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Librademmy
Re: Why Do People Cheat In Relationships?
« #96 on: September 11, 2007, 12:16 PM »

i no say nobody holy pass but then, once in a while, its a good way of prooving to the woman that Man shall not live by bread alone, xxx
waxyweller
Re: Why Do People Cheat In Relationships?
« #97 on: September 11, 2007, 12:45 PM »

@LIBRADEMMY
Haaaaaaaaa, i feel U,U be soji girl oh,  lets chat on yahoo messenger,, waxywellerdadon , 
Librademmy
Re: Why Do People Cheat In Relationships?
« #98 on: September 11, 2007, 01:18 PM »

Ashewo,  and who told you that this nigga is a girl? i be correct 9ja dude oooo. Oshamo!!!
waxyweller
Re: Why Do People Cheat In Relationships?
« #99 on: September 11, 2007, 01:37 PM »

Lol,  bad man,  Grin Grin Grin ,  i wan do 1-2 sharp sharp make i finish ya runs,  na God save U say U be man Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin
Librademmy
Re: Why Do People Cheat In Relationships?
« #100 on: September 11, 2007, 01:57 PM »

u wish, 
t200m
Re: Why Do People Cheat In Relationships?
« #101 on: September 12, 2007, 09:05 AM »


    MOST PEOPLE NEVER GET TO MEET THE  PERFECT ONE,AND THEY JUST DECIDE TO IGNORE SOME XTERRISTICS THAT THEY DON`T LIKE ABOUT THE PERSON THEY ARE WITH,BUT WITH TIME ITS JUST INEVITABLE THAT YOU WILL WANT MORE FROM THAT PERSON ,BUT JUST CAN`T GET IT.SO YOU END UP LOOKING SOMEWHERE ELSE.
      THE MAJOR REASON IS;
                                               YOUR SEX LIFE (MOST PEOPLE UNDER ESTIMATE THE POWER OF SEX IN A RELATIONSHIP,BUT THE TRUTH IS THAT SEX IS WHAT BINDS A COUPLE MORE THAT ANY OTHER THING) .

                                                                                   
ibrahiem (m)
Re: Why Do People Cheat In Relationships?
« #102 on: September 12, 2007, 02:40 PM »

we do dat cus we (both sexes) know each other.
ursie (f)
Re: Why Do People Cheat In Relationships?
« #103 on: September 14, 2007, 09:17 AM »

i dont exactly know
all i can say is they'll be thousands of hundred miles away from me. chau
trendy (f)
Re: Why Do People Cheat In Relationships?
« #104 on: September 14, 2007, 10:11 AM »

- for cheating sake
- to feel among
wealthyman (m)
Re: Why Do People Cheat In Relationships?
« #105 on: September 14, 2007, 06:53 PM »


why will a man date that very woman who is suppose 2 be his wife and at the end get married to the one who is suppose to be his girlfriend, some say its a twist of fate but u know what,  i call it,  in ability to c that which is b4 u, dont let false love fool u and dont let true love pass u by.
waxyweller
Re: Why Do People Cheat In Relationships?
« #106 on: September 15, 2007, 08:34 AM »

@WEALTHYMAN
 shut up if U dont know what to say,  MuMu Angry Angry Angry
babadee (m)
Re: Why Do People Cheat In Relationships?
« #107 on: September 17, 2007, 02:03 AM »

Quote from: ursie on September 14, 2007, 09:17 AM
i don't exactly know
all i can say is they'll be thousands of hundred miles away from me. chau

Right on target
kareema
Re: Why Do People Cheat In Relationships?
« #108 on: September 17, 2007, 03:22 PM »

well well well i believe ppl cheat because dey all have d belief that 'my partner may be cheating so i shuld have fun to'.if  deres a bit of trust i think cheating will be avoided.but i believe men r just greedy nd mean.
otome (f)
Re: Why Do People Cheat In Relationships?
« #109 on: September 17, 2007, 04:59 PM »

i guess we are all drawn to  prospect of trying something new, adventurous especially when the euphoria of new found love has diminished into mere routine.
waxyweller
Re: Why Do People Cheat In Relationships?
« #110 on: September 17, 2007, 09:23 PM »

@OTOME

Abeg take am easy with this grammers ooohh
waxyweller
Re: Why Do People Cheat In Relationships?
« #111 on: September 17, 2007, 09:30 PM »

@OTOME

Abeg take am easy with this grammers ooohh
SwtNsoFLyy (f)
Re: Why Do People Cheat In Relationships?
« #112 on: September 17, 2007, 09:42 PM »

@Olanajim,  you said this:

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Cheating has a predictable partern. All we need do, both cheater and cheated, is to look out for them. Some people don't set out to cheat. They are tempted and responded. We must all be alert.

So in a case like this,,  after someone potentially cheated, or shall say cheated. What would you think the 'cheater' will do, and the 'cheated' person should do as a result? Being cheated on hurts,  and Ive been there before, even after forgiving over and over and over again, it didnt make a difference, and it made me depressed despite all the praying i did,

what would your solutions to this be, after the 'fact', ? can't wait to hear your response,    Smiley

love & light,   

Natalia
SwtNsoFLyy (f)
Re: Why Do People Cheat In Relationships?
« #113 on: September 17, 2007, 09:44 PM »

@Olanajim,  you said this:

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Cheating has a predictable partern. All we need do, both cheater and cheated, is to look out for them. Some people don't set out to cheat. They are tempted and responded. We must all be alert.

So in a case like this,, now what. after someone potentially cheated, or shall say 'responded to temptation'. What will (or should) the 'cheater' do, and the 'cheated' person should do as a result to make things right?or the cheated just simply, move on while the 'cheater' deal with the guilt of not able to control giving in to temptation. Does he or she even have a conscious? Being cheated on hurts,  and Ive been there before, even after forgiving over and over and over again, it didnt make a difference, and it made me depressed despite all the praying i did,

what would your solutions to this be, after the 'fact'  to the innocent one, and the guilty one? can't wait to hear your response,    Smiley

love & light,    

Natalia
simplytemi (f)
Re: Why Do People Cheat In Relationships?
« #114 on: September 17, 2007, 10:02 PM »

people cheat in relationships because

1.                  they are lustful
2.                  they lack self-control in this area
3.                  they see it as a pride having an affair with multiple partners.     
chaloo (m)
Re: Why Do People Cheat In Relationships?
« #115 on: September 17, 2007, 10:38 PM »

THE GRASS IS GREENER ON THE OTHER SIDE. 
qululeko (f)
Re: Why Do People Cheat In Relationships?
« #116 on: September 18, 2007, 02:43 PM »

Couples cheat because they are not happy with what the other have to offer.So if you want to keep your man or your lady be prepared to go to the extreme Grin
waxyweller
Re: Why Do People Cheat In Relationships?
« #117 on: September 18, 2007, 02:55 PM »

Hmmm,  i cheap because i am looking for a tyt female orifice and xtra romance Cheesy
Wysiwyg
Re: Why Do People Cheat In Relationships?
« #118 on: September 18, 2007, 07:22 PM »

cheating,now dats d question.men and women cheat for various reasons.men cheat for adventure,to venture into d unknown,and above all because they are insatiable.women cheat mainly for attention to prove to their men that they are still in the game.only few cheat because they view sex as their reason for living. though reasons vary for cheating for each person,dis is my the answer,flora.
mikkyphp (m)
Re: Why Do People Cheat In Relationships?
« #119 on: September 26, 2007, 04:19 PM »

Basically people who cheat are just plain "ojukokoro"! if they're aren't satisfied with what they've got, just let the poor boy/girl go so you'd be informally-legally free(its an unwritten law for lovers not married) to play around. they're holding up to sth while wanting to play away games. too bad. Sad
AMWAQ (m)
Re: Why Do People Cheat In Relationships?
« #120 on: September 27, 2007, 11:06 AM »

People cheat from their partners due to a lot of reasons.  Wink Believe it or not, there are some really good reasons why people would cheat.  Cool Never the less, still, cheating is morally wrong.  People might cheat because of temptation.  Grin People might cheat because of inadequacy. Lips sealed  People might cheat because of really stupid reasons like peer pressure. Huh  And there are some who does it just for the thrill of it. Shocked There are a million reasons why people cheat. It is really painful for the one being cheated, but somehow this is how the world is. Undecided sad to say.
poeticsoul
Re: Why Do People Cheat In Relationships?
« #121 on: September 27, 2007, 01:41 PM »

there is no need to romanticise the issue o. let us leave sentiments from it and address the issue, firstly what is cheating? are u guys saying that once u are going out with someone u shuld blank your mind to all others ,get real, there aint no cheating till the ring is on, and seeing as the lot of ya are still single, it doesnt apply to u.we have all cheated one time or the other, whether u admit it or not. the way i see it some goody goodies are just tripping because they got bitten in the behind by their past actions.
        take a cue from my friend, she says "when he or she is with u, they are urs", otherwise free your mind or u will die of anxiety n suspicious". so mark my words "free your minds", because in the end love is all that matters rite.
mydynasty (m)
Re: Why Do People Cheat In Relationships?
« #122 on: September 28, 2007, 05:01 PM »



  For variety of course! Variety it is said, is the spice of life! Cheesy Grin Cheesy
mydynasty (m)
Re: Why Do People Cheat In Relationships?
« #123 on: September 28, 2007, 05:06 PM »



  Simplytemi,

  True talk! Quite agree with you.
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