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goddas (f)
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Now the question i would like to ask is: how do men veiw women who are liberal and adventerous in bed? Please speak your mind and don't hold any punches. i mean when a girl freely gives you a blow job do you look at her as though she is a slut?
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Omo Eko (f)
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Why don't u start by telling us your own opinion since u are a girl  |
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goddas (f)
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well omo eko. i am from a different world and that is why i ask the question because i would like to learn from a different point of veiw. i don't want to give my opinion yet because i would like people to feel free to express themselves.
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alabiyemmy (m)
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if a guy licks you, what do you think of him?
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goddas (f)
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WELL I AM NOT ONE OF THOSE GIRLS WHO HAVE TO HAVE IT. I HAVE FRIENDS WHO WONT DATE A GUY IF HE DOESN'T DO IT. I MEAN ITS ALWAYS NICE TO HAVE IF A GUY KNOWS WHAT HE IS DOING. I DON'T LOOK DOWN ON MEN WHO "EAT" ESP THOSE WHO ARE IN A COMMITTED RELATIONSHIP. SEX CAN BE A BEAUTIFUL EXPRESSION OF LOVE. I LIKE TO BE FREE. I LIKE TO WISPER IN MY BOYFRIENDS EAR DURING LOVE MAKING. I LIKE TO TELL HIM HOW HE IS MAKING ME FEEL. IF WE ARE ALONE I LIKE TO YELL. I LOVE DIFFERENT POSITIONS: DOGGY STYLE, WOMAN ON TOP, WHEEL BARREL, IF ITS OUT THERE I'LL TRY IT. ALL THIS BEING SAID ANYONE WHO KNOWS ME CAN VOUGE THAT I AM NOT A PROMISCUOUS PERSON.
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MRdazzle (m)
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@Goddas- You go gir!!!!!!!!!!
From what I know, some gurls would not give a guy a blow job for the fear of being called a SLUT. That is not to say that they do NOT know what a blow job is. Obviously most gurls can do it and some love doing it but its hard to know how a guy would feel about it . Some girls prefer to do it as an alternative to SEX. Well, I guess i'm rambling already. Anyway, To answer your question, I do NOT consider a girl a SLUT over a blow job. I hope that helps.
One last thing, What would you consider a guy who licks pussy? How does that sound to you? Disgusting? Yummy?
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alabiyemmy (m)
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WELL I AM NOT ONE OF THOSE GIRLS WHO HAVE TO HAVE IT. I HAVE FRIENDS WHO WONT DATE A GUY IF HE DOESN'T DO IT. I MEAN ITS ALWAYS NICE TO HAVE IF A GUY KNOWS WHAT HE IS DOING. I DON'T LOOK DOWN ON MEN WHO "EAT" ESP THOSE WHO ARE IN A COMMITTED RELATIONSHIP. SEX CAN BE A BEAUTIFUL EXPRESSION OF LOVE. I LIKE TO BE FREE. I LIKE TO WISPER IN MY BOYFRIENDS EAR DURING LOVE MAKING. I LIKE TO TELL HIM HOW HE IS MAKING ME FEEL. IF WE ARE ALONE I LIKE TO YELL. I LOVE DIFFERENT POSITIONS: DOGGY STYLE, WOMAN ON TOP, WHEEL BARREL, IF ITS OUT THERE I'LL TRY IT. ALL THIS BEING SAID ANYONE WHO KNOWS ME CAN VOUGE THAT I AM NOT A PROMISCUOUS PERSON.
You have answered your own question - I will suggest thread closed. |
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IBDat (m)
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You have answered your own question - I will suggest thread closed.
LOL Personally i love a girl to b free, high sex drive and adventurous in the bedroom, kitchen, living room, back seat of my car, cinema, anywhere n anytime - because i too am a freak (i seem to be digressing here). Giving blowjobs is a prerequisite, if you don't know hw i can teach u, different positions comes as standard and possibly threesomes (2 women 1 man!). So NO she is not a slut, just very pleasing! |
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Omo Eko (f)
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If the dude is not her fcuk buddy or boyfriend then she's a slut.
Y will u give a blowjob to just a regularly guy and i don't care if he ate her out.
Trust me all this naija guys saying she isn't a slut are all lying their asses off.
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funmibabe (f)
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Now that's a good question i have been wondering the same thing all this time. Guys please give an honest answer
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Omo Eko (f)
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Now that's a good question i have been wondering the same thing all this time. Guys please give an honest answer
there is nothing like been honest when u are dealing with naija guys, all that comes out of their mouth are liesssssssss upon liessssssssssss  |
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GNature (m)
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Absolutely not ! Why think of a girl as a slut when she is trying to please her man ? As long as she is monogamous, she is fine with me. These are my tips to you ladies regarding giving BJ: 1. Make sure the guy is into you. Don't say "I'll do it so he'll like me" Do it because "he likes you" 2. Try and avoid immature guys. Rather than appreciating a girl willing to please them, immature guys might go bragging to their friends about you. Hope this helps |
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Omo Eko (f)
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Absolutely not ! Why think of a girl as a slut when she is trying to please her man ? As long as she is monogamous, she is fine with me.
offcourse there is no see in giving your man some blowjobs These are my tips to you ladies regarding giving BJ:
1. Make sure the guy is into you. Don't say "I'll do it so he'll like me" Do it because "he likes you"
if she does that, then is been slutty. But have see white gurls that gives straight head to strangers at parties in school but they call it (making out) and that there is nothing wrong in doing it. 2. Try and avoid immature guys. Rather than appreciating a girl willing to please them, immature guys might go bragging to their friends about you. 98.2% of naija guys are immature, so what are u talking about. Niaja guys just love to brag about things that all. You guys don't appreciate this girls at all |
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MRdazzle (m)
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@ Omo Eko,
Why are you being so hard on Naija guys? I have been online for 3hours and 57 minutes ( I have read alot of your posts already) How can you say 98.2% of Naija guys are immature? How did you come up with that figure? How many dates have you had so far? Is there something you would like to let us know about your last relationship with a Naija guy? Let me guess it went really bad? How bad was it? I don't mean to sound rude but there is something about you that I don't understand. Here is a shortcut: I think you sounded mean in some of your posts.
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GNature (m)
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98.2% of naija guys are immature, so what are u talking about.
Omo eko, could you please tell us how you came about this huge number ? Only 1.2 % of naija guys are mature ? LMAO  |
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Omo Eko (f)
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@ Omo Eko,
Why are you being so hard on Naija guys?
I don't think am hard on Naija Guys but your laying down the facts(people hate to hear the truth with it hurts)  I have been online for 3hours and 57 minutes
wow  don't want to sound rude oh but don't u have something better to do than waste your time on Nairaland ( I have read alot of your posts already)
damn na wa oooooooo, so what intrest do u have in my posting that you are read them , i guess am special then  How can you say 98.2% of Naija guys are immature?
I did my research then i came to conclusion that 98.2% are immature brats not even guys. How did you come up with that figure?
I did a survey that was how i got my conclusion How many dates have you had so far?
how many guys I've dated has nothing to do with with my decisions about how childish all Naija guys are Is there something you would like to let us know about your last relationship with a Naija guy?
Naija guys are crap, trash, fools. They have no brain, they are senseless. They think from their dicks.(And plz have witness a lot of things from other peoples relationship that dates naija guys) But none of them (Naija guys) ever had a chance to break my heart since my heart is hard like a rock Let me guess it went really bad?
Nope, I was always in control, so the relationship was smooth like a baby skin How bad was it?
nothing was bad in my relationship Moreover you don't expect everything to be sweet in a relationship, sometimes they are ups and down in every relationship. I don't mean to sound rude but there is something about you that I don't understand.
And i don't expect you to understand me either or anybody else on Nairaland that why Omo Eko, there is no one exactly lime me, everything that comes out of me is authentically mine because i alone chose it Here is a shortcut: I think you sounded mean in some of your posts.
Well i can't help, especially if am speaking the truth |
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Omo Eko (f)
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Omo eko, could you please tell us how you came about this huge number ? Only 1.2 % of naija guys are mature LMAO I did my research then i came to conclusion that 98.2% are immature brats not even guys. |
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goddas (f)
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omo eko you have opened my eyes girl thanks!
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Omo Eko (f)
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omo eko you have opened my eyes girl thanks!
U are welcome , don't mind all this yeye boy claiming to be matured guys. I know what females have gone through with all this Naija guys. After they are done sleeping this is girls and getting blowjob, they go back to their friends bragging about how she can give head or how wack she was. calling her slut, hoes and another names was than that. 95% OF MALES ARE MY FRIENDS AND I KNOW WHAT AM TALKING ABOUT. Like my daddy was say BOYS WILL BOYS. mature my black ass |
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hot-angel (f)
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What's up with all this statistics? And why are girls the ones yapping?? As in why is a girl answering a question like this?? *hisses*
Anyways, i basically think this questions should be left for the guys. that way, we can get the real "statistics" and not just some numbers somebody from no where cooked up.
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LuUmBiOn2 (m)
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@critics (omo eko)
laughs
@topic
we're in a permissive world now, where almost everything is possible. By moral standards, giving a guy BJ simply means you're veteran in sex but one shouldnt have had sex before marriage in the first place! Well, in my own opinion, i wouldnt label any lady that gives or offers me BJ a slut. I'm all hers.
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omoge (f)
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Guys kiss and tell e.g brag about things they did with the opposite sex, and almost all do, there are nice guys out there, just a small number. maybe that's where Omo Eko got her idea. Omo no mind them they will never tell the truth. and that's why i will forever say to the ladies, DO NOT DO ANYTHING unless you are married to the guy. Keep your leg closed. he want to kiss, make love, want blowjob, whatever, you will do for him after you marry him. no more no less . @Poster, they won't tell you the truth. |
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Red_Lips (f)
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2. Try and avoid immature guys. Rather than appreciating a girl willing to please them, immature guys might go bragging to their friends about you. I agree with this. when you're with an immature person you should expect immature actions esp when it comes to intimate affairs. as for the topic, how exactly does a guy call his girlfriend a "slut" ? |
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sisimose (f)
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@topic
no a girl is not a slut because she gives blow jobs. just as a girl is not a slut if she happens to sleep with a guy who lied his way to her undies and laughed about it to his friends calling her a slut. But unfortunately its the way some have viewded the issue of women who do thesame as guys.
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arktivitym (m)
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What l have discovered here on nairaland is that most members(80 something per cent) hold onto falsehood.They do not like to open up and free their minds and souls.See this question?Most of the responses are false.
For me oral sex from me to her and she to me is da BOMB anyday,anytime,anywhere.Am an oral sex freak that is blowjob or cunnigilus.So a girl that gives me a (good) blow job will have me all to herself.She is NEVER a slut,for me.
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Kliplemet (m)
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blowjob = gooood
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sistawoman (f)
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I don't think it is slutty to give your man/husband a blowjob but to just pass it out like it is candy is slutty.
I actully enjoy giving my husband a bj because i enjoy his reaction to it. Just hearing him moan and feeling it grow in my mouth makes me wet and i can get off on that alone.
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richo (m)
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am a guy and to be frank if the guy REALLY likes you he wunt call u slut but otherwise he would call u so. the trick is to pretend to be reluctant, if u initiate sx, na ashawo them go call you (demn refers to all his friends ge's definately going to brag to)
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richo (m)
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who invented this stupid spell check? so i can't abreviate without it mutilating ma words? |
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nuttyKachi (m)
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love girls that give blowjob,handjob and legjob
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