Being Big, Is It A Crime?

My dear if you are fat, what will I now tell myself? When I was back home compared to now I was like gbonga!! But people were still calling me fattibombo then! Quite frankly even if I lose an obscene amount of weight I never want to be where I back then because I seriously lacked self esteem and HATED the way I looked. Honey do you. Carry yourself gracefully, continue being a beautiful black queen, keep your eyes open for when that special person comes and you have no qualms. The way I see it being on the plumper side means we get the added advantage of weeding out the guys just in it for the kpanshing activity and keep the ones who truly are interested in what you have in your heart and in your head. If being plumper helps me separate the weeds from the flowers the better for me.