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worm (f)
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Before i even finish warming up for it, he will just lie there like death. Enough foreplay, no denying that but Baybee need enough penefration to come if u knw wot i mean,
AND I'm not comfprtable with this cheating stuff. I tried to let him knw but,
Please help!!!
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IBDat (m)
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lol - let me comport myself i'll be bk!
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harassed (m)
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HI Worm, The first thing I did when I saw your post was check at your profile. YOu really has got a cute ass there (if that's yours). If your man can't fcuk you well enough, please let me have a chance. If I don't introduce you to 'rova' ( I mean redefine extasy for you), then am nuts. I've got an above-average size dikc (both in length and girth) and I can damn sure work the muthafucka! I really hate when I hear ladies cry out like this. It's so nice I came at your post. And how could no one else have offered to help? Please please please, give me your contacts, send them to afchike@yahoo.comPlease. |
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harassed (m)
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IBDAT, your signature is wack. Sorry to say.
Do what unto others if I may ask?
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IBDat (m)
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@Worm apologise about before. In all seriousness if u do like the man and want to stay with him there are a number of options u can embark on:
- Restrictive (cork) rings - these goes to the bottom, around the girth of his privates - designed to trap the blood in the privates after orgasm so he can still continue.
- Creams/spray/lotions - sorry not too vast on these ones, but they are designed to limit the sensation and enjoyment - can proof to be a turn off for both parties.
- PILLS - including viagra
- Excersises - he masturbates to the point he feels like ejaculating and then stops (NOT ejaculating), and again and again (NOT ejaculating)
For non medical methods:
- Mak him buss the first time as u ave planned it in give him a few minutes and arouse him again - he should last longer this time around.
- Ogogoro! not Gulder or Stout but Brandy and serious liquors
Yeah nice ass in all seriousness!
@harassed - "Small minds are much distressed by little things. Great minds see them all but are not upset by them" don't ask me stupid questions, try an stretch your limited mind as far as it goes and the answers are countless - get it? Yo own signature says it all about u, u're obviously in need of psychological help - By the way that picture no dey do justice o.
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harassed (m)
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@IBDat - The Good Book says 'Do unto others as you want to them to do unto you'. And you are turning it upside down. And who made that your quote? And what pic were u talking about, mine?
@IBDat - Of course, I'm harassedtodeath, but I stay on top of it all!
@Worm - Forget all those medical crap. Your guy is sick. Holla at a Mack like me and we Smack that pussy till it gets Sore! Holla!
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IBDat (m)
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@harassed - playa slo yo row - i am quite aware of what the good book says. Nobody made it my quote it's just a state of mind, being weary - not mean't to be taken literaly.
- harassed to death and u staying on top of it is an oxymoron.
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cute-ass (f)
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@ ibdat i like serious minded people like you, this is the second time i'm coming across your posts and you always make so much sense, trying to help and staright to the point unlike some people we have here@ harrassed you should be ashamed of yourself . . look at the crap you're writing  |
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Omo Eko (f)
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@ ibdat
i like serious minded people like you, thuis is the second time i'm coming across your post and you always make so much sense, trying to help and staright to the point unlike some people we have here
well sweetie is a professor  and educated unlike the other jobless useless people on NL @ harrassed you should be ashamed of yourself . . look at the crap you're writing too much morons on NL  |
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edygirl (f)
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It's either he learns how to control himself or you get rid of him.
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IBDat (m)
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@harassed - u really r livin upto yo name.
Thanks ladies!
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igbonla (m)
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This is a sensitive issue, handle it carefully with your man and it will be history. Is the guy under pressure of any kind? Work, finance, performance in bed, etc?
IBDat gave some advice that you guys can use but take it easy with ogogoro! You could also try some positions that help slow the guy down for more fun for both of you (chair position or whatever it's called, the guy sits while you sit facing the guy). Can't give so much details here.
I expect your man to cooperate and not be selfish in working this out! If a guys comes before the woman, he must keep working it till the woman is ok!
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cute-ass (f)
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in addition to what our sex professor IBDat had to say:well this was what i said to someone else on this forum, so i'm just quoting myself lolTests have it that 3 out of 5 guys ejaculate quicker than necessary due to the mental status. What i'm trying to say is that atimes the problem lies in your head. Many such cases have been healed/treated by just trying to relax while having sex, don't all aroused and tensed up because then your body won't be able to stop it coming. Try to think of your partner and the pleasure you guys are sharing, focus your mind on the act and not the outcome. I know of a friend that gets her boyfriend coming in one minute if she's in a hurry but that same guy of hers can hold out for five minutes. Its all upstairs, control your upstairs and your upstairs will do the work of controlling the downstairs read the story of this guy and understand what i'm talking about  http://www.herballove.com/article.asp?Art=438and this page below might have the slution to his problem, visit and smile http://verden.abcsok.no/index.html?q=prevent%20fast%20ejaculation&cs=latin1
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samsilo (m)
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Edygirl please change that attitude,Cute-ass and IBdat have got it covered. These days i feel sad when women say a man cannot perform , either comming too soon or finding it hard to get it up.
1.most major problem is in the mind .Most guys find the first time they had sex was a minute or less ,some come before full penetration.But with experience you can hold out for 30mins or more. However anxiety especially worsened by a woman bad mouthing a guy can wreck his confidence and over time he may become useless in bed.
2. In these days of science I would say don,t stress yourselves .Go the viagra way till he learns to do without it,believe me with support he won't need it for too many times when confidence builds up.
3 .Next best would be the sensation numbing sprays as over excitement is often a problem PROCOMIL Spray is a good one.
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davidylan (m)
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- Excersises - he masturbates to the point he feels like ejaculating and then stops (NOT ejaculating), and again and again (NOT ejaculating)
They don't work. It will probably make things worse. Once you get used to masturbation u will gradually lose the desire for the real thing. Go the viagra way till he learns to do without it,believe me with support he won't need it for too many times when confidence builds up.
Bad advice, once you are hooked on a drug to perform a time will come when you wont even be able to do 2 secs without viagra. Try so hard to work without the drugs for now. your guy is probably too young to start on drugs. |
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IBDat (m)
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@worm - U've gotten some great advises here (normally i de charged for them o!). It is a state of mind and i'm assuming this relationship is new, if so with time you will both learn to understand eachother better (sexually) and the guy will in time develop the ability to last longer and control his ecitement (-personally i blame with a back-off like that-). Also u can try squeezing the shft of his privates before ejaculation as well. These are experimental methods: what works for one person doesn't necessarily work for the other - what is the most proven method out of all these is the mastubation/foreplay to point he ejaculates and then starting again, obviously will require patience on yo part and unselfishness on his. Good luck. @cute-ass - u've got jokes! |
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LuUmBiOn2 (m)
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@cute-ass & omo eko
you too seem to flock together. Always criticising and pointing out people's mistakes.
Bottom line: you girls should grow up. Learn to accept humans the way they're.
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cute-ass (f)
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@cute-ass & omo eko
you too seem to flock together. Always criticising and pointing out people's mistakes.
Bottom line: you girls should grow up. Learn to accept humans the way they're.
and who said we don't accept human beings the way they are, see me see trouble. Well if your eyes weren't decievibg you, you'll see that the guy harassed left the topic, and the fact that the poster of the topic was asking for help in her relationship and started making fun of the whole thing i don't judge people ooh, but n don't respect those who don't respect themselves. But i guess you only read titles of threads and make your decisions, right?? Now please next time get your facts straight and criticize the enemy of peace and not the other way round between if you're still mad over my honesty on your thread, don't worry it wont happen a gain because i see you only appreciate those who blow your trumpet the way you want it blown not minding if you're being served the truth or not |
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Omo Eko (f)
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@cute-ass & omo eko
you too seem to flock together. Always criticising and pointing out people's mistakes.
Bottom line: you girls should grow up. Learn to accept humans the way they're.
Are u okay at all, why is it everytime we comments, you always find something wrong with it. Please define criticising for me You need to grow up and stop tailing us around the thread and get a freaking life. You left this comment on the thread stating I can't believe cute-ass and Omo eko are on this thread. These girls are so unpredictable http://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-46738.0.html. This is a forum and i can write whatever i want to And if you don't like what i wrote then fcuk off . ATTENTION SEEKER |
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LuUmBiOn2 (m)
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@cute-ass
I think you make some sense.
@omo eko
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LuUmBiOn2 (m)
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@cute-ass
you seem to get my point.
@omo eko
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4 Play (m)
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Why should women expect a man to last more than 2 minutes?That is 120 seconds  Imagine counting from 1 to 120 While you are busy working hard,she is there moaning and screaming "faster"!am thinking-"how much faster do you want me to go?  Bloody hell!These women want to get us killed. Do you know how many men have died in the act?It is part of the reason why we have a shorter life expectancy We men should say no to this act of exploitation.Women have no entitlement to be served longer bouts of sex while they are there moaning away."Faster" indeed!If 2 mins ain't fast enough,maybe 1 minute might be. |
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Omo Eko (f)
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Why should women expect a man to last more than 2 minutes?That is 120 seconds Imagine counting from 1 to 120 While you are busy working hard,she is there moaning and screaming "faster"!am thinking-"how much faster do you want me to go? Bloody hell!These women want to get us killed. Do you know how many men have died in the act?It is part of the reason why we have a shorter life expectancy We men should say no to this act of exploitation.Women have no entitlement to be served longer bouts of sex while they are there moaning away."Faster" indeed!If 2 mins ain't fast enough,maybe 1 minute might be. Just because you are a 2min man doesn't mean all guys are like that. I know guys that can go for at least 35min straight |
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debosky (m)
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viagralized/burantashied men omo eko were you timing them when they were on top of you Why should women expect a man to last more than 2 minutes?That is 120 seconds Imagine counting from 1 to 120 While you are busy working hard,she is there moaning and screaming "faster"!am thinking-"how much faster do you want me to go? Bloody hell!These women want to get us killed. Do you know how many men have died in the act?It is part of the reason why we have a shorter life expectancy We men should say no to this act of exploitation.Women have no entitlement to be served longer bouts of sex while they are there moaning away."Faster" indeed!If 2 mins ain't fast enough,maybe 1 minute might be. well spoken by a self confessed 2 minute man. |
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LuUmBiOn2 (m)
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@omo eko
there you go again.
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IBDat (m)
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@Omo Eko - i think LuUmBiOn2 likes u |
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edygirl (f)
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@samsilo,
I am sorry, I can't change that attitude. It's either you know what you are doing or you don't. Some of you are so selfish that you care less about your partners. You can say that again because you seem not to understand what it means to turn somebody on just for you to hang the person up. I just can't stand any two minute guy nor any 1hr guy that doesn't know how what he is doing, It is not left for me to teach him how not to be a two min guy.
Anyways that's my opinion and you've got no right to question it.
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