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Dojo (m)
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Better for the poor guy.
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sweetnini (f)
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lol Dojo haba y u dey attack moi??huh???
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Dojo (m)
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Asking question.
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sweetnini (f)
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hey u i don't understand u sometimes o old man
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Dojo (m)
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That's just the koko, I don't want you to understand moi.
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sweetnini (f)
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u see ur brains are shrinking like ur face  who told u i want to understand you huh???
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Dojo (m)
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What!  Am I the one whose brain is shrinking? What brings about all this? Don't worry, I know how to treat people like you. I think silence is good for you. Don't you ever communicate with me again. 
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sweetnini (f)
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lol good for u
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engr17 (m)
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ANd there ends the fight
Dojo u should be ashamed of those ulterance of us shrinking or not must a MAN say all he has in mind?
The ladies do d tuking so don't put up those rubbish as a speech
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sweetberry (f)
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u know what jus compliment him on sometink like his trainers or his eyes or sometink & if u know a little bit abut his interest like football or watever jus mention it some guys get kick abut stuff like that.
if u want to be straightforward just say y do u want to be wit me, what z d deal wit u. DON'T ASK HIM BORING QUESTIONS LIKE WHO KILLED WHO, INFACT NOTHING ABOUT POLITICS ON YOUR FIRST DATE.
Have fun
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Bolus (f)
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hey gurl, ive been in those shoes, u shuld know theres nothing new under the sun, this is how my experience went, each time we had to meet, it was quiet and boring, even i felt it. at first i enjoyed the silence because i thot" well, he aint complaining so no sweat" but i bgan to get fed up to even to the extent that when he called, i would feel slummy to even pick up his call nonetheless talking, it was that grumpy! BUT, I TOLD MYSELF, are u ready to loose this guy, NO! Are u bored and tired and need to make change, YES! thats how i realized that i wasnt goin to let mere timidness break us apart, and u know what,,,,, we are still together stronger than ever, its been 8months now and no crack. HOW? i called him and we went swiming, parting and lunch, i figured out, if we both can't talk especially me, then we should show it, and every outing, we ended up laffing out loud. so jst ask him out for fun. go hang out. and avoid quiet areas, u'll only end up making out and not "knowing him intemately" talking is a powerful aid of love, ive been there av done that, good luck, and hey, don't date him because of money or how rich he is or wot car he rides in and wot pef. or watch he wears, u only date and love someone for his simplicity and his ambitions, remember, jst because he aint driving a posh now or an escalade don't mean he wount in some couple of years, check him awt and see if he has the future in his hands, be real,,, be yourself. if words aint comming out of ur mouth, don't force 'em. because if u do, u may end up saying the wrong thing, it happnd to moi! cheers, 
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drokiri (m)
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just give him a mess one day and everything will just start. don't be too much disturbed about conversations, u have to start it somehow, somewhere
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sy2000 (f)
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Girl, there are lots of questions you can ask him. Just be yourself and ask him about his past or something else. That way you guys will flow together. 
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eslynera (f)
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reallllllllly?? 
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Egede (m)
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I am suprised that nobody has mentioned asking the guy where he worships or is everyone in the house an infidel? I just came to the house today and please don't make me run. Anyway, I believe those questions would come naturally except if you are planning to make it an interview section in which case you will loose the guy soon. My advice to my sista; please take it one thing at a time. Peace.
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emini
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Hi Oyinhoney, I will advise you not to be a dog and immitate lion by running after a buffalo else u go wound ooooo. Be yourself don't be deceived by physical things or sweet word.Any guy that want to cash babe dey prepare for all sort of sweet words and can go to any lent just to have u.Ask genuie and reasonable question deeply down from your heart.don't fool yourself by asking qestion just to know a guy backgrand.as time goes on those questions will be answered without asking. guys with good backgrand will like to tell you who they are without asking them. As for me i no dey form for babies ooooo, if you love me, love me for whom i am not for what i have.There you see the true LOVE.
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adeniyi1st (m)
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This is quite intresting, you can tell him the following;
1. What other people appreciate about him 2. Tell him you love him for whom he is 3. Make sure you show sincere appreciation to whatsoever he give you, 4. Do not always complain, 5. Call him from time to time to find out how he is doing
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Dr Lovebug (m)
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Well my fair lady, as a relationship advice guru, i'll say this to you. If you and these guy don't really have much to say to each other, then you probably shouldn't be together in the first place. When people are well suited for each other, things flow as they have similar interests or ideologies. Love is natural and not demanding. trust me.
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dynamo2000 (m)
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The best start is to tell the guy everything about you without hiding anything or tell any lies or fibs  Then, here comes the big one; say the following to the guy as warm and as tender as possible: Honey, just wondering can you tell me everything about yourself the same way I have just done too? 
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rawlings (m)
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Itz quit dangerous to think about asking him which car he uses bkos you already knew him.Am coming up about income is rubbish bkos i think thats deep personal.He may think you are those "FOOD IS READY" KIND OF GIRLS. Thanks, Raw
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Divagal (f)
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gurl, i really feel you because i had a boyfriend just like that. we started flowing after a shaky start, and after we started we couldnt stop talking. now even tho we're no longer together, whenever we meet we talk for hours.the thing is u probably mostly talk on the phone so u hardly see anything to really gist about. if u go out more often you will. and remember the relationship is just starting, so you can't expect to flow like u've been dating for a long time. u are both obviously reserved people, and he's probably feeling just as awkward as u are with the conversation. try not to make it seem like u're looking for what to say, let things flow. and there are times when there's nothing to say, it's natural even with your closest friend.talk about ur day, highlight important aspects.u can even describe a film u saw to him, or a book u read. or another friend's experience. then ask him about his.believe me, once u find common ground u'll spend hours talikng. u go gurl!
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Divagal (f)
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Well my fair lady, as a relationship advice guru, i'll say this to you. If you and these guy don't really have much to say to each other, then you probably shouldn't be together in the first place. When people are well suited for each other, things flow as they have . Love is natural and not demanding. trust me.
i don't mean to be rude, but u are not such a good 'relationship advice guru' if u say they shouldnt be together. Considering they only just met, don't u think they need time to first find common ground or 'similar interests or ideologies' as u said?
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hayprof (m)
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The first thing u shuld ask him is -What kind of food do u like? 
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CHRISTEL (f)
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how far would u go 4 d one u love 
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kelvinO (m)
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as far as love carries me, because there's nothing too much when it come's to loving you
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CHRISTEL (f)
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that is so sweet of u kelvin 
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Brownsuga (f)
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Ask him if he is married!!!!!! and if he is run like scooppyyyyy-dooooooooo
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esto (f)
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hey guys,ithink this is enough, am sure she can handle things from here.
Onyi, try and handle this now,because am sure u have had enough goodand bad question to answer.
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MissK (f)
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just 1 question, before u started dating, wt did u use to talk about? can't imagine y there is a sudden lack of yarns
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