Is Virginity In Men Appreciated?

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tony4k (m)
Is Virginity In Men Appreciated?
« on: June 15, 2005, 02:19 PM »

The word virgin has always be associated with females. This topic must be well discussed and our female counterpart should let us know if chaste men in other words male virgin are apprecited by them.

From my personal interactions with friends and peers, I realise , there are more  male virgins than there are females these days but society has totally gone oblivious of the fact that encouraging males to stay chaste(virgin) until they marry will preserve many female virgins. Members, what is your take on this? Gals gals, would you like to get a chaste guy as your partner?
whizkid (f)
Re: Is Virginity In Men Appreciated?
« #1 on: June 15, 2005, 02:36 PM »

What's with this virginity stuff, this is like the third topic about virginity, why the repetition? It don't matter, Virgins and non-virgins end up marrying a virgin or a non-virgin, your choice, as you like it.
jummy79 (f)
Re: Is Virginity In Men Appreciated?
« #2 on: June 15, 2005, 10:42 PM »

I intend to remain a virgin before marriage and I think it would be quite neat to experience our first time together (ie if the male was also a virgin).  I have my doubts that there are more male virgins than female virgins but it's good to know that my plan is not as rare as it is made out to be.

Male virginity is generally not something that is respected or revered, at least in Canada.
razor (m)
Re: Is Virginity In Men Appreciated?
« #3 on: June 16, 2005, 07:13 AM »

"Male virgin", l thought that has gone into extinction. Who cares these days if you are a vigin not to talk of it being appreciated. Virginity male or female means lack of sexual experience, good for some, bad for me.
Allenpowered (m)
Re: Is Virginity In Men Appreciated?
« #4 on: June 16, 2005, 08:44 AM »

ask tayotina and mosiate...they'll have answers
mosiate (f)
Re: Is Virginity In Men Appreciated?
« #5 on: June 16, 2005, 09:23 AM »

Quote from: Allenpowered on June 16, 2005, 08:44 AM
ask tayotina and mosiate...they'll have answers
Allen, how do you mean?  It's like you've forgotten to include Pinky coz she's part of us.

Anyway for the answer I think, no, men do not appreciate virgins (people like jogego and even allen himself) but who cares, since we still have people like Seun I'm always rest assured of getting married to guy of choice.
sade (f)
Re: Is Virginity In Men Appreciated?
« #6 on: June 16, 2005, 02:07 PM »

  E oga gan o..so this issue of virgin or non-virgin has not stopped.Though the part of the forum is titiled "Romance" but I think there are more things into relationship,marriage and romance than this vrigin of a thing,.,aabeegggiii can you give a new topic apart from virin issue
  Any way I will still contribute,to be frank I dont think I can marry a chaste man or let me say a virgin as everyone calls it.All these issue about virgins or non-virgins are personal so it depends on indidvidual choice..Pls nairalanders hope we'll get a new topic soon.E be like say all these topic don tire me o!!
tayotina (f)
Re: Is Virginity In Men Appreciated?
« #7 on: June 16, 2005, 03:16 PM »

Male virginity is the same as lack of experience.  Can't date one not to even talk of settling down with such a man.
legs (f)
Re: Is Virginity In Men Appreciated?
« #8 on: June 16, 2005, 03:46 PM »

Come on Tayotine, surely "experience" has got to denote more than whether he not he has [been sexually active]., What's between his ears should count more, even if anyone is so inclined.

As I gather, it's now necessarily how long the equipment has been in use.  I've been told that a guy who has had lots of practice can still be more inadequate than a guy who has had none but is simply satisfied with making you happy.

In any case whether na man or woman loss of virginity outside marriage imputes fornication and we all know what God has got to say about that.
tayotina (f)
Re: Is Virginity In Men Appreciated?
« #9 on: June 16, 2005, 04:33 PM »

Hey guys sorry bout that.  But you know your JTs are weapons of mass destruction, just like some machines.  Tongue
casper (m)
Re: Is Virginity In Men Appreciated?
« #10 on: June 16, 2005, 05:14 PM »

hey who says they are for mass detruction Angry they are weapons of mass PRODUCTION get that  Wink Cool.

BE VERY CAREFUL HOW YOU TALK OF THEM ELDERS OOOOO
legs (f)
Re: Is Virginity In Men Appreciated?
« #11 on: June 16, 2005, 05:21 PM »

what about a machine that has been badly processed even if its been in use its still badly processed; wouldn't a newer one be better?; and going by your analogy it would simply state that the old machines would have become rusty, and the new untouched ones - more functional, dont you think?
tayotina (f)
Re: Is Virginity In Men Appreciated?
« #12 on: June 16, 2005, 05:49 PM »

Legs it's rather the opposite in this case.  When you grease and lubricate them often, the machines work better.  But when you lock them up for years and bring them out one day for lubrication, they might not even respond.
legs (f)
Re: Is Virginity In Men Appreciated?
« #13 on: June 16, 2005, 05:59 PM »

lol but thats my point.. if it has not been in use then its better than one that needs servicing
tayotina (f)
Re: Is Virginity In Men Appreciated?
« #14 on: June 16, 2005, 06:04 PM »

Legs, I would rather go in for that machine that has always been in use than that which is yet to be used.  Case ClosedTongue
Seun (m)
Re: Is Virginity In Men Appreciated?
« #15 on: June 17, 2005, 01:32 AM »

Tayotina, you're being a 'clawn' on this thread Tongue.  It's entertaining, keep it up!
tayotina (f)
Re: Is Virginity In Men Appreciated?
« #16 on: June 17, 2005, 09:16 AM »

Seun, I am being a clown for speaking my mind out abi? Ok, maybe I should start pretending then.  Tongue
Angelgal (f)
Re: Is Virginity In Men Appreciated?
« #17 on: June 17, 2005, 10:49 AM »

LOL!!!!! Oh my goodness.....Tayotina, you will not kill me oo...but you've got a point gal.

So I just wanna know....does size really matter or it is prowess that really counts?

Bet I'm stirring a hornet's nest....but hey that's what makes this forum fun and interesting....

Oya..legry, allenpowered, mamba and co... fire!
legs (f)
Re: Is Virginity In Men Appreciated?
« #18 on: June 17, 2005, 11:02 AM »

Even though i am slightly sceptical, this is definitely something to spark your curiousity - so mamba; legry, jogego, vieira, allen & co abeg declare. Your claims may be better accepted if supported by adequate, justifiable and believable statistics
love4ever (f)
Re: Is Virginity In Men Appreciated?
« #19 on: June 17, 2005, 02:18 PM »

hey i do not wat yopu are saying please
Vieira (m)
Re: Is Virginity In Men Appreciated?
« #20 on: June 17, 2005, 02:37 PM »

most male virgins that I know is not out of choice but due to lack of a willing partner or due to their excess wowoness
tayotina (f)
Re: Is Virginity In Men Appreciated?
« #21 on: June 17, 2005, 02:43 PM »

Angelgal, the size matters oh. You can imagine a pencil in a coke bottleGrin.  At the same time the man must have the skills and ability.
love4ever (f)
Re: Is Virginity In Men Appreciated?
« #22 on: June 17, 2005, 02:47 PM »

 oh i get it hey i would not mind how ever he is
Angelgal (f)
Re: Is Virginity In Men Appreciated?
« #23 on: June 17, 2005, 04:09 PM »

Grin Grin Grin Grin

I'm going to have to borrow Pinky's favourite phrase here (Or is it Legs that normally uses it?) I am rolling on the floor with laughter.  Tayotin!  Your comparisons are hilarous, girl!  Pencil in a coke bottle.  Wow!

So what have the guys got to say? I noticed Viera slyly ignored the question, including all the able Nairaland dudes that tend to shoot their mouth off when it seems that the women have one up against them.  Including those that have refused to share their wisdom with us with regard to educating us on who is a player or not.

Thou knowest thyselves ... come hither and defend your manhood ... err, yourselves!  Wink
legs (f)
Re: Is Virginity In Men Appreciated?
« #24 on: June 17, 2005, 04:17 PM »

i think i borrowed it from pinky; plus it may take a lot more than that to draw the guys out or maybe we should just accept the fact that it takes a simple direct question at the guys to cow them into silence and submission...
mamba (m)
Re: Is Virginity In Men Appreciated?
« #25 on: June 18, 2005, 10:06 AM »

Is virginity in men appreciated?

The answer is capital "NO" cos there's no way you can prove that he's a virgin unlike women that have to break their hymen.

A man that's been having sex all his life can claim he's a virgin and go free with his claims because there's no way you can find out if he's lying so I guess it's baseless talking about male virginity (IMO)

As for you gals talkin bout 'joysticks' being in use or yet to be used, I can confidently tell you that the more use it gets, the sweeter it gets.

I remember 10years ago when I first had sex, it was horrible. but now, I have to turn the radio volume to max to prevent everyone in da house from hearing screams and moans coming from my room whenever my chick's around.

About the "pencil' and 'coke' stuff, I bet size does matter but what good is a coke that can't give multiple orgasm........
Pinky (f)
Re: Is Virginity In Men Appreciated?
« #26 on: June 18, 2005, 12:39 PM »

Quote from: mosiate on June 16, 2005, 09:23 AM
]Allen, how do you mean?  It's like you've forgotten to include Pinky coz she's part of us.
hahah mossy girl... ye any day am part of u two.. its TAYO, PINKY, MOSIATE ALL THE WAY
Pinky (f)
Re: Is Virginity In Men Appreciated?
« #27 on: June 18, 2005, 12:50 PM »

i wonder where i have been.. am just coming across this topic... na wa 4 me o!
anyway as for me, ther's no way i would want to marry nor date any male virgin...let me remain a virgin for the non-virgin male o!!. why would i wanna marry some1 who's not done it b4.. i need an experienced person o!! who will give it to me just d right way & who will compensate all my waiting !!
fricksy (m)
Re: Is Virginity In Men Appreciated?
« #28 on: June 19, 2005, 03:45 PM »

From my own perspective, it is not, because it makes me see the guy as a non-sexual person who cannot really satisfy a lady now or even when he gets married. Kiss
Greatpeter (m)
Re: Is Virginity In Men Appreciated?
« #29 on: June 24, 2005, 03:56 PM »

How will you know whether a man is virgin or not?
So it can't be appreciated since there is no way you can verify that.
You appreciate what you know.
But that of females is appreciated.
pkrix (m)
Re: Is Virginity In Men Appreciated?
« #30 on: June 26, 2005, 02:56 PM »

Quote from: tayotina on June 16, 2005, 03:16 PM
Male virginity is the same as lack of experience.  Can't date one not to even talk of settling down with such a man.

Everything that has advantage has disadvantage.

Male "virginity" state keeps the guy vibrant though inexperience when you, Tayotina marries him but his "disvirgined" state makes him less vibrant though with experience.
klex (m)
Re: Is Virginity In Men Appreciated?
« #31 on: June 27, 2005, 04:14 PM »

Whoa, girls, what's with all this friskiness?  Thinking you've got us men on the run?  Can't ever happen.

Really, people, it is a really beautiful experience where for the first time in their lives, two people discover what the others' gender looks like in the buff (no sex before marriage please).  Experience doesn't really matter.  Heck, neither does size (well that is except the guy falls within either of the extremes of the size scale).

Speaking for myself I will not want to be in the unenviable position of being the neophyte in bed with the expert, we are either both jugunus or am the jugunu, but if you're a fast learner like me, well the tables will be turned in no time. 

And of course, it helps to have the right "equipment" for the job.  Oh, and ladies, regarding the coke bottle metaphor: sometimes the width is not any more than a sharpener, so every man get im power anywhere (including pencil brother).  It's up to him to search 4 it, hopefully he wont die of yabis or AIDS while in pursuit.  Besides ladies, be a little more creative, after all we have so many other parts of us that we can use to rock your world Grin.

If you ask me the important thing is [not size but] skill and disposition towards providing pleasure to the woman. Wink
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