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spoilt (f)
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love alone does not pay the mortgage or put porridge in your bowls!  |
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uspry1 (f)
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There are 5 top reasons leading cause of marital unhappiness and divorce---not just Nigeria, everywhere in the world:
1. failure financial compromise. (too many disagreements or arguement without sitting down to resolve money issues)
2. incompatible relationship. (different religious, different beliefs, different race, different tribe, etc.)
3. infidelity/adultery
4. lack of communication (too little or never)
5. sexual satisfactory (low sex drive, high sex drive, or inexperience in sex)
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omoge (f)
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lol na big true you talk o babyosisi imagine not having money to pay in western world like USA where BILLS is everything and unending? can't tell your landlord i don't have money to pay for the apartment or the mortgage company i don't have money to pay for the house. it's not easy when you can't afford things when you are married, ha the kids dey there too. Lack of money sure cause unhappiness in marriage. it's a starter of many headache. no money to pay bills, for good food etc. so much will be on your mind that even sex which people believe is important in marriage will be a distant thing. oh well lack of money, that's tough. Money is definitely not everything but the lack of it is catastrophic in any marriage.
Girls please do not marry a jobless man.
When the chips are down, love will not turn into a plate of jollof rice!!
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Echidime (m)
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The course is improper TRADITIONAL WEDDING which make both couples commited to each other, not money. If you marry because of money , you will go when the money will finish. Remember nothing last forever except the LOVE of GOD on our life, that love is what we share with each other husband and wife.
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Mamas (f)
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yah but not all the time.
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unixcrew3 (m)
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[b][/b] I THINK THIS IS A VERY ISSUE WE MUST FACE IN OUR SOCIETY TODAY, LET'S BE REALISTIC FOR ONCE IF YOU TAKE A CLOSER LOOK AT NIGERIA GIRLS TODAY SORRY TO SAY THIS, 80% OF THE GIRLS BELIEVE MONEY IS EVERYTHING WHICH IS NOT SO. BASED ON MY OWN IDEAS I THINK GOING FOR THE MONEY IS NOT WORTH IT COZ THE MONEY CAN STILL FINISH SOMEDAY DEPENDING ON THE SOURCE HE'S MAKING THE MONEY FROM, WHAT REALL MATTERS IS WHAT THE PERSON DO FOR A LIVING. NIGERIAN IS A BAD PLACE WHERE WHERE EVERYBODY THINKS YOU USE MONEY TO MAKE MONEY, WHITE MEN BELIVE YOU USE YOUR KNOLEDGE TO MAKE MONEY. WANNA SLEEP NOW IT'S LATE, I'LL SAY MORE SOON.
Unix Crew Team (Irc Opper)
Peace Out
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promise72 (m)
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Marriage is like and engine. Money is the engine oil that lubricates. It has to be in appriopriate/moderation for a well oiled machine. No more no less.
Little problem will be overblown if thers no money in the marriage. Divorce will not be too far down the road.
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mazaje (m)
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I will still say it again and again money is extreamly important in a marriage setting with out it a marriage will crumble, not necessarily through divorce but there wont be happiness and there will be too much bitterness.
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DeGlory (f)
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@ Trea_z I am not married as well but i know that in this World we are, Money is power , it answers almost all question.
Yeah every one says Money is the root to all evil, but i believe that the lack of money is da root to all evil.
So the lack of money can be a cause of Marital unhappiness if the couples allows it to be
LOVE IS STRONGER THAN MONEY, LOVE over Comes ALL THINGS !
Is there Genuine love in that marriage?
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blacklion (m)
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Girls please do not marry a jobless man. When the chips are down, love will not turn into a plate of jollof rice!! Yes, that's an Igbo chick talking!!! |
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emiemi (f)
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I would say i disagree that the lack of money in a home is the leading cause of divorce although in the absence of it, the marriage might suffer some 'tribulations', God help if the woman is a 'high taste madam'. There are still some families where u'll find are just 'ok' financially but they are quite happy with one other(husband, wife and kids) and on the other hand, rich families where there isn't happinessat all. It's all a matter of what brought the two people together in the first place, love or money?
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omena555 (f)
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i would say that the chief causes of marital unhappiness is
1) lack of effective communication
2) not appreciated your partner
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almondjoy (f)
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i would say that the chief causes of marital unhappiness is
1) lack of effective communication
2) not appreciated your partner
You can forgive those if money dey now.  If no money, no amount of communicaion and appreciation will prevent you from fighting every morning before you brush your teeth.  I agree. Money palaver is the #1 culprit in damaging marital relationship. Even worse than infidelity. |
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nwando
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Bob Marley sang no woman,no cry me I say no money,no love |
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