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Oyinhoney (m)
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List Of Questions I Can Ask My New Boyfriend
okay yall i need your help seriously. Can you all list down things that I could ask my boyfriend? See the thing is, I just started dating this guy and I don't know what to ask him whenever were talking. So basically I need a list of questions
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IAH (f)
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Haha! Is he your first boyfriend?
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disney (f)
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I feel you oyin honey, Well as your Nigerian sistaz : let me help you out a little bit. 1) ask him which car he drives .  that way you can start talking about cars. 2) Ask him how much he earns. that way issues of salaries can come up 3) Ask him where he leaves whether na aj city or na vg city or lekki. that way you can start talking about nigerian rich and poor neighbourhoods 4) Ask him whether he is the minister son's or shoemaker's son. that way you can start talking about education 5) Ask him whether he travels abroad or whether he travels to southafrica. that way you can find out if he is into business and issues of money matter go come up 6) Pretend to admire his shoes ( so that you can know wiht style if he is into designer stuffs). that way you can change your discussion into shoes and taste. 7) Pretend that he smells good so that you can find out if he uses (expensive perfume ) that way you can start talking about the different kind of perfumes you use and the bobo de use Girlfriend best of luck.  By the time you ask him 7 of this questions, you would know whether the guy na real correct guy or whether na one yeye guy wey no get anything. You would know whether to dump him and move on or to continue with the relationship. cheers. |
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IAH (f)
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Kaylala, that's wicked! Oyin don't mind him jare. You can ask your boyfriend about his family, his ambition and his plans for the future, his favorite foods, the things he loves to do and why he loves to do them. Actually, I expect him to be the one asking you questions first, so you can turn back all his questions to him by saying "What about you?"  |
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kaylala (m)
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I feel you oyin honey, Well as your Nigeria sistaz : let me help you out a little bit. 1) ask him which car he drives . 2) Ask him how much he earns. 3) Ask him where he leaves whether na aj city or na vg city or lekki. 4) Ask him whether he is the minister son's or shoemaker's son. 5) Ask him whether he travels abroad or whether he travels to southafrica. 6) Pretend to admire his shoes ( so that you can know wiht style if he is into designer stuffs). 7) Pretend that he smells good so that you can find out if he uses (expensive perfume ) Girlfriend best of luck. By the time you ask him 7 of this questions, you would know whether the guy na real correct guy or whether na one yeye guy wey no get anything. Kaylala, that's wicked! Oyin don't mind him jare. You can ask your boyfriend about his family, his ambition and his plans for the future, his favorite foods, the things he love to do and why he loves to do them. Actually, I expect him to be the one asking you questions first, so you can turn back all his questions to him by saying "What about you?"  |
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hot-angel (f)
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Disney is funny! Well, when u start talking, ask him how is day was. Thay way he'll say something about how an okada almost hit him, and then u'll tell him when that happened to your sister,  and then he'll ask how your day went, and you'll play.. "who can be the one to stay quiet for a long time without talking"... when you're both bored, he'll say summin and u'll work things out. Actually, the boy will always find summin to say, they worry most about these things than we girls do. |
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buckeye (m)
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abeg girls u keep posting oo, i can't wait to read more, by that i should be ready for any question from girl.
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Freewilly (f)
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I would ask him how big his pee pee is.
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kaylala (m)
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I would ask him how big his pee pee is.
so that he can deliver effectively |
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nike4luv (f)
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I would ask him how big his pee pee is.
oh gawd! |
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Oyinhoney (m)
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thanx u guys i tried all of that but it aint workin n no his not my first boyfriend its jus that.his kind of different from all the other guys ive dated in d past.he wants to get really know me n i really want to know him.so basically when we talk he'll b like hey watz up? n i b like nothin from then we jus kind of keep quiet not know what to say its like he knows what he can say to make r convo more interestin but its also like a little punishment 4 me too.for not really sayin much..
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2nde (m)
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I feel you oyin honey, Well as your Nigerian sistaz : let me help you out a little bit.
1) ask him which car he drives . that way you can start talking about cars.
2) Ask him how much he earns. that way issues of salaries can come up
3) Ask him where he leaves whether na aj city or na vg city or lekki. that way you can start talking about nigerian rich and poor neighbourhoods
4) Ask him whether he is the minister son's or shoemaker's son. that way you can start talking about education
5) Ask him whether he travels abroad or whether he travels to southafrica. that way you can find out if he is into business and issues of money matter go come up
6) Pretend to admire his shoes ( so that you can know wiht style if he is into designer stuffs). that way you can change your discussion into shoes and taste.
7) Pretend that he smells good so that you can find out if he uses (expensive perfume ) that way you can start talking about the different kind of perfumes you use and the bobo de use
Girlfriend best of luck.
By the time you ask him 7 of this questions, you would know whether the guy na real correct guy or whether na one yeye guy wey no get anything. You would know whether to dump him and move on or to continue with the relationship. cheers. Does your own boyfriend has all that before you are telling someone to ask all that. Those are just irrelevant questions for you to start a serious relationship, if i am the guy, i will just look at you as a gold digger *i aint messing with no gold digger*- Kanye Your concern should be to know how much he loves you first before any other thing follow |
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kaylala (m)
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thanx u guys i tried all of that but it aint workin n no his not my first boyfriend its jus that.his kind of different from all the other guys ive dated in d past.he wants to get really know me n i really want to know him.
with all these,you guys are not really meant for one another.so i suggest that you possibly try another guy out.God willing words will flow out naturally from the two of you without seeking assistance or divine intervention |
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Oyinhoney (m)
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well we havent b together for that long...we jus started...
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kaylala (m)
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then use your past experience
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Oyinhoney (m)
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Well my past experinces werent that good besides they were to forward...na mean?
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kaylala (m)
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then you really have to take it slow. If you really love him,pull the words out of him.He might be a shy guy
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2nde (m)
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I support that too
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Freewilly (f)
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If this gay is to shy to hold a conversation with you, dump his a** you know what the say about the shy ones girl friend.
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Oyinhoney (m)
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he aint shy. well not as shy as me m i think that will b a dumb ass reason to leave him.i guess he jus wnts me to b more comfortable around n express myself more round him that is y his always acts quiet when were on d phone.
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yummy (m)
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is it a long distance relationship? as for me, i don't like talkin so long on phone but then, that doesn't mean you can't find something interesting to say to your lover.
On the other hand, i see no reason to plan what to say, why not stay silent when there's nothing to say and start again when there's something to yell about.
Planning what to say won't make your relationship real and natural. Just remember to ask stuff that comes to your mind not stuff that people on the forum tells you to ask. You're the one in the relationhip not us
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Oyinhoney (m)
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yea i know yall aint my shoes rite now..but he always wants me 2 think of somethin 2 say before i call him not out of spite but jus bcuz...n e wayz sha its not a long distance relationship we both live in great britain.
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WesleyanA (f)
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I understand where you're coming from Oyin. I myself don't really feel comfortable w/ people i have no clue about or strangers. but with people i know well, i have no problem.
maybe you can just ask him general questions but don't ask questions with one word answers like "how are you" because he's just going to say "good". and you have to think up another question again.
and if he asks a question, don't just say "yes" or "no" make your answer really long. idk
Is he really quiet because there's no way you can run out of things to say if he himself talks to you.
talk about stuff that are really long and interesting. that you two can hold a long conversation about.
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lopez (f)
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honey, idon't think conversation shld be that hard if u really care about one another.
u just have to start about asking him about his day , tell him u don't want just fine, but a download of all he has been up to . from when he woke up, by the time he finshed hw he spent his day , he will remember a laugh he had with his friend n frm there u will have some thing to talk about.
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lopez (f)
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yes like wesley said no short questns
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kaylala (m)
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honey, idon't think conversation shld be that hard if u really care about one another.
u just have to start about asking him about his day , tell him u don't want just fine, but a download of all he has been up to . from when he woke up, by the time he finshed hw he spent his day , he will remember a laugh he had with his friend n frm there u will have some thing to talk about.
sista,with all these u need no more further advise.The Big sistas in d land have said it all.
All the best.You can always fall back if you require further assistance.
We stay committed to your fruitfull and happy relationship. |
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Oyinhoney (m)
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thanx eva so much all of yall for the free advise .ill to try all dese questions out on him.probably things will chang 4 d betta between us |
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otokx (m)
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very, very interesting...
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adeoba (m)
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Ask him what sort of watch he uses.
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