Why Do People Cheat In Relationships?

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chiegemba (f)
Re: Why Do People Cheat In Relationships?
« #64 on: September 03, 2007, 07:39 AM »

@Topic; "Choice"!!!
sniperwolf (m)
Re: Why Do People Cheat In Relationships?
« #65 on: September 03, 2007, 09:12 AM »

Because they are not programmed to be attracted to one person
infiniti (f)
Re: Why Do People Cheat In Relationships?
« #66 on: September 03, 2007, 11:36 AM »

well,

 i think people cheat 4 various reasons. it cld be dt they do not love their present BF/BG or they don't know what they really feel for him( if it is love or not!).

secondly, i think people cheat because, they don't enjoy sex with their partners( they dnt know what sex is really like with the person) and so they try other people outside and get satisfaction or  prefer the way the person treats them while @ it.

thirdly, i think people cheat because they have fallen out of love with their partner and do not want to end the relationship one way or the other,( because what explanation will they actually tell their parent? esp. after being in it 4 years which/ what  reason?)

4th) people cheat because they feel they didnt meet the person dy r cheating with @ the right time, inother words they would have wanted to meet the person dy r cheating with, before their supposed BF/BG.

5) some people do it because of the fun of it

6) because dir relationship is board.

7) sme people do it because their partners has done it to them before

my people, there are different reasons why people cheat! Angry  Angry  Angry  Lips sealed  Lips sealed  Lips sealed
Everbright (f)
Re: Why Do People Cheat In Relationships?
« #67 on: September 03, 2007, 12:29 PM »

because they are animals Grin
jayvin01
Re: Why Do People Cheat In Relationships?
« #68 on: September 03, 2007, 01:55 PM »

lol, what!, well its good, 'Everbright" it applies to both sexes, (male/female) Grin Grin Grin


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Sirop Miel (f)
Re: Why Do People Cheat In Relationships?
« #69 on: September 03, 2007, 05:08 PM »

maybe because they are just not happy.  If your not making me happy and I've told you what makes me happy and you don't want to change or don't care if i'm not happy then, i'm going to find happiness.  You live this life once and to be miserable for the remainder of it just does not seem right. 
sexsogood
Re: Why Do People Cheat In Relationships?
« #70 on: September 04, 2007, 09:30 AM »

People who cheats in a relationship are not God fearing people. they believe they do it out  fun.
Believe me not no MAN or WOMAN that cheats always regret it after.
May God direct us all.
mayah (f)
Re: Why Do People Cheat In Relationships?
« #71 on: September 04, 2007, 04:38 PM »

cuz dey re not happy anymore wit their partners.
cuz they were never meant 4 eachother.
and sumtimes it culd be a spiritual problem.
BABEELOVE (f)
Re: Why Do People Cheat In Relationships?
« #72 on: September 04, 2007, 04:43 PM »

Quote from: mayah on September 04, 2007, 04:38 PM
because dey re not happy anymore wit their partners.
because they were never meant 4 eachother.
and sumtimes it culd be a spiritual problem.

You still have quite a bit of a "ways" to go!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Total misrepresentation of the factual and realistic!  You are going to be spending a heck of a time in "church" looking for "answers"!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

-------------------------------Sometimes, love just aint enough!!!!
degubi (m)
Re: Why Do People Cheat In Relationships?
« #73 on: September 05, 2007, 07:35 PM »

people cheat because they Choose  to cheat. The weaknesses of others or ourselves is not a criteria for cheating.
detu2 (f)
Re: Why Do People Cheat In Relationships?
« #74 on: September 06, 2007, 10:32 AM »

human nature Wink
mangrados (m)
Re: Why Do People Cheat In Relationships?
« #75 on: September 06, 2007, 10:55 AM »

If any man cheats, sentence him like this.




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waxyweller
Re: Why Do People Cheat In Relationships?
« #76 on: September 06, 2007, 11:56 AM »

tosin.tunj ,  dem cheat U??  abeg its not called cheating , its called fun,nobody is perfect,  some spouse are just freaks,although if we want to be realistic,not every one is romantic and good on bed,so i think everyone is looking for a better partner than can satisfy him or her better ,  but the thing sweet oooh,  Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin  SEEEE ME


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ojoagefu (f)
Re: Why Do People Cheat In Relationships?
« #77 on: September 06, 2007, 12:09 PM »

so many people have different reasons for cheating in their r/ships.their reasons i believe depends on so many things or circumstances around them.some may depend on their family background while m others may depend on their appetite to do silly things.
jamznato
Re: Why Do People Cheat In Relationships?
« #78 on: September 06, 2007, 12:55 PM »

people cheats because so many reasons:
1. If u are exposed to cheating before marraige u will cheat during marraige not matter what

2. If u dont fear God u will cheat and that will destroy u (any man/woman that does that lacks wisdom says the Lord [proverb])

3. lack of understanding in love (both partners have to protect their marriage by nurturing it u tell urselves what u like and appreciate everything done by each other); accepting corrections.

4. lack of Self satisfactory (be contented with what you have) thereby beautifying it so that it will not look boring 2 u.

5. u women u know what your husband wants dont tell me u are a kid so try and do what he like e.g. dressing well, being respectful, etc and he love u  even he can see u outside and thinks is another woman. so he will luv u the more try 2 beat others (f) in your husband's eye he wont leave u

6. Men should do the same.

7. Learn to luv ok.

4rm Jammy (m)
Bosdem (f)
Re: Why Do People Cheat In Relationships?
« #79 on: September 07, 2007, 09:42 AM »

people cheat because of what yoruba call OJUKOKORO ,(greed) simple.
waxyweller
Re: Why Do People Cheat In Relationships?
« #80 on: September 07, 2007, 09:49 AM »

 Huh Huh Huh Thank God i dont have Ojukokoro,  i only have 4 girlfriends and i am satisfied with what i have,,  i dont cheat on them Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Grin Grin Cheesy
fesse (f)
Re: Why Do People Cheat In Relationships?
« #81 on: September 07, 2007, 12:58 PM »

Some people are born cheats. but it is not because my BF is a cheat or what will warrant me to cheat also.
To me the only thing in a relationship is just to be faithful and play your own role in it.
If the two partners loves and understand each other, the possibility of one cheating is equals to zero.
splurge (f)
Re: Why Do People Cheat In Relationships?
« #82 on: September 08, 2007, 10:43 PM »

ds is one issue evry1 is gonna keep turning around n nu resons r made up for ds. personally i fnk cheating's a reflection of one's tru self. pple claim to cheat cuz :
1.they blive variety is d spice of lyf,
2.others r doing it so wots d harm intrying,
3. to test how much he/she really cares,
4. teach your partner a lesson,
5.they r cowards. mayb they r no longer feeling their current relationship n want to cut out but aren't brave enuff to do d right thing.
it all boils down to d fact dt one wouldn't cheat in a relationship if u truly, deeply luv your partner n care abt his/her feelings.
feyisara (m)
Re: Why Do People Cheat In Relationships?
« #83 on: September 09, 2007, 07:47 AM »

people cheat simply because they lack self control, and can not cope with temptation
zabauze (m)
Re: Why Do People Cheat In Relationships?
« #84 on: September 10, 2007, 03:17 AM »

why people cheat  is that it makes the world go round. if you dont cheat, you wont learn to be careful that ' there's no friend and there's no foe' Wink
acidrop (f)
Re: Why Do People Cheat In Relationships?
« #85 on: September 10, 2007, 04:56 AM »

mehn this is your 1st post n c wetin u dey talk
olanajim (m)
Re: Why Do People Cheat In Relationships?
« #86 on: September 10, 2007, 06:16 AM »

Showing his stuff, now. He would meet his match
acidrop (f)
Re: Why Do People Cheat In Relationships?
« #87 on: September 10, 2007, 06:21 AM »

i already  know who that will be Grin
olanajim (m)
Re: Why Do People Cheat In Relationships?
« #88 on: September 10, 2007, 06:25 AM »

Who is that?

By the way, I miss you.
SwtNsoFLyy (f)
Re: Why Do People Cheat In Relationships?
« #89 on: September 10, 2007, 06:55 AM »


I've never cheated on anyone in my life, and just can't understand how someone could bring themselves to cheat on their spouse,,  and even girlfriend /boyfriend,
I know that relationships are not peaches & cream, tho having been cheated on in my past,,  this is the majour fear that possibly keeps me from getting involved and sadly maintaining trust ,  because of that,,  I may have a commitment problem.  At the slightest sign of unfaithfulness now, I become scared like a little girl, and run away from love or the onset of pain,  without even sticking around to give any benefit of doubt.      This is a true ISSUE that I have to tackle all because of CHEATING HEARTS out there. it can be so damaging to some people ,    Undecided   (like me)


love & light,     
 

olanajim (m)
Re: Why Do People Cheat In Relationships?
« #90 on: September 10, 2007, 07:14 AM »

Cheating has a predictable partern. All we need do, both cheater and cheated, is to look out for them. Some people don't set out to cheat. They are tempted and responded. We must all be alert.
ritchboi
Re: Why Do People Cheat In Relationships?
« #91 on: September 10, 2007, 01:02 PM »

Why do pple cheat?
The same reason dogs lick their balls.
BECAUSE THEY CAN!
Librademmy
Re: Why Do People Cheat In Relationships?
« #92 on: September 11, 2007, 10:03 AM »

its a natural thing. why does the word exist in the first place? so that people can experience the meaning, xx
waxyweller
Re: Why Do People Cheat In Relationships?
« #93 on: September 11, 2007, 10:42 AM »

DEMMY ,  U talk sense ,  we are all cheaters excluding U Grin Grin
Librademmy
Re: Why Do People Cheat In Relationships?
« #94 on: September 11, 2007, 11:19 AM »

Excluding me ke? i'm not saying i'm pro at it ooo but trust me, i've been there and done that,
waxyweller
Re: Why Do People Cheat In Relationships?
« #95 on: September 11, 2007, 11:49 AM »

i sure say U don cheat before,  just teasing U,   Grin Grin Grin Grin NOBODY HOLY PASS OOO
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