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ricadelide (m)
Re: Why I Am Not A Christian Anymore
« #608 on: May 12, 2007, 01:21 AM »

Quote from: nosa101 on May 12, 2007, 01:14 AM
i hear lots of ish and not just the cliched good and bad. There's also the semi good and quasi bad.
i don't know what you mean by lots of ish, but sha, it is not a matter of how much 'good' one does or for one's 'good' to outweigh one's 'bad', its more complicated than that - like your post suggests.
GOd sets the standards, and in his eyes, there is no one righteous; that is why we must accept the sacrifice of his Son and repent of our unrighteousness-that's of course if we realize that we are unrighteous.
,,,,,, blessed are the poor in spirit,,,,,, ,
nosa101 (m)
Re: Why I Am Not A Christian Anymore
« #609 on: May 12, 2007, 01:26 AM »

You said your conscience tells you what's good but you DO hear more than 2 voices in your head. Not just the cliched good and bad voice. There are voices that tell you do what's not neccesarily good but it's not bad either. There's no clear definition of good. A woman killing her husband is wrong but what if he beat her alot or cheated on her. What do you define as good? Should she go on and hold a grudge. Is she expected to forgive and forget? The latter is rather utopic.
KAG (f)
Re: Why I Am Not A Christian Anymore
« #610 on: May 12, 2007, 01:31 AM »

Quote from: ricadelide on May 12, 2007, 01:09 AM
yes. it must be strange, lol

It would have to be, wouldn't it? Especially considering the debate.

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i thought you were an atheist, I'm not and i know the God i serve.

I am. I enjoy hypotheticals.

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sorry, i don't believe false doctrines. I believe in the inspired word of God. shikena.

Good to see you have a healthy dose of sceptism in you.


Quote from: ricadelide on May 12, 2007, 01:12 AM
to an extent, yes. but in truth, the conscience is a spiritual entity and is determined by the spiritual and not the cultural.

There is no evidence to suggest that is true. Moreover, through psychology and anthropology  - to name but two branches of science involved in the study of ethics and the acquisition of morals - and even history, it can be inferred that the conscience is not only physical and natural, but also shaped and influenced largely by factors like intelligence, the culture and beliefs.

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Sha, the ultimate test - for me - of what constitutes good is the word of God. For the believer, the Holy Spirit in him tells him what is 'good' (Heb. 4;12-13 and Heb. 5;13,14 - among many other scriptures)

In this instance your religion is one of the biggest influences on your perception of good.

Quote from: nosa101 on May 12, 2007, 01:14 AM
i hear lots of ish and not just the cliched good and bad. There's also the semi good and quasi bad.

Indeed, it never is all black and white, no matter what some may claim.
ricadelide (m)
Re: Why I Am Not A Christian Anymore
« #611 on: May 12, 2007, 01:38 AM »

wrong is NEVER justified. that's why God REQUIRES that we forgive our fellowman - vengeance is the Lord's.
Also, there is no action that is 'neither good nor bad'. Definitely there are grey issues; but that's where our intentions matter. God looks at the heart. See ICor 13;1-3. "Good actions" are not necessarily right, if our heart's attitude is wrong
I think if you're curious, you should read Romans 7 up till chapter 8. if you pray for illumination, you'D have your questions answered.
what i said is what ultimately matters, there is no one righteous except the Son, His righteousness is our righteousness IICor 5;21, ICor.1;30
Got to go out now. cheers.
Al Raheem (m)
Re: Why I Am Not A Christian Anymore
« #612 on: May 12, 2007, 01:41 AM »

God sticks to his laws.  And one of them is Love.  For he even loves the devil.  He wouldn't destroy him. He'll lock him up for 1000years and still free him.  God talks to the devil everyday about all of us. The world belongs to him and the whole hell  mansion. if God locks u up in hell w/him what would you do.  I'll like to know what the cross truly represent or stand for? 1000yrs only for 10yrs+ of tormenting.
ricadelide (m)
Re: Why I Am Not A Christian Anymore
« #613 on: May 12, 2007, 01:44 AM »

Quote from: KAG on May 12, 2007, 01:31 AM
Good to see you have a healthy dose of sceptism in you.
thank God i'm not skeptical about the truth. I'm very skeptical about falsehood and deception though.

Quote from: KAG on May 12, 2007, 01:31 AM
There is no evidence to suggest that is true. Moreover, through psychology and anthropology - to name but two branches of science involved in the study of ethics and the acquisition of morals - and even history, it can be inferred that the conscience is not only physical and natural, but also shaped and influenced largely by factors like intelligence, the culture and beliefs.
what you call conscience might not necessariliy be what i call conscience, so we probably don't have any basis for comparison

Quote from: KAG on May 12, 2007, 01:31 AM
In this instance your religion is one of the biggest influences on your perception of good.

Indeed, it never is all black and white, no matter what some may claim.
we see things in totally different light. gotta go.
Al Raheem (m)
Re: Why I Am Not A Christian Anymore
« #614 on: May 12, 2007, 01:44 AM »

understood! I love Islam and Christianity.
Al Raheem (m)
Re: Why I Am Not A Christian Anymore
« #615 on: May 12, 2007, 01:48 AM »

fyi: for your information rayg stand for rebel against your government wrong doing!!!!
Al Raheem (m)
Re: Why I Am Not A Christian Anymore
« #616 on: May 12, 2007, 02:54 AM »

god will set u up and allow you to suffer to the maximum.  yet he exist with no doubt.  it will be as if he doesn't exist.
Al Raheem (m)
Re: Why I Am Not A Christian Anymore
« #617 on: May 12, 2007, 03:38 AM »

Life is a 0 and 1
0=no 1=yes 0=false 1=True 0=off 1=on
sin=no latin word
osegwu (m)
Re: Why I Am Not A Christian Anymore
« #618 on: May 12, 2007, 10:55 AM »

He will always be a faithful God whether Seun

choose to worship him or not. He will still be God.
Seun (m)
Re: Why I Am Not A Christian Anymore
« #619 on: May 12, 2007, 11:02 AM »

Stop posting in all caps, please.
osegwu (m)
Re: Why I Am Not A Christian Anymore
« #620 on: May 12, 2007, 11:31 AM »

I believe in the sincerity of man. If you are honest and sincere

and you are not given to evil in all its entirety then I believe the

person concerned will definitely go to heaven. He doesn't heave to go to church.

Some Muslims, Christan's, Atheists, pagan and many more will go to heaven in as

much as they live a righteous life.

ricadelide (m)
Re: Why I Am Not A Christian Anymore
« #621 on: May 12, 2007, 01:32 PM »

Quote from: osegwu on May 12, 2007, 11:31 AM
I believe in the sincerity of man. If you are honest and sincere

and you are not given to evil in all its entirety then I believe the

person concerned will definitely go to heaven. He doesn't heave to go to church.

Some Muslims, Christan's, Atheists, pagan and many more will go to heaven in as

much as they live a righteous life.


Very big lie. Where did you get that confusion from?
nosa101 (m)
Re: Why I Am Not A Christian Anymore
« #622 on: May 12, 2007, 05:13 PM »

Quote from: ricadelide on May 12, 2007, 01:32 PM
Very big lie. Where did you get that confusion from?
I think you should open your mind a bit. Blatant "put downs" of any religion is very ignorant. We have no proff God exists, we rely on faith. Same thing with other religions. Therefore there can be no true religion, keep thatin mind. How do you know chritianity is the way? Don't bring in the bible because humans wrote and chose acceptable chapters. Do you ever think of possible human greed and ignorance when it came to writing and choosing those books. That there be very closed minded people writing and choosing the books. I am catholic and I encourage catholicism but there's no way I will ever go out on a limb and say, "hey your religion is trash". I am very sure God understands this.
ricadelide (m)
Re: Why I Am Not A Christian Anymore
« #623 on: May 12, 2007, 07:11 PM »

@ nosa,
Quote from: nosa101 on May 12, 2007, 05:13 PM
I think you should open your mind a bit. Blatant "put downs" of any religion is very ignorant. We have no proff God exists, we rely on faith. Same thing with other religions. Therefore there can be no true religion, keep thatin mind. How do you know chritianity is the way? Don't bring in the bible because humans wrote and chose acceptable chapters. Do you ever think of possible human greed and ignorance when it came to writing and choosing those books. That there be very closed minded people writing and choosing the books. I am catholic and I encourage catholicism but there's no way I will ever go out on a limb and say, "hey your religion is trash". I am very sure God understands this.

Yeah, i was expecting a post like this when i made that statement.
First, my mind is 'open' and not 'closed' whatever that means, but what I mean is that, i learn before i speak. At the risk of sounding like a Mr know-all, which i'm not, about the many religions you speak of, i've learnt. And what i do discover is; they speak of different things and many times their claims are so antithetical that definitely they can't all be true. Truth as regards eternity, God etc are absolute and with all things absolute, you're either in or out, you're either right or wrong especially as regards the core issues.
Second, those who serve God and know Him, know He exists, the fact that one doesn't is a wake-up call to find out the true way - that's of course if you beleive that God IS. i once was in a position in life where i didn't know for certain, i won't say that is the case now.
Third, the things men have said about the bible being a book humans wrote, and that some chose 'acceptable chapters' is a lie, it is false. Fine, humans wrote the bible, but the bible doesn't claim to be a mere 'human' book; it claims to be the revealed word of God (Jehovah i mean). For those who take it to be that, they've found out that it is surely and truely the word of God, and through it they've found assurance and evidence for their faith.
The bible was not written by ordinary men, but by men who were inspired by GOd's Spirit; so 'human greed' and what not does not fill into the question. Do you think it is impossible for God to reveal himself through the writings of men so that people can have a yardstick for knowing the truth? i don't see that as being too hard to imagine or accept. Those allegations are mere objections some people have used to try to put down the bible; but for those whose lives have been transformed by it, it doesn't hold water and they know better.
I didn't say any religion is trash; if you notice i don't really involve myself in arguements about religions; however, i know that if the bible is true then other religions are false; they can't both or all be right. If for nothing else the bible claims to be the SOLE revelation of truth. SO you see i doubt if my statement was 'very ignorant' like you put it. If i say 2 + 2 equals 4 and another person says it equals 5; should we say "Ok, don't say i'm wrong because i don't agree with you"? or should we say "they are both right"? NO. There are absolutes with Truth, just like any other field. There is a right approach and there are wrong approaches. I don't know why it's so hard to realize this.
nosa101 (m)
Re: Why I Am Not A Christian Anymore
« #624 on: May 12, 2007, 07:27 PM »

You do realize that only a few people could speak aramaic when it was translated. You do realize that it could have been watered down. You do realize that thatsome books with the "truth" might have been shoved aside
ricadelide (m)
Re: Why I Am Not A Christian Anymore
« #625 on: May 12, 2007, 07:39 PM »

@nosa,
only a small part of the bible was written in aramaic, the old testament was mostly written in Hebrew and the new testament in greek.
The original scrolls are available if one is willing to learn Hebrew and greek. Both languages are still spoken to this day; although they are probably modified; language is dynamic. There are words in the bible that what they definitively mean isn't known and translations like NIV will tell you so.
THe books that make up the bible are like various parts of a whole; they all unite as one and speak in unison even though they were written by different people over the course of long periods of time. If there was a book that said Jesus was a sinner for example, do we need to be told that that book is not of God? it speaks for itself and you can judge a book by its content and know if its inspired or not. its not that hard and there's no conspiracy anywhere.
let's even leave that side; the books we already have, have we learnt what they have to say? have we tried to verify their truth-claims? that's what is important.
You see i know why you're skeptical and why you can't understand someone making absolute claims; because i've been there before. however, the fact that you are in the position you are in says that you are willing to know the truth, and i pray you find it.
ricadelide (m)
Re: Why I Am Not A Christian Anymore
« #626 on: May 12, 2007, 07:43 PM »

@nosa,
i used to be a catholic myself, and though i was sincere and honest - in fact i'D say i was a moralist, i didn't really know for sure where my life was headed. The catholic church doesn't emphasise the primordial role of scripture and since they don't, there's no definitive yardstick except the word of men and consequently, anything goes.
There was no guarantee of any claim; some will say pray the rosary everyday, another would say, carry the pieta everywhere etc. it was like groping in the dark.
As a child, i used to pray the rosary and do all those stuff, but still there was no assurance and i didn't know GOd, i was just being religious. I couldn't stand it anymore and eventually i left. For some people at that point they'D generalize and say religion is all lies and stuff, but in my case i knew there must be a right way somewhere; i just hadn't found it yet. Thank GOd for His mercy in later leading me to Himself through some of his children who had been praying for me. I'D be praying for you also, and i believe you'D find the way very soon. cheers Smiley
nosa101 (m)
Re: Why I Am Not A Christian Anymore
« #627 on: May 12, 2007, 08:01 PM »

The way?
ricadelide (m)
Re: Why I Am Not A Christian Anymore
« #628 on: May 12, 2007, 08:16 PM »

@nosa,
the way as i know it is very simple; all men have sinned and all men are sinners.
we accept that we can't change ourselves and we can't ever be righteous by our own strength, we repent of our sins and accept the free gift of salvation.
all you need to do is just open your mouth and go to God in a prayer of faith, confess your sins and accept that Jesus died to take the punishment for your sins and ask him to come into your life and take over.
Here is a link; its that simple
http://www.photosforsouls.com/invitation.html 
and do check out these scriptures;
Romans 3;23-36, Romans 10; 9-13, Eph. 1;13-14, 2Cor 5;17, Ezek 36;26-27 and so on
You can shoot me an email or you can give me yours so we can talk more. Cheers Smiley
KAG (f)
Re: Why I Am Not A Christian Anymore
« #629 on: May 12, 2007, 10:13 PM »

Quote from: ricadelide
thank God i'm not skeptical about the truth. I'm very skeptical about falsehood and deception though.

Now that we have established thatn sceptism isn't necessarily a bad and damning thing, it's necessaru to point out that your perception of truth is also relative and others with differing religions know that your beliefs are falsehood and deceptions and theirs is truth  Obvious but worth mentioning.

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what you call conscience might not necessariliy be what i call conscience, so we probably don't have any basis for comparison

I doubt that; however, in the name of fostering understanding, maybe you could describe what you mean by conscience? That should show whether there is some basis of comparism and if we are indeed speaking of the same phenomenon.

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we see things in totally different light. gotta go.

Well, we have been influenced by different belief systems, cultures and phiosophies.
Seun (m)
Re: Why I Am Not A Christian Anymore
« #630 on: May 12, 2007, 10:27 PM »

I hope we're actually learning something from these endless religious discussions!
ricadelide (m)
Re: Why I Am Not A Christian Anymore
« #631 on: May 12, 2007, 10:32 PM »

Quote from: KAG on May 12, 2007, 10:13 PM
Now that we have established thatn sceptism isn't necessarily a bad and damning thing, it's necessaru to point out that your perception of truth is also relative and others with differing religions know that your beliefs are falsehood and deceptions and theirs is truth Obvious but worth mentioning.
fair enough, that's why the bible says 'there's a way that seems right to a man but in the end it leads to destruction'. That is of course the case when people get decieved. In the end, we'D find out for certain the truth. But what i know is that no religion gives you an assurance of salvation, at best you suppress the doubts and the voice of your conscience nugging at you.
In my case, i'm not waiting till i die to know the truth, i already am walking in it.
ricadelide (m)
Re: Why I Am Not A Christian Anymore
« #632 on: May 12, 2007, 10:33 PM »

Quote from: Seun on May 12, 2007, 10:27 PM
I hope we're actually learning something from these endless religious discussions!
i hope so myself, but that is not to say that there's no point in talking about them, those who are learning do learn. those who don't want to wont.
samsilo (m)
Re: Why I Am Not A Christian Anymore
« #633 on: May 12, 2007, 11:10 PM »

 I don't bother memorising bible verses but for those who always ask why did God allow this and that bad thing to happen.
I know the Bible speaks clearly about phases of the world and we are in the phase where the wheat and the chaff( good and evil) both by humans or not are free to grow together.
So those trying to force others to believe what they do should not get too hot and bothered.The Bible ( I think jesus said this) says God has given everyone the freedom to choose.
The only thing I will say directly to Seun and other atheists is in form of a question.
    How do explain things like some one who is not a believer in the holy spirit being prayed for and he?she falls under the influence of the holy spirit and looses conciousness?
Or how do you explain what is called jazz, juju, voodoo etc.
You can dismiss it ,but unless every thing we see is a dream or from our imagination , these two examples need  rationalisation because I am talking about physically visible things.
I for one find belief in something else  more reasonable than atheism, because that is like saying all the people you see are a dream or visions i.e. denying facts.
KAG (f)
Re: Why I Am Not A Christian Anymore
« #634 on: May 12, 2007, 11:16 PM »

Quote from: ricadelide on May 12, 2007, 10:32 PM
fair enough, that's why the bible says 'there's a way that seems right to a man but in the end it leads to destruction'. That is of course the case when people get decieved. In the end, we'D find out for certain the truth.

I guess that's one way of looking at it; I doubt that we'll find the certain truth after death, but I'm always up for a surprise.

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But what i know is that no religion gives you an assurance of salvation,

What about Zoroastrianism and Bahai? IIRC, they both assure salvation provided you do certain things.

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at best you suppress the doubts and the voice of your conscience nugging at you.

Or not.

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In my case, i'm not waiting till i die to know the truth, i already am walking in it.

As is Tenzin Gyatso, was George Harrison, is Tom Cruise, was Macolm X, and many others. Personally, I'm waiting till I don't die  Wink

Quote from: Seun on May 12, 2007, 10:27 PM
I hope we're actually learning something from these endless religious discussions!

I often do.
KAG (f)
Re: Why I Am Not A Christian Anymore
« #635 on: May 12, 2007, 11:24 PM »

Quote from: samsilo on May 12, 2007, 11:10 PM
I don't bother memorising bible verses but for those who always ask why did God allow this and that bad thing to happen.
I know the Bible speaks clearly about phases of the world and we are in the phase where the wheat and the chaff( good and evil) both by humans or not are free to grow together.

Are you sure that wasn't about a millennia ago? You know, the times when Christians were heavily persecuted by the Roman goverment and people who said they were Christians were jailed or killed.

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So those trying to force others to believe what they do should not get too hot and bothered.The Bible ( I think jesus said this) says God has given everyone the freedom to choose.


I don't think Jesus said that, but I could be wrong.

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The only thing I will say directly to Seun and other atheists is in form of a question.
    How do explain things like some one who is not a believer in the holy spirit being prayed for and he?she falls under the influence of the holy spirit and looses conciousness?

Frauds; hoaxes; placeboic effects (I don't think that's the right term).

 
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Or how do you explain what is called jazz, juju, voodoo etc.

Psychology.

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You can dismiss it ,but unless every thing we see is a dream or from our imagination , these two examples need  rationalisation because I am talking about physically visible things.

You've physically and personally seen voodoo practiced? In any case, there are simple answers to occurences that involved people going unconscious and people practising voodoo; there's absolutely no need to invoke supernatural beings.

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I for one find belief in something else  more reasonable than atheism, because that is like saying all the people you see are a dream or visions i.e. denying facts.

You don't know what atheism is.
samsilo (m)
Re: Why I Am Not A Christian Anymore
« #636 on: May 12, 2007, 11:31 PM »

 @ KAG I would like to know what atheism is.
   As for jazz or juju with as as little as 5000 naira if I was the sort of person to go into it, where  I come from I could pay for you to get a real life experience. Then at least that part would have been answered.
KAG (f)
Re: Why I Am Not A Christian Anymore
« #637 on: May 12, 2007, 11:36 PM »

Quote from: samsilo on May 12, 2007, 11:31 PM
@ KAG I would like to know what atheism is.

Simply put, disbelieving a God, any God, exists. Atheists, though usually individuals with their different sets of beliefs and interpretations of life, generally don't doubt that this life is real and other humans exist.

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   As for jazz or juju with as as little as 5000 naira if I was the sort of person to go into it, where  I come from I could pay for you to get a real life experience. Then at least that part would have been answered.

I'll take that as a no then.
samsilo (m)
Re: Why I Am Not A Christian Anymore
« #638 on: May 12, 2007, 11:52 PM »

 Thanks for your explanation but it fits what I already knew.
Taking my statement as a no?
Maybe you did not get me.When I  was 14 I and every one in my family made a vow not to ever get involved in what is referred to as Juju, voodoo or jazz. Where i come from it is not an imaginary thing or fable.
Like all things evil it comes cheap ,maybe you are not Nigerian but 5000naira is about £20 .
I am saying with that amount as down payment , if you challenge those into it for real,not fraudsters.You could have a life changing experience .I am talking from factual things I have seen.
After that I would like to know your opinion about how the world is only about what you can see.
Any way each to his own path.
Cheers
thesilent1 (m)
Re: Why I Am Not A Christian Anymore
« #639 on: May 13, 2007, 12:02 AM »

can someone please show me where someone falls "under the power" in the bible? thanks
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