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tosin.tunj
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Hi Everyone, I 'd like us to pour out our opinion why we think people cheat on their partners
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monshege
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1. because they cant help it 2. because they are trying to be devious 3. because they think its the "It" thing 4. because it was agreed between the two parties 5. because its in their nature to cheat 6. because,  |
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tosin.tunj
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People who cheat on their spouse I think are not strong will people , they lack self control and do not believe in God.
They are Oliver twist in Nature and they forget that life has taught that you can never get all you want at same time ,even economics did too.
My suggestion and advice to all that cheat is to stop and talk to themselves , make up their mind and all see and visualize the uninteresting part of their adventure. So they can have a happy home, happy children , raised in happy atmosphere , if not they will pay . Nemesis will catch up, hence my regret when you can change now.
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iice (f)
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Because they are not satisfied
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sammyjl (f)
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For pleasure and to taste something else, I mean come on, we cant always be eating the same fruit.
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angelchi (f)
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ppl cheat 4 so many reasons so, where do u wan me 2 start frm? e no get count jus do your tin.
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lukmond
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people cheat because they are bored with their partners.
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BABEELOVE (f)
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Sorry, can't be avoided! Too much to do out there!  Sampling is good! The loved one can stay home sometimes!  |
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Queen K (f)
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becos they are greedy, nasty, heartless human being and they don't have respect for themselve n the partner.shameless pple, have no fair n respect 4 god
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omoge25 (f)
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they might want to try something else, you know when your relationship gets too monotous, you know what the other person will do before they do it and you just want to see if there is anything else out there for you, BUT you dont want to be a grownup and end the first relationship instead you just want to have your cake and eat it too by cheating. but mostly what Queen K said  |
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yimiton (f)
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People cheat in relationships for different reasons, but it all boils down to one thing, dissatisfaction.
An individual goes into a relationship without really knowing his partner, then, he discovered that she's totally different from whom he thought she was but he finds it difficult to break up even though he realizes he's actually not in love with her doesn't want to hurt her feelings. or she doesn't possess the qualities he's looking for in a woman afterall.
Then, he keeps her but keeps floating around to see if he'll eventually get that lady his mind is after.
Another factor is that he may not want to leave her because he feels insecure. He needs someone else but afraid to loose what he already has in case he doesn't readily find that someone.
Then, there's pure indiscipline, some plp just can't stay with a single partner.
Note: 'He' could be a male or female here as well as 'she' could be the male.
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bolseas
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:ovariety is d spice of life |
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Easybaby (f)
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I don't know! . . .me and my man don't cheat each other! 
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uchetobi (f)
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becomes sometimes feelings you cant help but feel overwhelms you, sometimes for money, sometimes out of boredome, sometimes just for tthe heck of it
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Ralvy (m)
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I don't know 
d'u cheat??
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efuah (f)
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because they are greedy, nasty, heartless human being and they don't have respect for themselve n the partner.shameless people, have no fair n respect 4 god
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marjson (m)
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WHAT DO YOU EXACTLY MEAN BY CHEATING HERE COS I DONT UNDERSTAND, IS LIVING YOUR GAL FOR ANOTHER OR LIVING YOUR BOY FOR ANOTHER A CHEATING, IF IT IS THAT THEN THERE IS NO CHEATING ANYWHERE AFTER ALL EVERYTHING IS RECIPROCAL, THATS WHAT WE CALL CHANGE OF TASTE, IF YOUR GAL LIVE YOU THEN LIFE GOES ON, AND IF YOUR BOY LIVES YOU LIFE GOES ON,  |
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ebony4life (f)
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People cheat because they don't know what they want, and by the time they get themselves entangled in critical situations, they will be looking forr critical rescue! |
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Keziah (f)
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People cheat in relationships for different reasons, but it all boils down to one thing, dissatisfaction.
An individual goes into a relationship without really knowing his partner, then, he discovered that she's totally different from whom he thought she was but he finds it difficult to break up even though he realizes he's actually not in love with her doesn't want to hurt her feelings. or she doesn't possess the qualities he's looking for in a woman afterall.
Then, he keeps her but keeps floating around to see if he'll eventually get that lady his mind is after.
Another factor is that he may not want to leave her because he feels insecure. He needs someone else but afraid to loose what he already has in case he doesn't readily find that someone.
Then, there's pure indiscipline, some plp just can't stay with a single partner.
Note: 'He' could be a male or female here as well as 'she' could be the male.
True talk sis, i absolutely agree with u. But are u talking from expereince sounds like u know it all or being throught |
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CHY84 (f)
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For me it's lack of understanding and maturity, for somebody to leave his/her guy/bebe as the case may be, and decided to do what they called TASTE is nonsense. What about the consequences atleast AIDS, if at all we must have sex why not with our dating partner what does he/ she have that your partner didnot have, we were all created all in the eyes of the LORD.  Sofor me there is no reason at all. It's selfish act. |
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tundewoods (m)
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Because we sometimes get bored watching the same channel on TV so we opt for Cable
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king-jaja (m)
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because they have once been jilted by a girl loved so much and decided to become a full-time state-of-the-art, award winning, adorable relationship cheater, like me |
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CrazyMan (m)
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People cheat because they don't love their partners.
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worldismy (m)
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It is because of greed
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dankmen208 (m)
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RELATIONSHIP IS TECHINCAL, ITZ LIKE A CABLE WITH MAY CHANNEL BUT YOU CANT WATCH MORE THAN ONE CHANNEL FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE. SHOPE BABA |
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dankmen208 (m)
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RELATIONSHIP IS TECHINCAL, ITZ LIKE A CABLE WITH MANY CHANNEL BUT YOU CANT WATCH MORE THAN ONE CHANNEL
FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE.
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amaikama (m)
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Because lust is tempting!! |
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alasoka (m)
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the complexity of the human mind with regards to emotions are tapered to suit as at when due. i dont agree with the notion that humans by virtue of the gift of curiosity should be unfaithful, i think its just indiscipline ; i stand guilty also though. God help us !
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bikokwe (m)
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It all boils down to mans nature.the flesh is sinful n would continue to be n dis is much expressed in mans desire to satisfy himself[which cannot be fully satisfies]his desires even at the detriment of others.Self gratification also has some parts to play n most importantly discilpline which can only be gotten from God.One can love n cheat which is not love biblically .Only the fear of God can keep one from cheatin mostly when u know how to play the game.The knowledge of Gods word,implementation of it even if its attempted,dwellin in his presence seekin his face,consciously livin a righteous n holy life rememberin heaven will curb al help live above it.it is most predominant among the male folks probably cuz of the society will live in[nigeria] where such ladies are referred to as "ashawo" n guys as "na man na, na so dem dey do my sister"MAY GOD HELP US ALL.AMEN
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alasoka (m)
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"it is most predominant among the male folks probably because of the society will live in[nigeria] where such ladies are referred to as "ashawo" n guys as "na man na, na so them dey do my sister""
Haba, i beg to differ. Chaeting does not imply it was/is with an Ashawo, Abeg oooo !!!
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tkb417 (m)
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why do u call it cheating. ok sha. we do what you call cheating because,u will suddenly find ; another tempting offer somewhere. |
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