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Dāwīḏ
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@ Capone . . . plenty of information but saying nothing at all.
Yes you put up lists of "famous people" who married first cousins but we all know that such is now against the law in ALL developed countries BUT muslim nations.
This nonsensical idea of struggling to legitimise islamic idiocies by quickly reaching for the same bible you all claim is lost or corrupt exposes you people as hypocrites of the highest order.
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Lolabbey
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there shldnt be much argument.
suratul kafirun------------let your religion be years and let ours be ours .
shikena.
my heart burns as i read tru ,
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belloti (m)
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You really want to know why? Am going to tell you right away because i just married mine.
You know we want keep it within the family (?), i mean why let go your most beautiful and charming cousin to a total stranger out of the blues? Doesnt make sense to me, i don't know if it did to some of you.
Its allowed in Islam and it sound nice to me.
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saha
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Thank you lord for not making obj a northerner nairalanders would have had a field day.people learn to read & write & assume they are educated I beg no one has asked anyone to marry their cousin.please deal with your own problems & don't borrow others.I am still waiting to read a softsell magazine touting northerners incest.
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+osisi
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You really want to know why? Am going to tell you right away because i just married mine.
You know we want keep it within the family (?), i mean why let go your most beautiful and charming cousin to a total stranger out of the blues? Doesnt make sense to me, i don't know if it did to some of you.
Its allowed in Islam and it sound nice to me.
no wonder imbeciles abound in northern Nigeria. I hope Yoruba Muslims are smarter than this It's sickening that a man would find his own flesh and blood his sexual fantasy. Yuckyy yuck I want to puke |
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Capone (m)
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@ Dawi
I am surprised at the sort of hatred of the northerners or muslims coming from your mouth. I am surprised that people who claim to be enlightened could be racist and tribalist. Are you Christian? Why should the belief and way of life of muslim bother you. I don't even expect the way of life of a Christian to bother a Muslim either.
Let's be tolerant and respect each others' culture's and religion. We were tolf that Christ came for the Jews. But it was the so called "Gentiles" that accepted him and still worship him today.
Do you want me to tell you about what the so called Christian leaders have done? I am not a religious person and I am not holding brief for any damn religion.
The Jews don't bloody care about Christ or Christianity. The Prophet Muhammed in all history never fought any war with Christians. He even advocated a better treatment for Christians and Muslims living among the Muslim communities.
Do you know about the role the church played in the Jewish holocaust? Do you know what the crusaders did to Jewish women in Jerusalem? Do you know why the Pope apologized to the world over the role of the Roman Catholic church in 2006?
I come from a family of Christians and Muslims. I come from a family where I have Yoruba, Edo, Ibo, Ghanaian, Americans, Swedes and Hausas as family. I don't have any myopic view about anybody or tribe.
So my friend stop the hate game. Have you faced any racist taunt in Europe or the US? Then ask any one who is widely travelled.
We are trying to stamp out racism and fanaticism and I am surprised that when confronted with the truth you are still hell bent on denying the fact.
Do you want to deny that Jacob did not marry two sisters? Do you want to say that Joseph and Mary are not cousins? When did the States in US abolish the marrying of first cousins.
My fellow Nairalanders, why persecute the muslims? Don't you remeber it is in USA and Europe you find men marrying men? Is it not the so called Whites that get married to animals? Are these not sodomy?
Look at the rate of abominations taking place in this lands.
Why is that in Yoruba land 80% of the couples don't wed before marrying. Why is there a very high rate of adultery. (Eyin Yoruba mi ema binu mo kon soro ni).
I love all Nigerians warts and all. One love
Dawi I don't mean to ilk you but saying the truth so see better and act enlightened. You and I a better than all this petty talk.
Let's ask questions to get understanding of our country and fellow country men.
Thanks
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belloti (m)
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Osisi, you are back again. I thought we are trying to understand different perspective about our respective cultures and tradition here without being unneccessarily judgemental. I really wouldnt like to flex muscle on these trivial issues just as i have so much respect for our southern muslim brothers and sisters.
Having said that, i challenge anyone out there to objectively juxtapose the muslim north candour and decency vis-a-vis any class of people or civilisation. We found comparative basis just because we are talking about legal marriages but when it comes to promiscuos atrocities like the obasanjo type we can't even find areas of even semblance of commonity between the decent, shy, religious and morally impeccable northern muslims with the so-called western oriented civilised south.
You cannot openly sanction the marriage of cousins but you may see nothing wrong with illigitimate sexual liason between them. Adult Cousins of different sexes share same bedroom and conveniences in the simple pretence that its the same flesh while in real sense the unimaginable relationship that transpires within them can best be left to the dogs.
i really didnt want to embrass anyone here but the tone of misguided condemnation should have being better reasssessed or at best employ more caution before clicking the keys.
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saha
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Jahili fa jahili har abada,dan giran zati mu bar su su cigabada haukansu ai na ke ganin capone da belloti sun ce komai.ni ma cousin dina nake aure kuma bai kashe ni ba.in fact ds is our 10th year ni yanzu ma na kara son shi
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Capone (m)
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@ Saha.
Na Lura wasu Jahilay ne kawai. Kuma baasu son su koyi komai. Ni masani ne sosai a Tarihin Nigeria da Duniya don na Karanci History & International Relations a Jaami'a.
Saha da Belotti ina gaiyatar ku zuwa sabon forum da na futo da shi. Arewa Community na kirashi. Na zamu tattauna abubuwa game da arewa da kasarmu Nigeria.
Allah ya baamu sa'a.
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Capone (m)
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To Yan Uwaana! Na ji na ku kuma na zo da alkawali da na yi muku. Sunan group di na shi ne African Entrepreneurs Network A.K.A Master's Business League ku shiga forum http://businessleague.board4u.bizZaku iya hira a General Discussion ---> Arewa Community Masu son sani na zaa gu karanta a karkashin Arewa Community Sannan za ku iya ganin aikin de muke game da investment a Nigeria. I dan akwai maasu zama a Kaduna, Gombe, Jos da Bauchi munaa nan tahowa daga Lagos. Idan kuna Ghana, Togo, Cote d'Ivoire ku saurare mu a watan April. Nagode ------------------------------- Eyin Yorubaa mi Ema binu O Mofe pe awon enikeni to ba gbo ede Hausa tabi o gbe ile Hausa ri kon fun wa ni understanding. Eyan kan na laaje. e le bawa soro npa oro owo at business ni http://businessleague.board4u.bizAan duro de yin Odu'a a gbewa O. Amin. |
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belloti (m)
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Capone nayi joining forum dinka kuma ina yi maka fatar alheri.
Saha naji dadin bayaninki kuma ina yi muku murna da fatar kara zama lafiya dake da dan uwanki kuma mijin ki.
Allah ya taimakemu, Amen
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Capone (m)
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Belloti da Saha na gode muku da kuka shigo African Entrepreneurs Network http://businessleague.board4u.biz. Allah ya kaara zumunci da zaman laafiya. Mu cigaba da aikin kwarai |
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4 Play (m)
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Hot out of the Press: A government minister has warned that inbreeding among immigrants is causing a surge in birth defects - comments likely to spark a new row over the place of Mu.slims in British society.
Phil Woolas, an environment minister, said the culture of arranged marriages between first cousins was the “elephant in the room”. Woolas, a former race relations minister, said: “If you have a child with your cousin the likelihood is there’ll be a genetic problem.”
The minister, whose views were supported by medical experts this weekend, said: “The issue we need to debate is first cousin marriages, whereby a lot of arranged marriages are with first cousins, and that produces lots of genetic problems in terms of disability [in children].”
Woolas emphasised the practice did not extend to all Mu.slim communities but was confined mainly to families originating from rural Pakistan. However, up to half of all marriages within these communities are estimated to involve first cousins.
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Medical research suggests that while British Pakistanis are responsible for 3% of all births, they account for one in three British children born with genetic illnesses. http://www.timesonline.co.uk/tol/news/politics/article3342040.ece |
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davidif (m)
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what a shame.
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davidif (m)
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this thing must be abolished in naija.
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nossycheek (f)
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@ Saha.
Na Lura wasu Jahilay ne kawai. Kuma baasu son su koyi komai. Ni masani ne sosai a Tarihin Nigeria da Duniya don na Karanci History & International Relations a Jaami'a.
Saha da Belotti ina gaiyatar ku zuwa sabon forum da na futo da shi. Arewa Community na kirashi. Na zamu tattauna abubuwa game da arewa da kasarmu Nigeria.
God ya baamu sa'a.
I hope you have been able to fathom why the northern muslims marry 1st cousins from your Arewa Community Forum. Can we have the answers now? |
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