Why Do Naija Girls Like To Date Guys That Are Abroad?

exactly what i had in mind, since i started following the discussion.

in one word: INTIMIDATION

Infact, its all a triangle, or should i say rectangle

some black girls, want "their" strong black bothers, somewhite girls too want the black one because they know their own guys are nothing compared to our "black brothers"

but some of our "so called black brothers" want and need the white girls to "belong", to feel among, when they're walking on the street with a white girl, its as if they should be given a microphone so that no soul will fail to notice his "promotion"
sorry to say this ooh, but atimes when you look at the white girl that your black brother chose over the ro-die-for black sister, you can't help but cry at what "being black" has done to your brother.

and the some of the white guys, don't want the black girls, why? afterall their fellow blacks do not want them, why should the? and you come to see that when a white guy eventually dates a black girl, he takes the prttiest amongst all unlike our brothers

as far as the black brother is not dating a white girl just to be "one of them", then its ok,but if its the other way round then its a critical situation ooh!!!

i guess these naija guys are so used to getting everything easily from white women who truly are less inhibited as per their culture (no pun intended) that they no longer know the meaning of playing hard to get. if you don't 'drop" on the first date they accuse you of playing hard to get.its silly.

my sister. you nailed it. na real microphone. THANKS

here comes mummy with another sermon on the mount. 

I don't necessarily agree with most of it though. Not everyone who dates a white chic is merely trying to make a statement.

Our culture does that to us. Normally, in naija - you can't tell your parents that you're dating @ the age of 14. Until you are in your 20's before them born you well to introduce him/her as boyfriend or girlfriend. Besides, some naija women are more conservative and so are some whites.

not all alliances with white women is for sex. but right from when i was young growing up in naija, young boys as young as ten would say "when i grow up and go abroad im going to marry a white woman" as if she's a prize, trophy or aspiration. its sad. its sadder because they actually grow up and do it!

i just finished what you started because you were reading my mind


well, son lmao , thats why i said "some", generalization is not allowed in my dictionary lol

but honestly here in Norway ooh, you'll be forced to say all. You'll br frienndly with the so-called  guy ooh, but when he's moving with his lower-your-shoe white girl (didnt mean to be harsh ) he'll pretend not to see you sef, as if you've suddenly turned to a grass-hopper. he'll be doing the "big boy shakara", as if he was walking side by side with God *sighs*

well my tactics is this ooh, when i see you, i'll be the first to throw way face. Infact then you'll be forced to call my attention and say hi. Come see the face of the white girl, if looks could kill well i would have been sent to my untimely grave by now ooh.lol

@ topic
the same goes for "girls in naija" wanting abroad boyfriends, for some its love, for some its the money and for some, its just the ability of saying "my boyfriend is in spain, infact he called last night, we talked and talked, he's even sending a new hand-set to me from over-seas" lol

lol. I meant empathy, not sympathy 

i once went out with a white guy. see daggers thrown my way all the time. black guys would actually yell out at us in anger. asking me if i was too good for them now. it was crazy. hypocrites. 

goodnite jare. im turning in now too. see y'all tomorrow? bye.

I don't know how guys can do that and be able to sleep. One woman, wether naija or darky  or oyinbo for this oyinbo land na enough wahala, then u go carry naija own join am?. Na only one woman from either naija or Jewish I fit marry, and na only one woman at a time. One woman one problem, two women ten problems, why would one want to die young any way?. I guess people like to learn the hard way.

who no like better thing?

infact i no know say them easy for away guys for naija,  who talk say naija women dey single for west? abi na for us and uk? because them ashawo for here get am too much (men)

If you can find gold in yellow cabs!!

you're right samsilo,they think the money will keep flowing until they land at JFK international and understand that Okoro was nothing but a dishwasher in a downtown eatery.

me too,I've been on "exile" for disobeying the law