[poll] Would You Prefer to Marry a Virgin?

The only thing more disgusting than that is the idea that she has sucked that of another guy in the past.  Ewww.

I have seen guyz that insist on marrying a virgin cos they feel that they cannot satisfy a woman who has tasted the real thing properly, but that is only brewing trouble cos once disvirgined, she Would still want to see what other guyz r like if she feels u r not delivering.
      Seun what assurance do u have that your "virgin" would not have sucked another guy or will not do so even after u r married thanks to thier guyz inexperience. I dont think sexuall history matters anyway.

@sage And what makes you think a virgin cannot suck your ****?? Since you are joined in holy matrimony, man, don't limit what she can do o!
@ladies out there, Come to think of this scenario, the guy you once slept with in your "Sisi" days now became your husband's best friend. How would you relate with him properly infront of your husband? To avoid this kind of "shadows-from-your-past-chasing-you" scenarios, STAY PURE! I know men are not worth keeping your virginity for, but for a few reasons like early pregnancy leading to abortion which may lead to infertility/death, or early pregnancy disrupting your education, and for the sake of Biblical principles, KEEP IT!

Virgins rule. (i am one)..but oh well shouldn't i be? I am only 15. (most of my friend's aren't), but i'd really love to wait till i get a guy i can't live without.

hot-angel welcome to the club,pls keep try and keep it.

[ We have all managed to stick to our opinions, and here's mine. No way am I going to get involved with a woman who has been sexually involved with other men.
  I never support permarital sex and I wont damn pple who engage in it cos its a choice.But Seun you insisted on getting married to a virgin.I want to ask you this question...you claim you will not have sex with your partner until you get maried and you actually said u cant get involve with a woman who is sexually active..but since you said you wont have sex with her until your wedding then how will you know she's a virgin...is it by her telling you and convincing u enough..cos some lady can pretend to be a virgin and you will be convinced beyond doubt that she is, so tell me how you will know.
 Then how are you sure your virgin will 100% make u happy.Mind you I'm not against your opinion and I cant even be against it but how will a guy know his wife to be is a virgin.A lady that has indulge in sex when she was young and maybe she regrets doing it and vow not to do it again will still be intact but the virginity is not there cos it does not have a duplicate..so tell me how you will confirm cos u dont want to experiment it before you take her to the altar.

I can marry either afterall we all live in glass house.

I dont belive it we are still on this virgin issue

Stababy you too funny well well ooo.
I know you are not a virgin. Are you?

Sage you are funny enough.

I do not know. Religious wise it is very godly. However, the pain that is involved in bringing him/her to the point of joyous sex "within the context of marriage" though may be too excrutiating when he/she is not even ready to learn.

I will submit that i really do not think a virgin will suit my sexuality. Please this is my own opinion.

Well, in an ideal world I'd definitely love to marry a virgin, but hey, the world isn't ideal and it'd be unfair of me to demand chasteness from a girl when I am hardly a paragon of chaste behaviour.
The important thing isn't what she did before you met, but what she did after, and also hwo both of you get along.

Chxta:
If I'm so old-fashioned and you're not, then how come you hate gay people and I don't?

A young woman's sex drive increases with age, so if she can't control her sex at 20, she may not be able to control it at 31.  If I'm not doing it, i don't want her to be doing it and that's that.  Virgins should marry virgins, and that's all there is to it.  If you're doing it now then of course you can't say your wife-to-be shouldn't be doing it.

I read it somewhere that they reach their sexual 'peak' between 30 and 35 while boys and men reach theirs at 7.  Couldn't find any supporting reference before posting.

Seun, I take it you meant 17 for the men abi?

But yes those ages are what I have read as the peaks for men and women but I wonder why the big disparity in ages??

Having said that I did a little search and this article is trying to debunk it:

http://www.soc.ucsb.edu/sexinfo/?article=anatomy&refid=008

and this one gives a reason why it "seems" women peak later:
http://www.solveyourproblem.com/artman/publish/article_560.shtml

so maybe we have been listening to a myth?? who knows jare becuase there were other sites still stating the old story of 17 for boys and 30's for women.

Legry, hmm.......... let me reserve my comments.