Even In Her Husband's House, She Still Comes Around Me

My former girlfriend got marriad 8 months ago after we both agreed that she should marry since I still have years ahead in my school programme. I attended both the traditional and white wedding ceremony. Now, this beautiful, respected and charming looking lady doesn't want to let me go. She send letters, text massages and even visit me alone at night, telling me she still love me.
My question is; Should I let the whole world including the husband know about it?
Please help.

Don't mind that guy oo ^^


What you should do is, tell her to stop doing all what she's doing. And ignore her. Abi do u still lover her?

Ignore Aqua guy "Magun" is real n it works moreover do you believe in Karma? Let sleeping dogs lie O!

Na people like u "Magun" de catch.ignore aqua he's bark is probably louder than his bite. try to avoid the girl at all costs; moreover u never really said whether u still fancy her or not.

Both of you should take IQ tests.     So this what they call stupidity? 

You know what?  I think the story is fabricated because I think you are smarter than that.

Is her husband and rich man and has she promised to send you money monthly to help you in your education ?

Unless this is a deal between you and your girl friend to extort money from the man or it is a fabricated story,even you know that you would have told her in no uncertain words to stop pestering you and you would have ran for your dear life.

If you must committ taboo please let it not be adultery,neither religion,law,society or tradition condones it

If i were you, i'D ignore her at all costs. If she does not stop trying to tempt you into doing what she knows is bad cut her off.

it sound like the lady in question is missing you for something that her husband has not been able to provide her(sexual). if you loved her u would not have given her up in the first place visversa she would have waited for u to finish school. advise her to show her husband what satisfies her

una no see say spencer never reply una since this thread begin??

she is trouble wit a capital T
beware of her
wht sort of lady is she some sort of slut or wht
she should knw it ws al goin 2 be over whn she said da fuckin wirds 'i do'

Kai oluwaseun, haba you people, go easy on the poor guy now. He was only requesting for advice. They both love each other but probably because he was not yet made and ready to settle down or perhaps because of her age or family pressure or peer pressure, she had to get married and felt she could no longer wait for him. She could have been nagged into getting married by her family and is not happy in the marriage. One would never know. I am not surprised that he is not bothering to reply. You guys have probably chased him away because of your attitude. 
 
Why do you have to think this was a fabricated story? What is so hard for you to believe about his story. Cases like this are very common. Women are perceived that they should be married by a certain age, otherwise people would poke fun at them that they are on the shelf, whilst men on the other hand can put off marriage till they are in their forties and beyond. 

 

You both agreed to her marriage,  so what's the problem?
You now both need to realize that she belongs to another man, her husband!
Leave her alone, ignore her attempts to contact you. You are feeding her habit by taking her calls and allowing her to be around you. If you're not careful, you'll be the one in trouble with her husband when he finds out, and he will find out because secrets like these always find a way of leaking out.

hmmmmmmmmmmmm, that is sumtin oooooooooooooooooo
u pp can't be like jesus?don't u remember mary magdalene?
jesus said anyone who has not sinned should pick a stone to throw at her first when she was caught in adultery. was she stoned at last?
u don't av to report to her husband. just tell her to stop callin and comin and try to avoid her till she gets it off her head.
in the first place, u still love d girl? try to be her husband's good frnd and get a new girl to remind u that u don't need her in ur life anymore.
peace be unto u.

Spencer, each time she comes around, refuse to let her in. Ask her what she came for through the window.

If she meets you on the road, tell her you are on your way to see your own babe. Then wax lyrical about all what the chic is doing for you.

If she calls your phone, ask your girlfriend to pick it up and answer the call.

Sometimes. . . . .you need to be cruel, to be kind!

I think there could be more that he's not divulging.

I knew a girl like that, who married someone else instead of her long term married boyfriend who'D been dating her for years.

After she got married, she'D still party with her ex-boyfriend occasionally, leaving her baby at home. The husband was out of town of course.

But neither she nor the ex boyfriend had a problem with the arrangement, since they were both married to other people and so therefore.

I'm sure her husband was also living free where he was as well. Wife in the west, husband in PH. This lady would party all night.

if you tell the husband ,are you ready to marry her ?
You do not need to take such drastic measure,there are better ways.