you haven't had sex (which would explain your obsessive approach to sex)
This is not the point for discussion today... Anyways, I liked ur questions, and I hope I have answered them. Have a nice day |
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elbaron (m)
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In today's world, Sex makes up for 45% of the marriage. If it weren't so, why are women who have relative comfort in marriage cheat on the husbands and vice versa? If the sex is better than good and there is 25% love, 10% understanding and trust + caring etc take up the balance, well... It is a relatively fair balanced marriage in my opinion. And who told you size does not matter? Unless you are very proffessional in giving head.
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nferyn (m)
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In today's world, Sex makes up for 45% of the marriage. If it weren't so, why are women who have relative comfort in marriage cheat on the husbands and vice versa? If the sex is better than good and there is 25% love, 10% understanding and trust + caring etc take up the balance, well... It is a relatively fair balanced marriage in my opinion. There are loads of evolutionary reasons why women and men would cheat on their husbands or wives, even when they love them dearly. I think you're right that good sex is essential to a marriage, but good sex alone cannot sustain a marriage. And who told you size does not matter? Unless you are very proffessional in giving head.
Maybe I am Anyway as long as your privates isn't excessively small or excessively big, with the right technique you've got all you need. |
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CimonJorr (m)
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Yellow card = WARNING ! ! !I hope you get the point.. Thanks for the card CimonJorr, I loved it...
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Makeda (f)
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Hi everyone! I am new to this forum and I just had to comment when I saw this topic. Ok first I would like to start by saying I am an African American woman who is HOPELESSLY in love with a wonderful Nigerian man, who is a virgin. We are preparing to get married next year and I am so excited because with both of us being Christian we have decided to not have sex until our wedding night. But let me drop a little knowledge on my ladies who are still virgins. When you have sex with a man who is so experienced it can be a disadvantage because he is undoubtedly going to use the same tired tactics and techniques on you that he has used on Sally, Jane, Susan, etc,..... There is no one single set pleasure principle for women. All women are different and we all like different things. No two women are turned on by the same things. A womans body is a mine field of buttons that lead to different kinds of explosions and sometimes a man who has been around the block a few times cannot fully appreciate your body, and he thinks he is an expert when it comes to your pleasure. He sometimes does not care to take time to see what makes you tick, because he thinks he knows it all. He has lost his curiosity when it comes to the mystery of the female body. But a man who is a virgin has no experience and this is wonderful because you can teach him exactly what makes you feel good. You can just lay down and let him have a good time touching and kissing you all over to see what gives you pleasure. Then when he hits a right button and you explode you get to watch his eyes light up with excitement as he memorizes your pleasure spots. He will be very eager to learn what makes you moan, giggle or scream out his name. Then too you get to experience his emotions and feelings after he has sex for the first time. Then too you can explore each other freely without thoughts running through your mind like asking yourself- Am I better or worse than the last person they were with?? So yes I would say, I would definitely ppreferto marry a virgin. But this is just my opinion, so please do not blast me too bad, lol!!
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goldenoc (f)
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makeda this is really a good lecture. Thanks a million.
marrying a vagin is the best, because l don't think l will like to marry someone who have test all the girls in twon.
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hot-angel (f)
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Then too you can explore each other freely without thoughts running through your mind like asking yourself- Am I better or worse than the last person they were with??
I like that part. |
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