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Hopeozah (f)
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My boyfriend is presently lodging in a hotel with another girl (who is one of his many admirers), though it was not his intentions to do so. He keeps calling and assuring me that he wouldnot dissappoint me and that nothing would happen, I trust him so much but I'm getting scared since I could not reach him through out yesterday. I need an advice on what to do.
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Dvampire (m)
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when a man decides to start becoming unfaithful, he stretches your trust and patience to the limits. be careful.
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LoveKing
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My boyfriend is presently lodging in a hotel with another girl (who is one of his many admirers), though it was not his intentions to do so. He keeps calling and assuring me that he wouldnot dissappoint me and that nothing would happen, I trust him so much but I'm getting scared since I could not reach him through out yesterday. I need an advice on what to do.
trash! he is your boyfriend not ur husband. so let him be and have your fun elsewhere! aba! |
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Seun (m)
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Can you explain the circumstances that led to his being in the same hotel with this girl? Is she interested in him? Supposing something happens. How does that harm you? Anyway, if you don't trust him, then dump him!  |
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piscean (m)
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go and see the nearest herbalist o!
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IBB Fan (m)
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thank you, Seun! before i say anything, i want to know why they're together in the same hotel (probably same hotel room too). do they work together? are they supposed to run a project for the boss in their team? please, try to give full details to that people can know how to advice you on issues.
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pearlyseed (f)
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If he is your boyfriend, i wonder what he is doing in a Hotel with another woman. As for me, i don't think he can be trusted.I'll advise you to let him be probably for a while,then if he is serious about u he'll come back to u.
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DewDrop (f)
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Ditto@ Seun & IBBHow long have you been together? Any past infidelities? Any previous trust issues? Where are you and where is the hotel? (ie PH and you're in Lagos) Fill in the blanks! We can't just reassure you that he's not being a bad boy when we don't know the history/circumstances Unless that's what you want to hear, then He's not being a bad boy! but we all know i'm not serious.  @ Piscean, seriously? Na Wa O! @ pearlyseed, hmmm, okay- yeap just keep hope alive!   |
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dremoney (m)
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dump him then  |
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2dye4 (m)
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My dear, what r u waiting for? relocate to the same hotel and make sure ur room is next to his, dnt forget to be prepared and loaded (pestel, sticks, clubs etc) u dnt even av to see them hump, once ther're 2gether, ATTACK!!!!!!!  |
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trendy (f)
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My boyfriend is presently lodging in a hotel with another girl (who is one of his many admirers), though it was not his intentions to do so. He keeps calling and assuring me that he wouldnot dissappoint me and that nothing would happen, I trust him so much but I'm getting scared since I could not reach him through out yesterday. I need an advice on what to do.
the idiot is deceiving you he would tell the other lady the same thing his admirer, lol, he would tell that girl you admirer him too how do u know it is not his intentions o girl shine ur eyes well well you trust him, i pity you, what do do: dump him |
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DorisAnn
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My dear don't be deceived ur boyfriend is playing on ur intelligence.
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pisces20
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Abeg in e first place wetin make the guy go lodge for hotel with another chic. you dey try oh! just be careful if not you'll soon hear the cry of a baby.  |
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Icon (m)
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Hey Guys, don't be so fast to judge. They could both be in the same office and have been posted to another location on a project. Of course the office will lodge them in the same hotel. It's happened to me many times.
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kike001 (f)
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the person that posted this post is a boy r u GAY?
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cute-ass (f)
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My boyfriend is presently lodging in a hotel with another girl (who is one of his many admirers), though it was not his intentions to do so. He keeps calling and assuring me that he wouldnot dissappoint me and that nothing would happen, I trust him so much but I'm getting scared since I could not reach him through out yesterday. I need an advice on what to do.
What i hate is when people come here and paste up their stories, without back-updetails  arrrgh
Now miss poster, you have some explaining to do right here and now so lets take it from the beginning: like many before me have asked, why is he in the hotel with this lady? are they on a business trip? are they lodged into the same room? is his job the one that requires hotel-lodging and sruff? how long have you guys dated? what character has he portrayed in the time you've been together? how far is this hotel from where you are? before someone can help you out of a situation, you must let the person into the situation in and out, after that then we an talk dear you don't want some wrong advice, and how can we not give you just that when we only know half of the story?? |
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ohla (f)
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???common girl,u're killin ur self,dump him fast before he dos d dumping,cause that is going to hurt you real bad.
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dremoney (m)
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funny!!!! ur boyfriend is presently in an hotel n u r here posting d jist to us. U R NOT SERIOUS. u beta go bgin hire some koro people to deal wit them. |
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IBDat (m)
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My dear, what r u waiting for? relocate to the same hotel and make sure your room is next to his, dnt forget to be prepared and loaded (pestel, sticks, clubs etc) u dnt even av to see them hump, once ther're 2gether, ATTACK!!!!!!! LOL - Your boyfriend hasn't done anything wrong (that u can prove anyway). I'm assuming he told u about his stay in the hotel with this girl - was it by choice (we don't know), is it because of work (we don't know) - trust WORKS BOTH WAYS in a relationship, clear your mind and trust your man according to his word, you're just stressing yoself! Have a coke n a smle. |
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amibo
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If u try calling him today again without success, then go visit him in that hotel.  |
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IBB Fan (m)
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@cuteass i swear, we don't even know up to 1/3 of the story. |
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sweetchick (f)
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If he's sharing the same room with her, dump the jerk, honey.
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akinjohn
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infact, one may regret it if the girl get pregnant by your boyfriend
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Omo Eko (f)
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Firstly this all story doesn't make any type of sense or maybe becso it's incomplete. U got to tell us the all deal so we can give you advice on what step to take next My boyfriend is presently lodging in a hotel with another girl (who is one of his many admirers),
How did u know he was lodging in a hotel? Was he on business trip or something And how did u know he was there with one of his Admirers did he tell u that This is why i said this story is untrue and doesn't sound right What kind of man tell his lady is at the hotel with one of his Admirers and expect is women to be kept and not react. Women are human and has feeling, so i don't think any woman will just sit or come on NL and just ignore the fact her man is at the hotel with another women. though it was not his intentions to do so. He keeps calling and assuring me that he wouldnot dissappoint me and that nothing would happen
In every situation you put yourself into there are always behind it, so not anot buyting he wasn't his intention to do it if man and a woman are going to be in the same room and don't you expect them to make moves in each other. Temptations happens and sometimes it difficult avoiding such things, because his heart is saying no while the body is telling him yes. I trust him so much but I'm getting scared since I could not reach him through out yesterday. I need an advice on what to do.
No matter how much you trust him, in the back of your head you know something went down between them both. And why did you think u wasn't able to get through to him , wake up girl and smell the coffee, he turned his phone off and was getting freaking with another women. The only reason he called was for you to assure him that you still trust him no matter what. Guys/ Men are very smart, the plans things brilliantly. see this are reason why some women will never understand mens games. And good luck with you |
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ronnie-slimz (f)
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@poster; how did u get to know that?? is it from a reliable source? gurl i needa know these before i can say anyoda thing yes ooh!! |
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ima1 (f)
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why is he with her in the first place, now that is something we would like to know, he can't just go and lodge in a hotel with another woman for no reason.
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Ayd (m)
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are u sure its not an official treatment.
pay him a visit and tell him what you know
he would be guilty of what he has done
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opuro (m)
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na wa 4 naija babes ooo too sefish. if ur boy friend dey inside the same hotel with another babe nko? the boy no be african, abi u think say na only u like good thin?. u better commot ur eyes like say u no see. because man no eazy to get ooo. and remember all men are like dog they like to eat shit.
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Omo Eko (f)
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na wa 4 naija babes ooo too sefish. if your boy friend dey inside the same hotel with another babe nko? the boy no be african, abi u think say na only u like good thin?. u better commot your eyes like say u no see. because man no eazy to get ooo. and remember all men are like dog they like to eat shit.
Not all African men disrespect their women by going to a hotel with another women |
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FactorChic (f)
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abeg next time, explain well
why did he go to the hotel with her?
hmm, if the lady hot pass u, and she be him admirer, dey begin pack ur load small small
some men dey fall easily o
most men actually!
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