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davidylan (m)
Re: Why Do Naija Girls Like To Date Guys That Are Abroad?
« #32 on: April 19, 2007, 07:04 PM »

Quote from: ikamefa on April 19, 2007, 05:58 PM
small time now! you go talk sey butter nor dey melt in yah mouth! Grin


i merely educated them on the fact that the grass is not necessarily greener on the other side.  Grin
I'm innocent.
ikamefa (f)
Re: Why Do Naija Girls Like To Date Guys That Are Abroad?
« #33 on: April 19, 2007, 07:27 PM »

Quote from: davidylan on April 19, 2007, 07:04 PM
i merely educated them on the fact that the grass is not necessarily greener on the other side. Grin
I'm innocent.

 Shocked Shocked  did i just read educate? and innocent?  Shocked Tongue  Cheesy

how? pray tell!  Cheesy
spoilt (f)
Re: Why Do Naija Girls Like To Date Guys That Are Abroad?
« #34 on: April 19, 2007, 07:39 PM »

but this thing goes both ways too. if you are a girl that lives abroad when you are in naija for vacation guys will be ready to do anything for you. i was wined and dined by all and sundry. it was crazy. "take me to california with you", "take me to california with you" . i suddenly became hot commodity (not that i wasnt before. Grin) it was crazy. it seems as soon as you leave naija shores you're value appreciates drastically.everybody wan come obodo oyibo.  Undecided
davidylan (m)
Re: Why Do Naija Girls Like To Date Guys That Are Abroad?
« #35 on: April 19, 2007, 07:42 PM »

Quote from: spoilt on April 19, 2007, 07:39 PM
but this thing goes both ways too. if you are a girl that lives abroad when you are in naija for vacation guys will be ready to do anything for you. i was wined and dined by all and sundry. it was crazy. "take me to california with you", "take me to california with you" . i suddenly became hot commodity (not that i wasnt before. Grin) it was crazy. it seems as soon as you leave naija shores you're value appreciates drastically.everybody wan come obodo oyibo. Undecided

those boys dey disgrace me.  Grin

Quote from: ikamefa on April 19, 2007, 07:27 PM
Shocked Shocked did i just read educate? and innocent? Shocked Tongue Cheesy

how? pray tell! Cheesy

 Grin Grin Grin Grin Come and let me teach you how. Seeing is believing. Trust me, i was innocent. At least i did not go round chasing them.  Tongue
ikamefa (f)
Re: Why Do Naija Girls Like To Date Guys That Are Abroad?
« #36 on: April 19, 2007, 07:58 PM »

Quote from: davidylan on April 19, 2007, 07:42 PM
those boys dey disgrace me. Grin

 Grin Grin Grin Grin Come and let me teach you how. Seeing is believing. Trust me, i was innocent. At least i did not go round chasing them. Tongue

teach who?  Shocked of course, if you don't chase 'em, they will chase you ,all they have to do is smell that  " abroad" scent!

who no like better thing!  Cheesy but stop coming here to form "innocent levels here"

who no understand chop and clean mouth for here! Cheesy




Quote from: spoilt on April 19, 2007, 07:39 PM
but this thing goes both ways too. if you are a girl that lives abroad when you are in naija for vacation guys will be ready to do anything for you. i was wined and dined by all and sundry. it was crazy. "take me to california with you", "take me to california with you" . i suddenly became hot commodity (not that i wasnt before. Grin) it was crazy. it seems as soon as you leave naija shores you're value appreciates drastically.everybody wan come obodo oyibo. Undecided

thanks for sharing that it shows that this issue affects errbody boy or girl it don't matter !

babyosisi (f)
Re: Why Do Naija Girls Like To Date Guys That Are Abroad?
« #37 on: April 19, 2007, 08:38 PM »

Honestly Naija girls ought to be wise.
Many of these men  are just deceivers.
Our women ought to be less greedy and running after all these " men from abroad" and putting out in shameless ways .
If only they knew the stories these men tell when they return friom these escapades.

A relative of mine went home to look for wife.
If you know the number of girls from Aba to Owerri that showed up to be picked.
The stories are very embarrassing to me as a woman.
And at the end he picked none but told me he "sampled" many of them


why should our girls have so low self esteem as to hop in bed with all and sundry just because he lives in the west.
Are we that desperate?
spoilt (f)
Re: Why Do Naija Girls Like To Date Guys That Are Abroad?
« #38 on: April 19, 2007, 10:55 PM »

i remember when i was still in university in my final year a guy came to campus to look for a wife. this guy was from germany or some random place. he was igbotic as hell. greasy curls to boot, bad grammar that made me cringe in horror. had a horrible swagger to boot. Teeth needed serious dental intervention. i could see the tarter from a mile away.The bling he had on his neck were so cheap that they hurt my eyes to look at them. Yet girls were queuing up to be interviewed. the line was curled all the way around the block and back. he was like,nna you're too fat, too short, too black, too flat, too thin, too everything. i guess the guy was just having a blast. some girls actually started jogging to loose weight before the next "interview". i was shocked.
i could have died of laughter. i honestly couldnt believe what i was seeing. they knew absolutely nothing about this chap except that he was from "overs". God have mercy! Undecided
omoge (f)
Re: Why Do Naija Girls Like To Date Guys That Are Abroad?
« #39 on: April 20, 2007, 02:02 AM »

lol, that was funny of them.

yeah Power of Western Union in the short time and then the enjoyment they think await them.

everyone want to go oversea. they will never believe you that things aren't that rosy for even the guy that is the latest Father Christmas maybe has 4 jobs.

but you know, the gals are learning the hard way now. it's like try and luck because they know those guys from obodo oyinbo are fake.
davidylan (m)
Re: Why Do Naija Girls Like To Date Guys That Are Abroad?
« #40 on: April 20, 2007, 02:29 AM »

i'm aching to go back home.  Grin Grin
Time for one more "interview".
spoilt (f)
Re: Why Do Naija Girls Like To Date Guys That Are Abroad?
« #41 on: April 20, 2007, 02:32 AM »

@davidylan
 nay you sabi. oga interviewer. you go tire.  Grin
debosky (m)
Re: Why Do Naija Girls Like To Date Guys That Are Abroad?
« #42 on: April 20, 2007, 02:33 AM »

when them steal ur passport before you wake up, you'll stop 'interviewing'  Grin Grin Grin
spoilt (f)
Re: Why Do Naija Girls Like To Date Guys That Are Abroad?
« #43 on: April 20, 2007, 02:36 AM »

@debosky
truly those girls fit thief your passport before you say robinson crusoe. the room where the interview was going on was so packed full of desperate chicks. davidylan eye go clear!  Grin
babyosisi (f)
Re: Why Do Naija Girls Like To Date Guys That Are Abroad?
« #44 on: April 20, 2007, 02:38 AM »

David don't even try it!!.
Some of these chics are beginning to 'wisen' up and use the men too.
A girl from my hometown married a guy in Texas only to use him to come overs and get to her real man in another state.
This poor husband filed for green card,paid the ticket and only spent a few weeks with the wife who insisted on sleeping in the guest room and would not allow the man near her.

My bro came home and found a note on the dresser and the wife had flown to another state.
Next time he needed a wife,he married a naija girl right here in in the same town he lived.
babyosisi (f)
Re: Why Do Naija Girls Like To Date Guys That Are Abroad?
« #45 on: April 20, 2007, 02:40 AM »

Quote from: spoilt on April 20, 2007, 02:36 AM
@debosky
truly those girls fit thief your passport before you say robinson crusoe. the room where the interview was going on was so packed full of desperate chicks. davidylan eye go clear! Grin

lol
spoilt (f)
Re: Why Do Naija Girls Like To Date Guys That Are Abroad?
« #46 on: April 20, 2007, 02:44 AM »

its true babyosisi
the girls in naija have been taken for a ride for too long. these days they marry guys just to cross to meet their true loves. ive heard of it. its now like one big game for the smartest!!!!!!
acidrop (f)
Re: Why Do Naija Girls Like To Date Guys That Are Abroad?
« #47 on: April 20, 2007, 02:46 AM »

rily . . . omg what are 9gerian gurlz turning 2 oooo, so nothing like true love anymore Shocked Shocked
debosky (m)
Re: Why Do Naija Girls Like To Date Guys That Are Abroad?
« #48 on: April 20, 2007, 02:47 AM »

Love don die tay tay  Grin Grin Grin
acidrop (f)
Re: Why Do Naija Girls Like To Date Guys That Are Abroad?
« #49 on: April 20, 2007, 02:48 AM »

and i even heard 1 night stand is very common now Undecided
spoilt (f)
Re: Why Do Naija Girls Like To Date Guys That Are Abroad?
« #50 on: April 20, 2007, 02:48 AM »

@acidrop
true love my crusty foot!  Grin
its all about the visa baby.
babyosisi (f)
Re: Why Do Naija Girls Like To Date Guys That Are Abroad?
« #51 on: April 20, 2007, 02:49 AM »

Quote from: acidrop on April 20, 2007, 02:46 AM
rily . . . omg what are 9gerian gurlz turning 2 oooo, so nothing like true love anymore Shocked Shocked

Since we have conmen,we also have conchics
babyosisi (f)
Re: Why Do Naija Girls Like To Date Guys That Are Abroad?
« #52 on: April 20, 2007, 02:50 AM »

Quote from: acidrop on April 20, 2007, 02:48 AM
and i even heard 1 night stand is very common now Undecided

do you mean in Nigeria or here
spoilt (f)
Re: Why Do Naija Girls Like To Date Guys That Are Abroad?
« #53 on: April 20, 2007, 02:50 AM »

conchics! hehehe! thats a new one. it serves the guys right. thinking they can surface and hold "interviews" anyhow as if they are a bank.  Grin
acidrop (f)
Re: Why Do Naija Girls Like To Date Guys That Are Abroad?
« #54 on: April 20, 2007, 02:51 AM »

in nigeria  Undecided

@spoilt, its not enof 2 throw away ur intergrity
davidylan (m)
Re: Why Do Naija Girls Like To Date Guys That Are Abroad?
« #55 on: April 20, 2007, 02:52 AM »

not to worry, even me sef i am "wiser". The interview is not meant to recruit a potential wife.  Grin
when its time for one i know where to go searching.  Tongue
The interview is one of the things you must do before you bid bachelorhood goodbye.
debosky (m)
Re: Why Do Naija Girls Like To Date Guys That Are Abroad?
« #56 on: April 20, 2007, 02:53 AM »

you go wound oh, you might bid your passport+visa+cellphone and wallet goodbye too if you're not careful.

shine your eye well well
ikamefa (f)
Re: Why Do Naija Girls Like To Date Guys That Are Abroad?
« #57 on: April 20, 2007, 02:55 AM »

Quote from: davidylan on April 20, 2007, 02:52 AM
not to worry, even me sef i am "wiser". The interview is not meant to recruit a potential wife.  Grin
when its time for one i know where to go searching.  Tongue
The interview is one of the things you must do before you bid bachelorhood goodbye.

i see  Wink i am innocenti oh please don't corrupt moi!  Tongue Cheesy
davidylan (m)
Re: Why Do Naija Girls Like To Date Guys That Are Abroad?
« #58 on: April 20, 2007, 02:55 AM »

kai! You needed to see the poor chics shine their eyes when i returned. Trust a guy to milk the situation for all its worth.  Grin
If 2 girls have never verbally beat themselves because of you please go home ASAP and conduct ur own "interview"!  Wink
babyosisi (f)
Re: Why Do Naija Girls Like To Date Guys That Are Abroad?
« #59 on: April 20, 2007, 02:55 AM »

I have tons of stories,you can't even imagine.
An inlaw of mine was "courting" this girl in naija,he lived in Europe and the chic lived in Lagos and had another suitor in America that she kept on the down low.
When my inlaw arrived home to finalise the deal,little did he know that another man had already knocked on the door and it had been opened unto him.
We were all shocked.

Our girls can be unbelievable.My inlaw didn't know he was the back up!
davidylan (m)
Re: Why Do Naija Girls Like To Date Guys That Are Abroad?
« #60 on: April 20, 2007, 02:56 AM »

Quote from: debosky on April 20, 2007, 02:53 AM
you go wound oh, you might bid your passport+visa+cellphone and wallet goodbye too if you're not careful.

shine your eye well well

i dey kampe, nothing dey happen!  Grin

Quote from: ikamefa on April 20, 2007, 02:55 AM
i see Wink i am innocenti oh please don't corrupt moi! Tongue Cheesy

I don't even know what an "interview" is like. I am innocent.  Cheesy
debosky (m)
Re: Why Do Naija Girls Like To Date Guys That Are Abroad?
« #61 on: April 20, 2007, 02:57 AM »

the girl wasn't sharp, if she used 'alum-trick' she wd still have won both ways  Cheesy
ikamefa (f)
Re: Why Do Naija Girls Like To Date Guys That Are Abroad?
« #62 on: April 20, 2007, 02:57 AM »

Quote from: davidylan on April 20, 2007, 02:56 AM
i
I don't even know what an "interview" is like. I am innocent.  Cheesy

i know jare .me self innocent pass you!  Cheesy
babyosisi (f)
Re: Why Do Naija Girls Like To Date Guys That Are Abroad?
« #63 on: April 20, 2007, 02:58 AM »

Quote from: debosky on April 20, 2007, 02:57 AM
the girl wasn't sharp, if she used 'alum-trick' she wd still have won both ways Cheesy

How.
The other man was already preparing for traditional wedding.
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